What type of person will you never date again?

Question

Basically any physical/personality traits that you used to be attracted to but now no longer do.

designer1 · Accepted Answer

I only have one ex but here we go… it’s a lot so buckle up…

- One who plays mind games with you: “you don’t show that you love or support me” then “I’m sorry I didn’t mean it. You do plenty and I love it”, “We’re not married, stop acting like it” followed later with “we should live somewhere like ____ when we get older, how many kids do you want, etc. ”, “I can’t do this anymore, you’re this and that” followed with “I love you, I’m so sorry, I’m such a jerk”.
-one who talks trash about a lot of people, even though it doesn’t include you because when u break up, you will quickly become one of those people
-one who guilts you into intimate actions because of insecurity/ wanting to fit in

- (He also had his mom so involved in our conversations that she would take his phone and text me, pretending to be him during an argument). So no one being controlled by their mom/ parents.
- No one who flirts with other girls then downplays your feeling when you try to set boundaries
- No one who lies to me about the sexuality of his friends so that he can go out alone with them/ no one who lies at all.

- I wouldn’t ever date anyone again who thinks it’s ok to grab you during an argument. Then blame you for being upset about it and downplay what happened. He expressed that he and his parents were scared that I’d sue him¿ 💀 Bc to his parents, I made it up for money I guess 😂😂( ofc I didn’t sue him like Jeez).

- AGAIN, no mind games. Repeated for emphasis. Same guy tried to ruin my next fresh relationship by telling me that he still loved me and thought about me. Then he said that I’m crazy for thinking that we’d ever work out again. Then he cut me off and came back weeks later to be friends. Naive, stupid me said sure and the whole time he bragged about sexual things he’d do to his new girlfriend. Then we stopped talking.

That sh*t was too much and screwed my mind for a long time. It’s still screwed tbh and it’s been years since I cut him off. So much so that last year, I had this phase of thinking we were good friends (outside of the romantic stuff) and tried to reach back out to him. Thank god it didn’t work.

Youryeodongsaeng · Accepted Answer

I used to date this girl who was 12. I was 13 at the time. On the day she hmu on Messenger, answering my question from a week or two from when we left school for the summer, she told me to send her a nude and promise to delete it afterwards; she'll send me one in return. I said no because I wasn't sending nudes anymore and I clearly didn't want her to send nudes herself because she'll get caught just like I. She pulled the break-up card. While I decided for a spilt second, I realized that I didn't like doing things that I'm either not supposed to do and what I am uncomfortable doing. This made me feel both disappointed in me and her. I sent her a nude anyway because I didn't want her to break up with me.
When I got invited by her for a sleepover, which lasted for 3 or 4 days, I was excited. A day with her at her home, I find her texting some grown ass man on Messenger. He sent her dick pictures and she was returning with selfies of her breasts. I told her to leave the man alone and block him. She didn't listen.

After I was taken back home after the sleepover, I realized that her Christian mother found out.
Weeks later, a officer came knocking on my mom's door, asking for me. My mom asked why and she said something about a report of a pedophile living in this residence. She pulled me and my mother out the house. The officer pulled out a printed picture of my nude. Guess I'm busted again for sending nudes, this time, for the sake of a relationship that didn't even matter.

I hate people like that. She got caught too. Her mom saw her nudes and saw she texting the grown ass man.
I didn't know she moved. I didn't see her in school when it was time to go back. I asked my teacher where she was and the teacher told me that she moved.
Hadn't seen her since. This was 2018.

Bright_blue_eyes · Accepted Answer

Girls who are so stupid they actually believe Kim K is a business woman. I dated this girl who was hot, but OMG she was SO STUPID. She honestly believed that her Instagram world was relevant, and what people were saying on social media was relevant & true. This girl had no perspective on the real world, and she didn’t truly understand how things actually worked. In her mind, everything she read on the internet must be true. I had to end it. It didn’t matter how hot she was, the stupidity was just too much for me.

Nawlins34 · Accepted Answer

1.) Narcissistic women
2.) Women who can't get dirty*

*I like a balanced woman, she's just as likely to wear a sundress as she is likely to be found working on a car, she has range.

3.) I'll never date a woman again who is not herself, a business owner. They just have a different mindset and understand me a lot better.

4.) All other women - I'm engaged, lol.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

A guy that isn’t sure whether or not he likes me - I deserve attention and commitment and a guy who does not know whether he wants to be with you will not give you that if he is honest with you and with himself.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Cowards and indecisive people.

My ex solidifed this when he wanted "the option of having children" 5 years into our relationship - which I began with "I don't want kids, do you?".

