My dad is dating someone with young kids is it bad I dont really do anything with the kids?

[Anonymous]

[MTC29]

In fact, it's better you stay clear of them. Suppose they like you? Then, if your father and the kids mother break up, they'll miss their Aunt Anonymous.

On the other (not so pleasant) hand, my own mother was a single mother and I didn't want guys getting near her! It's bad enough I have to deal with "That Guy", now I've got to deal with one of "That Guy's" kids (adult or not)? No thank you!

Honestly, you'd be doing everyone a favor by staying in the background.

[ChrisMaster69]

First question, is your age correct?

as at that age it’s really all up to your dad what he does.

however at his age he will find them exhausting lol.

his call on it, you really should not be involved.

in fact watch you out that you are not simply used as a babysitter

[Asker]

I'm about 28 I'm home for now until I move out next month

[ChrisMaster69]

Just keep out of the way, or you will end up with a role.

Just find something else to do.

[Asker]

What do you mean role

[ChrisMaster69]

Babysitter, help shopping, basically unpaid help.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon thank you most appreciated

[slatyb]

That's your choice. You have no obligation to connect with his girlfriend's children. If I were you I would wait quite a while before meeting them, like when your father and their mother are planning a wedding. Children become attached easily and you don't want to be in and then out of their lives.

[Asker]

There is no wedding

[slatyb]

Ever? I would give it several months before meeting her children.

[Interstate]

No, certainly not. This is the time that they need to be spending together to determine their compatibility. If they feel there is potential, I would ask him if he minded asking her if she would object to you getting involved socially with the kids. This will give her an idea of how you interact with them.

[Avicenna]

Not at all, it's perfectly legit not to want to do that

[Asker]

I find kids kinda exhausting a little 🙈

[Avicenna]

They are if you aren't used to them

[Asker]

I'll never get used to kids if you ask me

[Avicenna]

And that's OK if you don't, but sometimes you surprise yourself. My ex-wife always said she didn't what to have kids and we ended up having three together.

[YOLOIFIC]

No, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to be involved with the children of the person your father is dating. Granted, it might offend your father and/or their new romantic interest but you’re all adults.

[TommyMountainFigure]

No. They aren't YOUR kids. If you want them in your life that's your choice, nobody elses's

[Asker]

I'm 28 I'm back home becuase I just moved back from the states and I'm leaving next month for a 2ms degree

[TommyMountainFigure]

You've got your work cut out with all that cramming you must be doing, so you probably don't need the distraction.
Good luck with getting your masters by the way. What field?

[Browneye57]

What do you have to do with your dads dates? What are we missing here?
Are you really 30-35?

[Asker]

I'm 28 I've just moved back from the states. I move out next month to get on with a 2nd degree. But yeah I'm not really into playing with little kids that much or getting involved

[Browneye57]

Then don't. Just move on with your life.
They're surely not YOUR kids, nor YOUR responsibility. Frankly, I think your dad is either desperate or nuts. She must be some piece of ass huh?

[Asker]

I'm thinking desperate if you ask me

[Asker]

Omg she's bringing all her kids to stay over this weekend... pray for me its gonna be a handful

[Browneye57]

ROAD TRIP. :)

[exitseven]

Nope. Your dad is dating her you are not. I know this must suck for you.

[Yellovv]

Are you living with your dad, also where is your mum?

[AYOMAnSUSS]

wdym?

[Asker]

Just like I dont really join in with them like other girls would

[lycanthrope3]

You have to do you