How come some girls are never single while others (me) Can't even get one date?

[Anonymous]

How come some girls are never single while others (me) Can't even get one date?

I've noticed that some girls are always dating. It's almost impossible to see her single. How do they do that? I know it's not the looks. Could it be their confidence?

I mean I'm pretty sure I have a nice personality and I am confident. But last time I got asked out was in June. I have no problems with guys I have a lot of guy friends. I'm not a tomboy, people say I'm girlie but I doubt that this is the case. So any advice?

[Anonymous]

Alot of my friends are like that..they're never single. well, 1 of em told me that for her she jus always need 2 b with someone or else she'll start feeling lonely & insecure. so I'm not saying that applies 4 every girl but it most likely apply for a lot of girls.

As 4 u, Idk..maybe you're 2 picky? I don't know u, so I'm just throwing out some possibilties. maybe you need 2 b more open minded like if a guy ask you out & you write him off immmediately because he's "not your type" or he 's not "that cute", you should still go out with him and see how everything turns out.

Another reason could be that you're 2 laid back. If you don't wanna flat out ask him for a date cause you're uncomfortable doing that then that's understanding but @ least ask indirectly or be less blunt about it. If you like a guy, don't wait for him 2 say the 1st word,or ask 4 your #, etc. be confident and go after whoever you want.

[Asker]

you're kinda right. I am too picky. But I still don't get how those girls constantly get dates? I mean do they have some sort of reputation that they go out with whoever asks them out? So it's easier for guys to approach them?

[Opinion Owner]

I hate 2 keep using my friends as references because they don't represent every girl in the world, but I know 4 them, they go out with basically any guy that show them interest. Sum of em are easy 2 & settle for FWB. do you go out alot? R you outgoing? going out is a good way 2 meet ppl. you don't hav 2 date random guys but become more open minded.

[jokersgirl]

i think that girls who are constantly dating a new guy every few months are just insecure about themselves. If you hang out with guys all the time (like me) they probably think you don't want to date them or aren't interested.. maybe try asking a guy out that you like?

[Asker]

Well I am nice to everyone. Could that be it? I'm too nice?

I don't know I had a bad experience once with a guy I asked out. I don't really like doing it.

[IHateMeganFox]

Yeah I know of those girls a lot of them are really pretty though. I'm with you though, last time I got asked out it was a from a closeted gay man named Stu.

[Asker]

Funny! because the girls who I know are pretty average. Nothing special. They just get a lot of dates for some reason.

and LMAO! That just made me laugh.

[IHateMeganFox]

lol I'm glad.

[IHateMeganFox]

about the laughing part that is haha.

[sunmonster]

Mmk, you are obviously in high school. In high school guys, or at least me, would ask out girls who would f*** on the 1st date...or 3rd date. If you're not DTF you won't get asked out.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

This.

[Asker]

Are you serious?

[shacodraco]

they're probably easier than you so guys go after them. once you get that rep in high school it pretty much stays with you lol

[love23c]

Be more confident. Girls that are never single are usually lonely or "boy crazy" and it is true guys ask girls out sometimes just to F*** but that's why you go after guys you like guys the ones you see as the nice kind but if you just sit and wait for guys to ask you it might take awhile. Guys love confidence too!

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Maybe its because she's a serial dater.

[Asker]

What does that mean?

[Xx_DRE_xX]

She can never be single herself so she throws herself in relationships because she's afraid of being alone but also doesn't know how to love herself

[Asker]

Okay, but that doesn't really answer my question. How is she getting all these guys to date her? It's like every guy she meets asks her out.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

She's probably that gorgeous or she's a slut that's being passed around jeez.

[Anonymous]

They probably look pretty.

[Asker]

LMAO! This has nothing with them being never single. And when I say never single I don't mean dating one guy for 1 year. I mean dating 365 guy in a year.