Why is it that all these so-called “fat positivity” women never seem to date fat men?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Feminists are hypocrites… If you ask most of them while yeah some get mad if you open a door for them. A lot of feminists complain that men aren’t menning and aren’t chivalrous. Basically saying men need to fulfill their role but expecting a woman to do anything is sexist.

It isn’t okay to talk about her weight. But she can sit around talking about how a man needs to be 6 foot tall and have a 8 Inch or bigger pecker. Well… someone can control their weight in most cases. You can’t control how tall or… big.

They are just miserable heffers who don’t have anything of value to contribute.

I am not bashing all women who are overweight. There are some very nice great women on the heavier side. Who aren’t like that…

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Take me for instance. Im 4ft6, skinny, pretty with ginger hair. Im not anything really special. My husband is 6ft6, makes good money, has an advanced degree in engineering, owns property, is witty and charming. How did I get him, maybe he like short ginger girls or maybe because half of American women are either fat or obese.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

LMAOOOO.

i have seen plenty of women date fat men, it’s just not common in your area. Everyday I see at least 1 or 2 couples come into my job to ship stuff back to there places and I’ll see a pretty woman with her fat husband.

and considering I work in a shipping store, I see people from all over the US

Finchie40 · Answer

When you don’t center your world around social media , you will see there are a lot of couples that aren’t what social media wants you to be , everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , don’t let social media influence you to believe in nonsense , not everyone on this work is fit and in great shape that lives at the gym and eats clean , if that was the case McDonald’s’ wouldn’t be making the billions that it does , I have a lot of skinny guy friends’ that prefer chubby or fat gorls’ over skinny ones. So just goes to show social media is a money making platform trying lo brainwash us into believing in nonsense to make money.

Cormac995 · Answer

Because they don't think being fat is attractive and they're narcissistic hypocrites. Fat positivity is one of the worst modern movements we've had. The good news is it's a problem that slowly solves itself because these people literally eat themselves to death by 40 so they aren't around very long. Asmongold actually thinks that if you let your child become obese through not monitoring their eating habits it should be considered child abuse and I frankly agree. If you're such a crappy parent you'll let your child gorge themselves until they have an incurable lifelong illness they should take your kids away from you.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay by that logic, why doesn’t the skinny man date a fellow skinny man?

Like literally I don’t get why you are focused on the woman here just because she’s a weight you don’t like.

My stance is, obesity is unhealthy and can cause a shorter life however I can’t stop them from being who they are so all I can do is wish them the best. I won’t even smack talk or belittle someone based on that - Same with smokers and drinkers.

Do you hate smokers and drinkers too, or is it because you can’t see them?
Or the media doesn’t make you hate them as much as you would like to?

Shehnaz · Answer

That's a fair question, the reason is that they are already spoilt with choices of non-far men lined up for gothic women or body positive women so they don't get a chance to look beyond the available prospects. Once the options are exhausted then they sometimes date fat len too.

Anonymous · Answer

That's easy. There are 2 kinds of FAT women. There are FAT women who want to date FATTER guys because they know they're FAT and dating a guy who's FATTER makes her feel like she's smaller, daintier. But what you're talking about is the OTHER type of FAT women. FAT women that only want to date fit men deep down are disgusted with themselves. They'll never say it out loud to anyone though. These types of FAT women want to date a fit guy because to her she thinks that dating a fit guy is the transitive property of being skinny. And if she's with a fit guy that gives her legitimacy and no longer makes her FAT. This of course is not true and will likely just result in her getting "pigged" (look it up).

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

Because for many, their movement is about self acceptance, not always preference.

People can advocate confidence at any size yet still have personal attraction types, we all do.

It’s not hypocrisy, it’s human.

But real body positivity should go both ways, confidence isn’t gender exclusive.

Anonymous · Answer

Danielle someone i love taught me not to talk about other people's bodies and if you can't say something nice to someone then don't say anything at all and if you see someone having a bad day to give that person a compliment it may be the only positive compliment they had all day like tell someone you like their shoes or you like the outfit they have on something to help brighten someone's day because you never know what someone is going through.

Everyone has something about themselves they don't like who are we to judge someone's appearance

genericname85 · Answer

i think fat positivity is about fat chicks forcing acceptance for themself with men so they can get with ment hat wouldn't typcially have to go for fat girls cause they're attractive enough to do better. like everyone who isn't fat knows being fat is probably not ideal for ones health.

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

It's not all of these ladies choosing a certain "fit" man, but I noticed some men (especially gym men, not saying all) are just really into BBW beauties. Happy for them either way. 💗

OneViewpoint · Answer

Because they Hippo Crites.  Meet Karen.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Because most fat men do not take care of themselves at all and dress like shit.. Plus they usually can't fuck good and run out of breath so a fitter guy is way better..

Zack-Bann · Answer

Viability  They all know fat folks are a health hazard  Who wants a partner that could kick the bucket if they went up the stairs too fast

boundless · Answer

That guy was probably fat before he started dating her, but she kept eating all the food in the refrigerator so now he's starving.

itsannalee · Answer

That just American thing, there is no fat positivity in the rest of the world. Fat is just fat, cholesterol, diabetes and heart disease comes with it.

Noredcarpet · Answer

People have different testes types plus a person can gain weight and loose weight and be in the same relationship as they were in before.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you care? Are you a fat man with a pink account here?

lilyanony1 · Answer

People date who they find attractive.  And that goes both ways.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

I wouldn’t say I’m fat but I’m not the thinnest, when I was on the chubbier side gym bros hit on me the most. The fat men were always mean and fucked up morally.

NoOneEver · Answer

What would the world be without all its hypocrisy and double standards?

AngryCarl2 · Answer

"Fat Positivity" isn't some kind of aesthetic choice. It's just another term for "can't diet, won't diet".

blackeagle007 · Answer

Pink accounts ask “why do girls do this” are usually guys creating the pinkie account.

DishLady · Answer

😂😂😂

beenherebefore · Answer

They're not attracted to fat men.

jkreuger95 · Answer

Because it's bullshit

exitseven · Answer

gee , I just dont get it.

Anonymous · Answer

Back to your blue account, dude.

Kelly6 · Answer

2 fat balloons can’t have sex. lol

Anonymous · Answer

Because they’re hippo-crites.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are hypocrites.

OfDeath · Answer

Because they wouldn’t be able to have sex.

Biscoff3030 · Answer

Just for fame and popularity they say such things

Phoenix98 · Answer

Hypocrisy

Anonymous · Answer

Dunno but never seen something more gross

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