How do you stop the pain of being lonely and single? (Page 2)

[Kaamraj]

"I can't find anyone that fits my standards." - Maybe who you are imagining is an idealized fantasy male who is one is a million. Good luck finding him, or in your case as you're shy, him finding you.

[RickVienna]

Oh sweety your are so young. Time will come and Mr. Right suddenly is in front of you. So no worries. But I can feel with you. I had only short relationships. There is one thing I can't change. My small penis. Most women don't like to have a relationship with such a small man...

[dray995]

- What are your standards and type for a guy?
- You don’t need to lower your standards for a guy, unless your expectations are too high but who is to say that they are?
- What values do you measure your own standards by?

[Asker]

honestly at this point, the bare minimum. a decent well educated guy that is kind and has sense of humour. but all i find is guys that are either too mean, or empty headed that don't care about anything but the superficial stuff.

[2021biguy]

Don't worry, you're not old. It's not easy in today's world though. Try to do things you like and don't get upset over it, just try to make friends at least.

[Danish87]

You are just 22, it's time when people start entering into relationship. So just relax and find one.

[kitty71]

Dont feel bad girl, you are young still to discover things. Ask that to a person who is 50 and in your exact same position, imagine that 50 yrd old person, is worse for that 50 your situation. Im in taht situation and im not getting any younger.

[Jack9949]

I understand what you’re going through because I was once there before. But at the end of the day all you can really do is learn to accept yourself

[JolenetheTractor]

Live your life, find a hobby make yourself into someone who people want to be around. If you value yourself other people will too

[TheFlak38]

lonely women are lonely by choice. if you're not happy with the millions of options you have then only you are to blame.

[Asker]

i HAD choices, 3 years ago, but i was 19 then and i had just graduated high school and i was still trying to find myself in the world. and most of the guys that tried to be with me were in their mid or late twenties and i felt so intimidated. but now since the coronavirus i really haven't been able to meet new people and even when i do i require time to really open up to someone, and most guys want the easiest and quickest relationships. i'm not like that i need to get to know people first and see how they think and how they act. is it that hard to ask for something real these days?

[TheFlak38]

Spare me the excuses. No other creature in this universe today has more options that the female human. The entire sexual marketplace is rigged in your favour. All you have to do is post on social media "I'm so lonely" the masses of thirsty, lonely, desperate men will turn the world upside down to help you. All you have to do is pick one. If you're not happy with your millions of options then that's on you.

[MadBoy]

Well I'm 25 and single all my life. So you're already better off on that. As for stopping the pain... I kinda just suppress it through video games, music, and youtube. Anything that keeps sound going into my head to keep the noise in my head quiet.

[Bean2thousand]

Love is a trick that nature plays on your mind so that you will propagate the species. Consider yourself not delusional.

[OG956]

I can calm u down. I'm 26 (gonna be 27 in January), I had 1 relationship, and even that I feel lonely, I don't want 2 have any other relationship (don't want 2 burn myself again). Only would like 2 find friends.

[Anonymous]

Had to check if this wasn't my question lol
Girl I have no idea how to make things better either but I'm 22 and feeling exactly the same as you if that can ease your mind a little

[red324]

Happiness is a state of mind. Find something you enjoy doing that makes you happy. Remember dating is a pain in the was and isn't worth being unhappy over.

[Andres77]

Don't lower your standards!!!
You'll meet your guy but if you're committed to someone else you settled for... big regret.

[RingOfFire]

I find that heavy drinking can work wonders on this problem.

[Asker]

Oh god 😂😂

[RingOfFire]

😘

Remember that life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the journey, and when the time is right, you will find a traveling partner.

[Aether1]

I feel the same as you, I'm 28 and I've never had a girlfriend and never been kissed. A lot of days I feel sad.

Can we chat by PM?

[Ninjazzed]

You’re barely beginning your life, how do you figure that you’re too old?

[justamomentago]

being alone and feeling lonely are 2 separate things. enjoying life one way or another is a choice. one enjoys the sound of the sea, another can't stand it for more than 5 minutes. the sound within is neither wrong or right. it is up to you.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

You’re 22 and female; you’re either not lonely or you’re a liar.

[Anonymous]

By not focusing on it. Stay busy and focused on other things. And think of the advantages to being single, because there are lots.

[Daniel3035]

25 feel the exact same way so sick and tired of waiting.

