I’m in a relationship but I’m starting to have feelings for another girl. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

January 3 2021:I matched this girl on Tinder. We got to know each other a bit. From January 4th 2021 to now we spoke every single day. January 19 2021:I matched a girl on bumble (who is now my current girlfriend) we only hung out any day I had off from work and I would sleep over the night before. we’ve been dating since April 6 2021.
August 7 2021:I went out the bar/club with my guys. Leaving the bar I saw tinder girl out on the street leaving another bar and she spotted me (it was her birthday) we spoke for a little bit and hugged and went out separate ways. On my way home she hit me up and we talked. She said she wanted me to come over, but that I had a girlfriend and she can’t be like that. I then told her I would come over if I didn’t have girlfriend. August 22 2021:My girlfriend left for New Orleans. She stayed down there for a whole year. While she was down there it was pretty hard for me to deal with because I practically been in long distance relationships my whole life. I began to question myself if I really wanted to be in this relationship because of the distance. I also grew closer with Tinder girl.
July 17 2022:My girlfriend came home early and I went to meet her. I was happy she was home but I didn’t know how long I’d be happy for. As time kept passing by me and tinder girl kept talking as usual like we did everyday. Today:Now that my girlfriend has her own apartment I get to see her a lot more. Some days I just get annoyed when she asks me the same questions over and over again ( for example: do you still love me? Do you want to be with me?) she would ask this question at least every day ever since we became a couple. I know people need reassurance on things but I think it’s too much. Plus, talking to tinder girl, we understand eachother ( at least I think) I asked her a question why we never hung out and if it was my fault we never did. She said it was kinda her fault and other things. I began to care for her.
Any Ideas?

[Jamie05rhs]

Here's where you fucked up:
You should have cut the other girl off and stopped talking to her as soon as your relationship became official with your girlfriend. Real men don't keep orbiters. That's what these modern disloyal women do. Don't be like them.

You wouldn't be in this situation if you hadn't made the mistake you made and handled this so inappropriately.

But now you need to do the hard thing and fix it.

[msc545]

It is important for you to realize that these women are all interchangeable. You will have the same issues with each woman you are with eventually, so it really doesn't matter which one you are with. Pick the one that annoys you the least and that you have the best sex with.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Can someone acknowledge how problematic it is to be texting this other tinder girl everyday since January when you have a girlfriend?

Like, stay or don't stay with your girlfriend bro, but if I ever 'found out' my boyfriend had a girl on semi standby, I'd dump him myself. Both girls deserve better. You can be better. Pick one or none.

[Pizaz]

Maybe, I don't know, talk to your girlfriend like an adult about what is bothering you?
If her need for reassurance is a problem, talk about it. See if you can work through it.

If you are not in love anymore, break up.

[Light909090]

Stay in the Relationship Fuck the Tinder Girl and tell tinder girl you Broke up with Bumble girl and Date both Girls Without them every knowing Always delete your Text messages So they never know also Turn off Your notifications For your messages apps so The girls never see your phone pop up with Text message from other girls

[Dreamclouds]

There is a big probability the tinder girl is like your girlfriend, be honest with yourself if you are not happy in your relationship break up and see what happens but be sure you don't like your girlfriend, also be a man take a decision playing with a woman feelinga is not ok

[Dreamclouds]

Feelings*

[MCheetah]

This is a giant wall of text I'm not gonna read. What's the TL;DR (too long; didn't read) version?

[77five]

Has a girlfriend but was talking to a girl he knew before her while with the current girlfriend so now he has feelings for the other girl and doesn't wanna be with the current girlfriend anymore but somehow he “doesnt know what to do”.

[MCheetah]

@77five
He should be honest and not continue to hurt the current girlfriend's feelings. And also let it be known that he is the asshole in this situation and that he is doing her a favor by ending the relationship.

[petitedollbabee]

End the relationship. If you truly loved her, you wouldn’t have feelings for anyone else unless you are polyamorous and she is aware of that.

[Anonymous]

Choose no one. Get out of the relationship because that girl deserves better and block the girl from Tinder. She deserves more.

[77five]

I can't believe a whole adult is asking this…… Sounds like a middle school scenario. Jfc…

[Missgingles]

Break up with your girlfriend. Go for the other girl.

[dustybiker]

You’ve already considered leaving your current relationship. Respect her and end it.

[Lilymaryloui]

Choose, don't hurt your girlfriend, she deserves better

[dreamstar72]

You need to talk to a real therapist. Or take a break from both girls.

[TheoPfeifle]

Break up with the girl that's obviously annoying you.

Date the girl you obviously really like.

It's that easy.

[Anonymous]

Stay in relationship, fuck the new girl. Problem solved

[77five]

Please stay single

[Jamesshinobi]

relationships are just traps basic bitches use to trap men of talent. go for the new bitch

[Aphrodite801]

Old and bitter, embarrassing.

[Anonymous]

Some or many comments of the GaG males explain why western women initiate divorce since they support cheating

[Aphrodite801]

😂😂😂🤣