What should I do? Should I ask him on a second date or should I wait? Does he know that I’m interested in him?

[KellieMae]

I went on a date a week ago with a coworker and it went really well, I think, it lasted longer than expected like 5 hours long. Conversation flowed nicely very fluid. After the date he asked me for a hug and we hugged and both said we should do this again. The next day I messaged him to thank him and tell him I had fun and should to do this soon, to which he responded that he was down to do it again and had fun as well and said let’s wait for our schedules to come out and we will plan from there and sent a flirty emoji. It’s been a little over week since he said that. He’s not a texter so we don’t message everyday, mainly when see each other at work. I’ve seen him at work and he’s real flirty, checking me out, flirty bantering, trying to touch me, etc. I really like him and I don’t want to scare him away. Any advice would help!

[richard1988]

Take the initiative and be bold and ask him out it might be a bit scary but I think that it will work and this way he will know that you like him without you having to tell him that you like him and that might make him then tell you that he likes you so I would suggest that you just ask him out and then just see what he says. I hope what I said helps you. X

[aintnocandle]

Showing interest in someone will never scare someone away who is also interested in you. Be bold, ask him when you guys can see each other again and if he wants to he will say a date. Maybe it’s just where I’m at but I don’t shy away anymore. Either someone is worth my time or they aren’t and if a guy things i come on too strong because I’m asking to see him again specifically then he already has a foot out the door anyways and it’s good to know that early on.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You've messaged him so he knows how you feel. Now you have to sit back and wait for him to make the next move. I know you said he isn't a texter, but he has your phone number. It's on him to call you.

[dudeinohio]

yeah, ask him out

[In_Trance]

Ask him

[FEARLESSHERO]

Ask him out