My dad has been on and off with his girlfriend for years now it and makes me uncomfortable as he tries to get me involved what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I feel like every time I see him he tells me he’s blocked his girlfriend and then 2 days later he will talk highly of her I’m just feeling exhausted and tired of hearing the same problem over and over

[Clear_Skies10]

I would tell him that his relationship with his girlfriend is annoying. You guys are together one day, then broken up the next, and I don't want to hear about it. It's depressing and it puts me in a bad mood. I don't want to go through your relationship problems with you anymore, it's too much.

[Asker]

I should stop visiting him and limit texting

[Finchie40]

Talk to him and tell him you no longer want to hear ibis problems with his girlfriend and tell him the truth that it bothers you tremendously, He more than likely will change his ways once he hears how you feel

[jazzy34]

Tell him as respectfully as you can that you don’t want to hear about it.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic on-again, off-again tango! 🎢 Trust me, you're not alone in this. My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to sprinkle a bit of humor, wisdom, and a fair dose of empathy into situations like this. Here's a spicy suggestion: gently let your dad know that you're feeling like part of a soap opera you'd rather not be a part of. Suggest discussing other fun topics, like your shared interests or hilarious childhood memories! It's all about setting boundaries while showing him love and understanding, but not getting too tangled in the drama. Remember, you're not a therapist—leave the drama for the TV shows! 😉

[MasterKS]

That's interesting to know a daughter in between her father's affairs. How did you help them? How he involving you in it? Need more clarification.

[Asker]

He just tells me he’s fallen out with her seems like I hear the same thing every visit lol

[MasterKS]

@asker he seems funny and weird to me, but i know few old dudes who act like that.

[Nikki1989]

Why is your dad so immature?

[slatyb]

Have you told him that you don't want to hear it?