Have you took into account that most dating done on social media and dating apps where the pictures 90% of your success?
1. You can change weight, you can't change height.2. Guys in general are more thirsty and simpish than any woman is, so women automatically have a huge advantage.3. Like 99% of guys have to do the chasing, and only like 1% of women are willing to do the chasing, meaning women also have another advantage.4. Even if both were equally unattractive (which isn't the case), the above point already gives a huge edge to fat women. Any guys who'd like fat women would just have to go up to them and talk to them. Short guys wouldn't have girls coming up to them, meaning they'd still be risking frequent and regular rejection all the time.5. There are entire sections of Instagram and dating sites out there, like Feabie. com, devoted to obese women. Literally NO WOMEN on the entire internet have ever admitted to having a "short guy fetish."6. Most women DO NOT overlook guys who are too short. It's an automatic dealbreaker for them.7. Even by your own logic, a guy would have to do extra work and "compensate" for his shortness, as opposed to fat girls who don't (since most girls in general don't do the chasing and impressing in the dating world).8. Your own comment also implied if no one else liked fat girls, at least fat guys would. Yet you also imply (by omission) that short girls wouldn't short guys.9. Fat girls also get more leeway than short guys. A guy who is "technically not short" like 5'10" or 5'11" is still in the same Failure Zone as guys who are 5'3" because all of them are unacceptable to women who don't like short guys. While girls have to usually be OBESE before they'd become dealbreakers with certain guys; like 250+ pounds, at least. In other words, it's often as low as only like 20% of guys are considered good enough by height, while 95% of the non-morbidly obese women could still do well.You're entitled to your opinion, but I just think you're ignorant of the reality of it all.
5'7 is barely short unless you live in the Netherlands or Bosnia
@john23232323 5'7 is extremely shorts for a guys if you live in Europe (except if you're from Portugal or Spain) but if not it's super shorts, average height of girls in my country is 165 cm / 5'5 so a guys being 170 cm / 5'7 is super shorts. Any guys under 5'9 is consider shorts here.
@alice55 average height for guys in Europe is about 5'9-5'10 so short would be under 5'8 and extremely short maybe under 5'4. Do you even understand the word EXTREMELY? How can a guy that is 2 inches above the average height for girls be extremely short? About 90 % of girls would still be shorter than him.
@john23232323 That's just the way is it, it's not me who make the rules.
@alice55 yes it is
Also I'm quite tall and I'm often taller or the same height as a lot of guys so for me 5'7 is super shorts for a guys (and that's just what we talk with my girls friends for them all guys under 5'9 is extremely shorts and they would never date them, they won't date any guys under 6 cause they're too shorts). And in my family we're tall, there's no guys under 6'1 in my family and they're usually around 6'3 so yes for me a guys that's 5'7 is extremely shorts.
@alice55 well you and your family and friends don't matter. Short is by definition something that is noticeably shorter than the average. If the average is 5'10 then short is under 5'7/5'8. If you're 6'6 then a 6'5 might be short FOR YOU. But he wouldn't be short overall.
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you'll find a lot of men working the same way in terms of the 'not settling' stuff too, both end up very lucky or alone
@siseñor I agree with this there are women like that but there are some fat guys are like that too, like they get mad and whine when a skinny girl doesn't want to go out with them.
@patriots123123 Name me one, solitary male near this gal's build that you, or any other woman, would consider sexy.
@siseñor the only men you'll find doing that are the ones that women have praised their whole lives for being hot. these men have figured out that, just by being attractive, they can treat women like crap because there will always be another to ignore his personality flaws and throw themselves at him. This is why so many women cry about how bad the men they picked are. It's a popular lie women like to spread that they want a good person. BUT if the man isn't hot, it won't matter how good he is because she WILL NEVER SPEAK TO HIM
i think its better to be a fat girl than a short guy. A fat girl can diet. A short guy can never do anything about his midgetness
@Arabella_Rose Yes, I agree
in what world?
@john23232323 there's an entire porn section for BBW aka big beautiful women.
So can short guys
@john23232323 Not really man
@Chthou95 so if you're 5'5 you don't think you can get a girlfriend? Half the girls would still be shorter
@john23232323 Most girls want someone that's taller than them. It's not impossible to find someone that will but most girls won't. It's rare
@Chthou95 What's rare? I can assure you most girls under 5'5 would date a 5'5 guy if he is good looking and fit.
And what is the good reason?
@john23232323 People with poor eating habits having a lot of kids and teaching those poor eating habits.Also, men with genes for being taller breeding a lot.
@anylolone Are you 12? That didn't make sense at all. And being fat is often genetic. Also people are getting fatter because of culture. You have fast food places on every corner.
@john23232323 People are getting fatter due to culture. It's known not to be genetic. (The increasing prevalence)
Exactly. Us guys are so desperate.
@Chriscunning It's sad really
@Chriscunning One can also easily argue that we're not desperate but women are just shallow and it's "sad reality"