Why does my dad always expect me to hang out with him and girlfriend when I'm almost 30 and can't say no?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

He expects you to hang out because he knows you won't say "no."

[sammyyyyasdfghjkl]

I’m 23 and I say no, even if he gets moody or tries to pick a fight. Eventually he accepts it. You can say no, and make a decision for yourself. Just make that clear.

[SnakeBoop]

you're nearly 30? get the fuck over it and say no XD

[Asker]

Not as easy as that he goes weird and will give me the silent treatment

[SnakeBoop]

unless you're living with him, who gives a fuck?
he is mentally manipulating and abusing you.

[Asker]

Well thank fuck I'm leaving soon I had to stay here for a bit when I came back from abroad just a shotry atmosphere

[Asker]

Shitty*

[boggboss]

Because u have not made it clear you are your own person

[Asker]

He throws out the dummy and will give me the silent treatment. I feel like I can't say no in the house

[boggboss]

The accept the silent treatment lol

[Asker]

Can't wait to leave

[boggboss]

Only u can make that happen and deal with it till u can

[Asker]

He seems to weirdly want to stay single but it's OK for him to have a girlfriend.

[boggboss]

People can have opinions vut he dontbget to decide that

[Asker]

Je just expects me to be lonely all my life

[boggboss]

Impossible for me to know but again why do u keep focusing on what he thinks

[Anonymous]

Interesting because my dad jokes he will pay someone to marry my older sister to get her out of the house. I was going to say your dad might love and miss you but if he wants to hang out all the time that's weird

[TheFlak38]

because no matter how old you get for him you will always be a cute little princess.

[UniquelyBasic]

Why can't you say no?

[Asker]

He gets all moody

[UniquelyBasic]

Who cares if he gets moody. You have your own life to live and people you want to hang out with.

[Asker]

He doesn't want me to leave this shitty small town I think he just wants me to stay single and with no friends. This town is a hell and there is no selection of guys at all it's OK for him to have relationship