Why is it that the same women who condemn fatphobia are the same women who you never see dating or hooking up with fat men?

[Anonymous]

Don’t find this man attractive? Then I guess you are fatphobic.

[420Rachel]

So let me get this straight. Because I don't find unhealthy people attractive that means I just hate unhealthy people? Get the fuck outta here. I'm guessing you're salty because you're obese and girls don't want to date you? Yes being overweight is unhealthy and yes it causes health problems. What's wrong with wanting people to be healthy? Unless you have some kind of medical problem that causes weight gain such as a glandular or hormonal disorder there's no reason to be overweight and unhealthy. I don't hate obese people I just know they can do better for themselves and it's a shame that they don't care or see a problem with it. Also there is a big difference between being a few pounds overweight and being obese like the man in the image. My uncle didn't eat a healthy diet, was obese, had a heart attack, and died instantly at 50 years old.

[Asker]

You are an absolute idiot. This is my response to women who cry online about fat phobia. I agree with you. Fatphobia is just a made up word to shame people who want to be healthy.

[420Rachel]

I'm sorry I am confused by your response. Are you calling me an idiot? I apologize if I'm misinterpreting you.

[Asker]

Yes because you didn't understand that I am on your side.

[420Rachel]

You could've just said that instead of resorting to insults. I misunderstood the question I guess. Sorry if I offended you.

[natured]

You are missing a huge point here, Fatphobia is when people actually fat shame and offend people that are fat. I could be not attracted to him but i certainly am not attracted to some muscular jocks either... if there is no chemistry there is no interest... so this question is very very ...
I don't want to be harsh but you must be very limited in your mind to make questions like these hun.
-D-

[Asker]

So if u seen this dude in public wearing something like that then you wouldn’t even let out a little giggle?

[natured]

Trust me I wouldn't even see him, because I don't look at people in general... I mind my own bussines and i let everyone live as they want to, who I'm I to giggle or laugh at someone? Only morons do that

[Lionman95]

I don´t find any fat people attractive. It doesn´t matter if they are male or female. You can hate me for that, but I find him or a woman with this belly size obese.
I pity because of it but I couldn´t live with a person that has this kind of body figure mostly because it´s unhealthy and I have too many problems of my own to help him/her get over it.
I don´t say that too be ignorant but I´m on the extreme. I have problems gaining weight because my gens hinder me and I have a small stomach.

[hahahmm]

A study found that when men are shown pictures of clothed women, the men talk about whether she's "hot" or not. When women are shown pictures of clothed men they try to guess what his job is and how much money he makes. There's a hint in there for all of you who claim men and women think the same.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I have been attracted to fat people, my friends Settler & Slater for example are bigger guys, but i do not find this man attractive because his facial symmetry just isn't what i find attractive.

But fat shaming & not finding a fat guy attractive are two COMPLETELY different things.

[Asker]

Not according to this women. A KNOWN fat rights activist. https://youtu.be/-NotehOyxgE

[Asker]

But then again she is probably only talking about women. I would she cares about fat men and I would doubt she would ever date a fat man.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Fatphobia isn't about not finding every overweight person personally attractive, it's about living in a society that shames people for their weight, tells girls their value is in being thin, tells men they have to look a certain way, glorifies diet culture, and treats overweight people like shit for their weight

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Not to mention fatphobia in the medical field. Many overweight people have come forward about how their cancer was diagnosed late because their doctor refused to believe their symptoms and just told them to lose weight

[YOLOIFIC]

Let’s be honest here, this man is beautiful because all people are beautiful.


Some people will find him attractive some won’t. Sexual preference is individual. Is he the idealized and fake standard of beauty perpetuated by media outlets? No, not at all.


But if you think someone else gets to tell you what looks attractive and what doesn’t. You got a lot bigger problems that the OP thinks this person they likely used their image without permission has with the opposite sex.

[SapioLuna]

He isn’t attractive for health reasons—gastrointestinal illnesses... We will just not vibe.


Don’t get me wrong, every women have their own picks. Example, I’m not into super buff men/bulky, I’m not into dad-bod’s either. I just want you to look like you eat your fiber regularly :).

[Dinklex3]

I don't know anyone who condems phobia.
It's usually fat shaming which usually consists of ugly remarks.
So not being attracted to someone who is overweight and making fun of/shaming them for being overweight are two different things.

[A_Bell]

Fat men and women have poor willpower and it manifests in other areas. It's hard to turn down dessert or exercise.

I don't fault them and hope they find partners that accept them, but being grotesquely obese is a big red flag for me.

[Lildiq]

Because they're lazy and rather live under the illusion that fat is beautiful than get On a treadmil, it's easier... They like to live in a fantasy world

Meanwhile here on planet earth I see fat people as ugly fat lazy fucks who need a diet, they definitely ain't beautiful

[Lildiq]

It's jus because girls are mostly all entitled Karen's who think the world revolves around them

[kidvid80]

so if someone chooses not to date me due to being 4'11 is that shortphobia? im on to something here...

[Asker]

Yeah no man would reject you for being that height…

[Anonymous]

Meh, I just don't endorse unhealthy obesity.
But I also know I need to lose some pounds, so I don't expect men to bow to me over my weight because I own a vagina and they don't. It's an equal non endorsement XD

[Darkrose32]

I'm a big woman and I prefer big men. I love them I don't date little stick boys lol

[sullyk1234]

what about a fat woman i dont see a man with a very fat woman never have

[Asker]

There are literally websites purely for men seeking fat women.

[Asker]

There aren’t any websites purely for women seeking fat men.

[A_Bell]

But to be fair, there are websites for men seeking everything, such as one legged women with cleft palates.

[Asker]

I know right? It sounds like the majority of men aren’t bigoted assholes who judge women from their looks etc. That is something that women struggle with dearly.

[A_Bell]

It's why I often defend men on here. There are a lot of assholes and horrible men, but mostly the vast majority of decent guys are lumped in with the relatively few bad actors.

My female friends tell me their drama all the time and much if the entitled viewpoint of the world turns my stomach.

Maybe it is because I grew up the youngest in a house with five sisters and no brothers I've seen a lot of the narcissism and cruelty of girls/women.

Men have mostly treated me gently and kindly, while women have frequently been competitive and abusive.

[Asker]

Sorry you have experienced that. My experience is relatively the same as yours.

[TheOracle10]

Fatphobia is superficial, I don't see it as a real issue, its unnatural and unsightly, for both genders.

I do hope that "fatphobia" somehow deters obese people from getting bigger.

[andreasderjuengere]

A ''phobia'' to me involves an uncontrollable panic-like or anxiety-related condition.

[SmokinAces2000]

You don’t have to find fat people attractive to condemn fat phobia

[genericname85]

social justice is bullshit. that's all i'm saying.

[Iron_Man]

Girls will love that guy

[Anonymous]

You're a fucking idiot.

[Asker]

Lmao do you really think fat phobia exists retard?

[Anonymous]

Is he rich?