Boyfriend wants me to lie about how we met?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend doesn’t want people to know we met on an online dating app. He feels abit embarrassed. He’d like to make up a story about how we met at university. I don’t really mind. Is it bad that he wants to do this?

[Throwawaynowknow]

When online dating first came out, this was a thing then since it had a negative connotation for the people who needed to go online to find someone (pre tinder so this was actually online dating not online hookup or online validation. Now days it's probably close to the most common way for relationships to begin.

Either way, if you okay with making him feel at ease a on this then y'all golden. I can't think of any reason why it would be bad other than he the possibility of he not wanting an ex perhaps to know that has been using a dating app if for example he just got out of a relationship.

[Kabluie]

Not at all bad, I had an earlier girlfriend that wanted the same meeting differently angle. It was mainly to keep the messaging clear because her parents might be weirded out by such. It's also not far fetched or lie to say you met at university, even if it took online to make it happen. That was what we did.

[EmmaMary]

It's certainly not something I would be inclined to do, for you don't know what he would want to lie about next... Red Flag for me... Sorry.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Anonymous]

I always love it when I woman on an online site says, "we can lie about how we met". Because that's a CLEAR red flag. I will not date women that says that. If she thinks she's too good for online dating then she's not a nice person.

My personally opinion is this needs to get some BALLS.

[jahaims]

Immature

[shades777]

who cares