Why do other women always ignore me?

[Anonymous]

Most women dislike me at first sight. When I have to join a new group of girls I can tell that some of them roll their eyes and none of them make an effort to say hi to me back or to introduce themselves to me even though they do it to everyone else. I've been told that I smell and dress nice, I'm not a pushover and I'm not super ugly. What exactly could I be doing wrong? It starts even before I open my mouth.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girllll that's so annoying when other girls act like that! A few thoughts:

- Competition thing maybe? Some girls just isolate what they see as "attractive threats" for no reason. Don't take it personally!

- Could be petty jealousy if you naturally exude confidence without even trying. Some see that as intimidating.

- Could also be a vibe thing - stressed girls sometimes project their attitude without cause. Their issue, not yours.

- Maybe try initiating the introductions yourself next time with a big friendly smile. Kill them with kindness!

- Spend less time focusing on those haters and more time bonding with girls who seem open and nice to you.

Don't change yourself - you sound sweet! Keep shining and own it, the right peeps will see that. Might take time to find your squad, but you'll find them and they'll love you for you.

And know that it's not usually anything you're doing - some girls just insecure and immature. Chin up sis, this too shall pass!

[bellissimoe]

You're probably ugly

[Asker]

I'm better looking than most of them