If a man doesn't know what he wants of life, himself, and me, I don't have time for him to fampher about trying to find it. I'll specify: I mean for men in my age range - if you're in your early 20s, it's normal not to know these.

I also refuse cowards. If a guy can't come and stand up for himself, tell me the truth, and face consequences then I have no time for that. Even the kids I teach in karate know their actions have consequences.

Finally, I refuse to date guys who just sit at home and play video games all day. Don't tell me wrong, I'm a gamer, too. I love me some good game time. But I also spend 12 hrs a week doing active things like running and climbing. I'm involved in many groups and like to do things.

My ex used to sit at home, play idle games, and get mad when I would go do my things. When I let them go to sit at home with him, he still didn't want to do anything - no Netflix and Chill, no games together.

He just couldn't stand to see me out and about and tried to drag me down with him.

No time. Busy living life. Get up to speed or get out the way.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Anyone who thinks there woke on either side of politics. I don't mind talking about it abit but when it's every single post on your socials and you show a scary level of hate towards the opposite side to the point its apart of your life and you can't go anywhere without being triggered by how someone else lives there life or someone's else opinion it's gets pretty annoying fast

Prideful · Answer

Women that confuse lust with love.
Fortunately it's only on the internet but we would engage in a ""relationship"" till a few weeks later she tells me she has a boyfriend and even send me pictures of him. Situations like these happened 2 times, once with a georgian (country) girl and a French (bc I'm french).
Sorry I'm not into threesomes milady.
After that I say no to relationships through internet, unless a woman is really serious and interested about it but I won't make a move.

MCheetah · Answer

Queer women (specifically, "bisexuals.") This was a long time ago, like ten years, but I'm NEVER even contemplating dating any half-assed lesbians (who call themselves "bi") ever again. F*CK NO! Not in a million years, for a million dollars, for every single year,

Grl123 · Answer

I don't know tbh I would rather make sure I can meet them in real life and that I can have a kiss because I never had my first kiss either. So basically I used to care about the hair or a certain haircut but not anymore i didn't care about the way they looked that much and still don't. It's all about the inside. I'd rather them love me for me by if I for ex. was wearing tons of layers of clothes you couldn't see a piece of sling on me or something happened where I would be of lower standards than all the other and he doesn't care if they are bad laughing at me he defends me and when it goes that far i do too so basically I never dated the wrong person only my first but x and the rest were fake after that.

Starrisunset · Answer

Controlling and unfaithful.. He was mildly controlling and we hadn't even been dating that long when I found out he was cheating on me and of course we broke up. He expected me to text him back as soon as he'd text me, even tho I might be busy right that minute. He never really got mean about it or anything but he'd always ask me if there was anyone else... meanwhile he's texting his ex and begging her to move in with him. I'm glad that was a short relationship

Browneye57 · Answer

The narcissist. NOT EVER.
Most women have a complete focus of their world that revolves around their own bellybutton. We call them 'navel-gazers'. :)

You still really a little too young for actual dating. You're not ready for a wife anyway, so just date a lot, have lots of friends, do group stuff, don't get caught up with any one girl. It's all just for fun and practice now anyway.

SaoirseS · Answer

Fortunately I’ve never had a dating or relationship experience so bad as to identify a “never again” type.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Alcoholics, druggies, and the type of women that are too lazy to be nice to others. Ya know the ones that say "no filter" or "sassy". Just another way of saying you don't care for putting effort into saying things in a nice way.

Also the type of women that lack control of her emotions and is on edge a lot, especially during her period. This type blurts out rude things without thinking.

Anonymous · Answer

A feminist. Been there, done that, never again. What a fucked up and sexist person she was.

Yeah, yeah, I know..."not all feminists are like that". Sorry but yes they are either like that or they support the sexist, hate driven movement that is today's feminism. I will never trust a woman who calls herself a feminist. Life is too short and there are plenty of good women around.

exitseven · Answer

I dated a girl who was really artsy. She was kind of flaky and didn;t have much direction in her life. I dated her for a while and it was fun at first but after a while it was obvious we would not be good for each other.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow, there are some bitter men under your comment. What's wrong with wanting a man who is sure whether he wants to be with you or not. At these bitter men's age, they sure haven't gained any wisdom whatsoever.

ButterflyHope · Answer

those women/men who get upset & won’t allow you to talk with other people when you both aren’t even dating, but it’s only okay/allowed when they do it.

grapefruit11 · Answer

A guy with a very flirtatious and aloof personality. In my experience, a lot of those guys can't ever be serious and you can never tell when they mean what they say.

