Why do women always ignore me on social media. Like, are they only into the hot guys?

[Anonymous]

What I look like... But I don't seem to have any luck

[hahahmm]

A. Most young women only want constant gratification & entertainment. If you're a young guy who is looking for a serious relationship/something deep they will ignore you. Probably true of 50% of young women in general but maybe 80-90% of single/often single women on social media. Even IF on a conscious level you think you just want sex... if you really want more deep down, they can sniff that out from 100 miles away cause you'll give it away in your actions/words at some point. It's also true that a lot of women DO like having a guy around who makes them feel like he wants more than sex to go along with the 200+ guys she knows want sex from her. But she doesn't need a lot of those guys who want more around. One is more than enough. She already has that guy in the friendzone.

B. But what if all you wanted was sex yourself.. Okay, she already has literally hundreds of guys pumping her ego up all the time and available for sex. She doesn't need you. It's like you're applying for a job at a place that gets 10,000 applications and only has 1 opening. You're wasting your time. She has her hands full with however many guys she wants. She has no time to consider you. Yes, if you stood out from the crowd she might.

You shouldn't want to get a female who thinks you're worth zero or almost zero. A lot of these women think that way even about the guys they do get with. You're better off finding the females who don't think that way.

[Asker]

Am I am attractive man at least?

[hahahmm]

I honestly never learned to rated dudes or cared about it. I mean, if a guy has a strong jaw and high cheekbones I can imagine he's got feature some like but I don't rate dudes so *shrug*

[hahahmm]

And the vast majority of women will get with a guy based on his charisma or other things... little to do with looks really. It just happens that lots of guys have multiple things that make them attractive but you can get women without having looks.

[Asker]

I mean, I hope I get the girl in looking for

[ChiTown33]

Honestly because those guys are putting in work with those women. Women have tremendous egos. There was a study done once and do you know what word women love to hear more than any other? Their own name. That's how egotistical they are. I'd almost guarantee you these women flock around these guys because he's feeding her ego. She's like a moth to a flame. Yes looks b helps a lot. But you could look like Brad Pitt and if you aren't talking to her she isn't noticing you.

[Asker]

Thank you, that's some really good advice.
. I personally love girls, but I'm struggling finding a girlfriend tbh

[ChiTown33]

Well finding a girlfriend is another matter. It's fairly easy to attract random women. All you have to do is be cast in the right light. When I go to concerts or music festivals I'm always approached by at least 1 woman. Why? Cause I'm having fun and that attracts them. Just relax man. And have fun there are billions of women on the planet. You'll never meet them all so there's always another. And that's got to be your mindset.