[WhereIsMyLover]

I have been wanting a girl like you SO BAD. Please message me.

[matthonker]

lmao someone’s desperate

[WhereIsMyLover]

@matthonker
I am looking specifically for a woman without a romantic past.

[Anonymous]

Bruh i am 17 and in as much pain as you how does this work.

[Anonymous]

You are not too old. It is good that you dont rush and give yourself time. I personally prefere young clingy virgin men. So i am also clingy

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Just try not to care like the guy in Plague Doctor Gangsta Paradise

[JesseJayNeak]

Avoid being picky and don't focus on looks because you can't change a guy who's attractive to cater to you

[Anonymous]

instead of stopping the pain you should learn to live with being alone. We all need to function while we are alone.

[TheAfrikan]

Simply you do need to get into your hobbies more often.

[ALewis30]

I wish I knew. But I don't know. I'm just a piece of shit now to people.

[Blaine999]

We both have the same problem luv, I can't tell you just how much I wish I knew the answer 😟

[Jmmmfi4]

I wish I had an answer cuz I struggle with it every single day

[Anonymous]

I am 30 and alone what will you have to say about thins? :( :( :( :(

[Anonymous]

I can kinda relate, do you have any updates relating to new experience's

[Ryfyle]

This seems like a question written by a Man.

[Asker]

I’m so offended right now haha 🥲

[Ryfyle]

Well most men are just going to eat a gun and die alone, And what you wrote sounds like the cry of help from some neckbeard Soy Fiend. Your too deep in some bullshit of your own making. Your Standards will leave you to a Cat Collection and Boxed wine. Like your whole life you slapped down in some comments make me wonder if you want a relationship and this is a cry for attention.

[Iron_Man]

Try Christian Mingles

[anylolone]

Be satisfied with yourself.

[Anonymous]

Have you tried dating apps or online dating?

[Asker]

i really don't want to seem close-minded but that is not a way i would like to meet someone i'm sorry. :(

[Opinion Owner]

Well then you're limiting yourself a lot, plus, most people will agree that the average woman has way more options on online dating or dating apps than the average guy does

[David_Bayer]

Have some fun on your own.

[MudRucker]

Send me a DM if you need some one to talk to?

[Silvius]

Become more confident

[Weasel1983]

Im single and don’t worry about it

[Jamie05rhs]

What IS your type?

[Asker]

A decent guy who is kind, well educated, open-minded and has a good sense of humour. I want someone who is patient with me, who i can trust and also opens my mind to new things. Most of the guys i meet nowadays are so shallow or very uneducated. And i can never find a deep connection with them even my guy friends. It’s very rare that i find a guy that i actually find attractive because guys my age are so immature, and older guys are either settled down or looking for women their age. And i’m only exposed to older guys when i’m introduced to them by my older relatives because i’m still in college and only meet people my age and i’m sure my relatives do a very good job of making sure everyone knows i’m “off limits” and “too young”.

[Jamie05rhs]

What is your process for ascertaining whether or not someone is "well educated"? Do you ask them to provide their educational credentials? Or do you engage them in conversation?

[Asker]

Well educated as someone who likes to read, learns about new things and topics, open-minded, wise and has good judgment. You can know by the way they choose their words and speak, by their opinions on different topics, by how they choose to react and WHEN to react. I find guys who read to be very attractive beyond anything. But i haven’t met any, all guys i meet only care about women, the gym and football, they talk about nothing else and that’s why i think i will forever be alone because i’m simply looking for someone who doesn’t even exist. Or VERY hard to find. I’m also very shy so it’s rare that this kind of guy would ever magically find me and pursue me.

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, most men, once they reach adulthood, become very goal oriented. Reading is very time-consuming; so if reading a book doesn't meet a particular goal, they won't do it.
However, I guarantee you that if you tell him he will get a date with you if he reads the book, he'll read the book.

[Asker]

Reading is time consuming but it’s one of the most important things, i would wish that he reads for his own self and knowledge not just to please me. But either way i would be appreciative that he would do something he doesn’t normally do just for me. But yeah thank you for your opinion :)

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome.

[COMMODOREII]

Who do you want?

[Asker]

ryan gosling from the notebook? is that you?

[COMMODOREII]

Lol 😂😂

[Grubhub]

Porn

[Asianguy123]

go back to Europe

[player61526]

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