Anonymous · Answer

Bisexual women. I broke it off with one girl who initially rejected me with the line that she's lesbian. Well, we ended up liking each other anyway. She confessed she wasn't a lesbian, she just had a brief infatuation with a female friend for a couple of months. Turns out that she started getting off to lesbian porn. Um. No. I can't do that. Now im basically mgtow since I've discovered how many girls percentagewise are lustful to other girls

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

Men on steroids. The only positive thing about them is their looks — that are fake, so it doesn’t even matter.

HayleeBeaity123 · Answer

A girl who doesn’t make time for me. Someone who says one thing but shows other. A very jealous type of girl

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

I will not date the following types of women anymore. Smokers Single mothers  Party girls Women who are overweight I make no apologies for having standards and rules to live by.

LonewolfMeme · Answer

Someone who wants to string me along or cause me anxiety, manipulate or say I’m wrong or don’t know what I’m talking about if I’ve been through what they are talking about or who don’t understand their own feelings.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, a heavily overweight girl who says she is doing something about it, but blatantly isn't, all she does is stuff her face all day long, but then takes a 15 minute walk to "burn it off".
Any woman who goes to r/FemaleDatingStrategy
A vegan
A hardcore feminist

Anonymous · Answer

Manipulative and polyamorous men. And the first boyfriend I had was very skinny and after that relationship, I just figured out that was not for me.

JennBITx · Answer

I cannot handle liars. If I are a liar and do not interact with your family properly. It will never happen

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

The type of person who turns me down.. I refuse to date those types! (Not that I have any say in the matter of course)

Bilal_Zahir · Answer

Liars and the people who keep secrets... Hurt me with the truth i'll never leave u but if u lied or kept a secret... than thats the end.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I wouldn't date a woman again, who is very clingy and who has to know where you are at all times.

Aurora1010 · Answer

One who cheats. One who plays with me or treats me bad.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

No dude that's involve in any MLM's by MLM I mean Amway , Herbalife, It works , Beach body.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Toxic personality , bigot against sexuality, ethnicity, etc

lovedejj_xo · Answer

I don’t like clingy and needy I’m pretty independent…. I don’t like when guys expect me to not go hang out with my friends without them. Like bye.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'd prefer not to date a Hindu. I'm absolutely never dating another insecure or materialistic person again.

Aether1 · Answer

I never want to date a girl that's named Danielle, that name just sounds really annoying and it bugs me. It's a terrible name.

cth96190 · Answer

Females in general. 🤣 After a dog has been kicked a few times, he learns to stay away.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Needy, self absorbed, falls apart at the littlest things. I never was attracted to those type.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

My exes were religious and wanted kids. Never again.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Needy bitches, greedy bitches, attention whores, bitches that don't put out fast enough or satisfactorily enough.

Anonymous · Answer

I have had a bad experience with SJW/Woke women. I don't even want to fuck them now. My view of them is so severe that I couldn't even sit down to dinner with them and pretend.

thegirlinstilettos · Answer

The “bad boy” type. I prefer the business man type now since I’m a business woman

scott04sa22 · Answer

The reason why I don't date because I got tired of being hurt all time.

Den1971 · Answer

One who likes to argue all the time, jealous, non sexual, not open to try new things

askandreceive23 · Answer

A man who makes jokes about your siblings. Never again.

Better_off_here · Answer

if she is the insecure type i am not gonna waste my time on that. if she is too much into herself i am not gonna be into that again either.

grega239 · Answer

Anyone who cheated in her past and has a high body count

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I didn’t even know at the time but I won’t date a conservative girl again

TheGreatAwan · Answer

The jab is evil and they are just trying to control us for when the ayys come to Earth and make us their cattle

Scottty2hottty · Answer

I have dated some selfish women and I can promise you this NEVER AGAIN

Asianguy123 · Answer

I will never date bums, drug addict, ex convicts, thief, life hater

Anonymous · Answer

Girls who vote. All my exes has voted, and all of them turned out to be feminists

Seinna · Answer

Unmotivated and unambitious.

Ninani · Answer

Selfish and/or narcissistic men.

_bunny_ · Answer

Hmmm well the narcissist never again

TurkishGirl_ · Answer

I don't want to date a famous person anymore.

Interstate · Answer

What type? ALL OF THEM!!!

dhinchak · Answer

Narrow-minded and materialistic people.

LemiaOfChampions · Answer

Someone who is too hooked on their ex.

Avicenna · Answer

Clingy, insecure women are a no go.

rienna888 · Answer

Guys with many female friends

DrHonesty · Answer

Someone who speaks. Can't stand it.

Omario2049 · Answer

Ghetto. Poverty minded.

Supernormal · Answer

All kinds. Cos Girls Yanspian, no need to date one

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