meanwhile women just sit back and be much more selective and smart about the partners they pick.
Most men just try to get anything that they can manage to find
Let’s just say I am not desperate enough to invest the energy for a bunch of the typical bullshit. Most of my sex has been from women that pursue me—pushy horny critters some of which desperately sought baking a loaf in the oven. It really is the best but only live with them for a week max. I had one of these women tell me that she only had sex with me because she hated my guts; sht all of them do actually. If I actually do accidentally stumble on a feminine woman (haha), I will conjure the energy, as it occurred very rarely. The basic problem I have now is immediately when a modern woman opens her mouth I am actually looking for an exit sign before she finishes a sentence—I can’t take any of them serious anymore beyond hello. The best thing I suggest for these modern women are to just push a guy over, f-him and never say a damn thing about anything. Just keep the garbage in your heads in there. This actually happened to me once and I appreciated her practicing mute. Why are men more desperate than women…? Show me a woman I say. I have yet to find any domestic. They have been conditioned to men-brains and that generates hate for men because men are now seen as competition. I don’t believe that any of you male-brains with ovaries have any concept of the hate that spews from you. You can see it as a hate cloud in special long wave light. A funny story at a club was I with a group of guys at a table looked at about 20 women dancing alone. Now any sane male knows that if he tries to break into that, they shall attack. I used to crash women’s tables and they would scream like hell at me but one would usually take interest. But back to the dancing harpies, I bet these guys that I would pickup and f the ugliest woman in the place. Looked around, that wasn’t hard to find, went over to her table talked to her under 5min and we were headed to the door to her place where, it was difficult, but we f ed. She was happy; I was nauseous. So these guys later told me that “you should have seen the evil looks on you (me) from all these dancing women as we (me and beautiful) were heading out.” You women are just f-ed in the head. Why put on such an attention game fortified by a shield of attention dopamine and then be pissed when a guy is obviously going to get laid by a -10. I am just busting a gut here remembering this stupid sht. Anyways, I find this question humorous and couldn’t help but sht on it. I could go on and on with this stupid crap.
“meanwhile women just sit back and be much more selective and smart about the partners they pick.” Enjoy that while I do the easy ones.
Testosterone creates far more urgency than estrogen.
Come get me sugar
@Babygirlsweetheart1 Threaten me with a good time.
How does 10 kids sound? Cause i am not a toy. I am a woman to be cherished.
Men are chasers, they're supposed to be the ones to pursue the woman not the other way around. If we do the chasing then we're more open to rejection and play the masculine one then leaving the man to be feminine, we can handle rejection but men were built for it- they take it easier. At leat this is what I heard I don't know if it's 100% true which most likely it isn't.
Because everyone know they want to have sex desparately and women aren't soo desparate compared to them
Opinion
34Opinion
Because women are generally pretty and "tender" or "soft", what is attractive all by itself without having any other traits. Men, on the other hand, don't get many compliments about them being attractive, meaning both being handsome or having attractive traits.
Another fact - girls don't approach guys. They stare at us instead and we don't know what else to do than to approach them. If you don't do that, she doesn't come. Never. Even if she likes you or wants to get to know you. If women were less shy and more direct, it would certainly balance out this "desperation" and "neediness". That just my opinion, though.
Yes and no.
guys do have to put some effort in.
however it’s really common where I live for girls to approach guys, flirt with them or simply ask them out, I guess it’s a sign of confident girls.
the selectivity works both ways as everyone values certain things over other bits.
There is then the entire subjective jungle of what is acceptable.
people look for different things it’s not just looks, it’s values, it’s personality etc.
You ain’t been out for a night in Newcastle lol.
Even Liverpool, Glasgow etc.
Well yeah numbers show that
But it’s common here as confident women I guess
Because all women have guys chasing them. If you're average or even below average looking you're going to draw attention.
Most guys don't have anyone chasing them, they lack affection and it becomes something they crave.
In truth, most guys are so lonely for any level of affection that a simple compliment is enough to win their hearts over.
Its simple economics. Women own vaginas and because, despite the fact they are 52% of their popular delusions of entitlement have led them to create an artificial shortage. I just bought a house. Because of a shortage of inventory it was a sellers' market and I had to get into bidding wars to buy. Its the same thing with vagina.
Answered your own question, women are much more selective. I also believe guys have a higher sex drive. And it's much easier to turn us on than women. All we need sometimes is a visual, which we see daily. Women usually need a lot more than that to even start to be aroused.
Women also have the fear of "appearing desperate", which is ridiculous, but guys don't care.
You're just a troll b**ch who is actually very desperate for men because no guy has ever approached you.
