After that night he would text and call me several times a day even though we saw each other everyday at work. His texts always included things like how he missed me and wanted to see me. He was really sweet to me and always made sure I was OK. He would call me first thing when he woke up and he would call me after I left work every night. He would cook me dinner and lunch sometimes too.
Things were going very well between us until there were some pretty serious conflicts that happened at work which resulted in him quitting. Even after he left, he still texted and called me to make sure I was ok and everything. So even after he left, he never stopped caring for me. I questioned him a few times about whether he had a girlfriend or not because a coworker told me that he had one and was lying to me. He told me that he didn't and that I was the only one in his heart. After awhile, I felt myself starting to like him.
But the other day, I came across his Facebook page and saw that he was in a relationship with a girl already. I instantly started ignoring his texts and stopped answering his calls. I feel hurt that he's been lying to me this whole time. He hasn't called or texted me in a few days now but I'm finding myself starting to miss him and that I want him back in my life. My heart hurts but I want him to contact me again. I'm scared that if I confront him about him having a girlfriend, I really will lose him forever. I don't want him gone from my life but I can't pretend that I don't know the truth. Please reason with me, I don't know what I should do. I want to tell him that I miss him but I want him to be the one reaching out to me. Should I confront him and find out why he's been leading me on or just keep on ignoring him?
Most Helpful Opinions