Everyone knows being desperate for the opposite sex isn't gender specific. Many women just lie because they are very desperate (probably even more than men)
this is in the animal kingdom the males are more beautiful and have to try harder, birds especially. The females all have to be wooed and dont need a georgous plumage the longest horns or the biggest claw to get fucked. Humans are just like animals when you zoom out
According to the questions on here I think you're absolutely right for me I'm very picky if she is not the person for me then she's not the person for me I will take my time and find what I want
It's not really desperate all they're trying to do is get laid it's like the old saying
Men give romance to get Sex
Women give sex to get Romance
Hook up minded men can't do anything significant in life. but it's a trend and also is done for instant pleasure.
In long term relationship
evolutionarily saying it's for DNA...
Survival for the fittest... showing his mate that his sperms are strong enough to survive ...
A man can ejaculate about 50.000 times in a lifetime. A woman can only bear about 5-10 children. We biologically feel the need to reproduce 5000-10000 times more. (Doesn't work exactly like that, but should give you a good idea)
That is true of most species that are similar to humans. Males compete for females.
Because women won't give it up as much as we want it! women also have a plethora of toys to pick from that are very cheap to buy. Men only have a couple choices and they usually cost at least $100 @!!
Women date who they want.
Men date whi they can.
Women marry who they can.
Men marry who they want.
Both true
Correction. Simps are the desperate ones, men are not.
they're equally desparate. just desparate for different things.
so? is "approaching" a sign of "desparation"? if so, how would any man would ever meet any woman ever?
I disagree with that. It's not desparation if you go to get what you want. Yes an approach can be desperate but it isn't by default.
no that's wrong. men and women have equally strong needs for each other. and "waning" each other or "approaching" each other isn't desparate at all.
what men want in women is just a bit different than what women want in men and the ways in which they go about their desires are different. though both men and women are equally intersted in having a good partner.
simply cultural tradition. nothing more.
and even if you were right and men actually wanted women more. that still wouldn't make men that approach women desparate by default.
let me make an easy to understand analogy:
a person who's lost in the desert for days without water, close to die of thirst maybe described as "desparate" for water.
a person who sits in a restaurant, ordering a water isn't desparate. they just want a water.
see what i'm trying to say?
dating someone is how you get a partner. so doing what needs to be done to have a partner isn't desparate.
Do you realize approaching someone is something that NOBODY likes to do?
Its not as if you're thirsty and you're ordering a glass of water. Its not that easy.
You would have want women very much to an extreme extent to do something as hard as approaching at asking out a complete stranger.
The fact that 95% of approaching is done by men, it shows that men are clearly the gender that is more "IN NEED" of women.
how does any of what you said define the act of men asking women out as "desparate"? i guess your definition of desparation is what this entgire conversation is piveting around.
like a desparate person would not ask a woman out. cause "desparation" means they have no hope. why would they ask a woman out if they have no hope?
ok. then by your definition, asking a girl out on a date is not desparate. cause she can say no. and if she says no, we go on with our lifes.
if we were hellbent on dating that girl that already said no, "that" is the point where it turns desparate.
Ok now you're tjust turning around in circles with your bullshit definition of desparation. I'm out.
Biology + Evolution.
There's nothing good or bad about it. It's just what it is.
Simple. They are hornier. A girl can get sex whenever she wants it. Guys have to work for it.
I don't know
I find most men gross
The way they hit on girls on Howdoilook and crave for sex
Because you have a bunch of choices to pick from while we don't. I'd much rather have 10,000 messages in my inbox than have every message I send get no response back.
Hahah! Aww
@Babewithplan well, its true.
I’m sure the right one will respond
@Babewithplan yeah I'm sick of hearing that. If the right one was going to respond it would've happened already. I've been using dating apps for 5 years with no success. How long do I gotta wait 20 years? I'm just wasting my own time.
Or maybe most women just have really high standards? Because I look like a regular freaking guy.
It’s gotta be the energy you’re putting out there. Women can really smell that shit even from behind the screen and in a different continent. You’re giving off “desperate” vibes and it’s making you unattractive (despite how you look).
Try changing your perspective on dating
@aliali8 Why so toxic?
@aliali8 Sweetie there’s no need to rub salt on someone’s wound.
@Babewithplan what does being desperate even look like? I don't think I'm doing anything to look desperate. I just read their profile and send messages based on what I read. Sounds normal to me
@aliali8 oh let me guess you're one of those hot girls who gets any guy she wants right? Bet it feels nice
I didn’t say you look desperate. I said you out out desperate energy. People can sense that, clearly.
No, it’s me who’s the hot girl that gets any guy I want. She sounds as though she’s been hurt, so taking it out in others on GAG.
On**
Put* typos.
@Babewithplan I'm not really sure what desperate energy looks like either. Are you saying that maybe I'm too anxious? I don't think I'm doing anything that shows desperation besides maybe complaining about my failures on GaG.
Oh are you? I still envy you. Minus the creeps you may have to go through. I don't know why she would take it out on me if we're both in the same boat.
You both sound bitter about the situation LOL
Pm me and I’ll tell you exactly what to do to fix your situation.
@Babewithplan I can't. You only allow follows to pm you.
Mate, you’re anonymous
@Babewithplan I just followed you.
Messaged
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions