Who's more likely to be deprived of love, short guys or fat girls?

[Anonymous]

Short guys

Fat girls

About the same

[MCheetah]

There are PLENTY of sites out there devoted to fat girls. Hell, most of f*cking Instagram is devoted to thick girls now. I myself like thick girls. But almost NO WOMEN out there like short guys. Even the ones who do *claim* they like short guys are just saying that because the girls are short themselves and consider any guy taller than them to be "tall." Like a 5'1" (155 cm) girl saying how she'd be willing to kinda, sorta give a 5'9" (175 cm) hobbit man a chance because "well, he's tall TO ME."

Just ask yourself... Who gets more fans and attention in society? Who's generally more confident? Who has millions of followers on Instagram? Who gets shielded from jokes, memes, and discrimination at their expense? Who actually has control over how they look?

[Aethereal]

I voted short guys at first; because height is a feature that cannot be changed while weight can be changed.

However I realized that my real answer is "neither". Even if height could be changed like weight; there is no love to be found getting with someone who measures your overall dateability on just ONE physical feature. Both short guys and fat girls can find love by leveraging the many other physical and personality features that might make them an amazing partner. They just need to stop caring for the attention of shallow people.

[Anonymous]

Fat girls easy. It's not ideal to be short, but it's an issue I think most girls are willing to overlook if they like the guy enough. In all honesty I think being overweight is an automatic deal breaker for most guys (unless they're overweight themselves).
I know it sounds harsh, but I'm just being honest

[VanillaSalt]

Have you took into account that most dating done on social media and dating apps where the pictures 90% of your success?

[MCheetah]

1. You can change weight, you can't change height.
2. Guys in general are more thirsty and simpish than any woman is, so women automatically have a huge advantage.
3. Like 99% of guys have to do the chasing, and only like 1% of women are willing to do the chasing, meaning women also have another advantage.
4. Even if both were equally unattractive (which isn't the case), the above point already gives a huge edge to fat women. Any guys who'd like fat women would just have to go up to them and talk to them. Short guys wouldn't have girls coming up to them, meaning they'd still be risking frequent and regular rejection all the time.
5. There are entire sections of Instagram and dating sites out there, like Feabie. com, devoted to obese women. Literally NO WOMEN on the entire internet have ever admitted to having a "short guy fetish."
6. Most women DO NOT overlook guys who are too short. It's an automatic dealbreaker for them.
7. Even by your own logic, a guy would have to do extra work and "compensate" for his shortness, as opposed to fat girls who don't (since most girls in general don't do the chasing and impressing in the dating world).
8. Your own comment also implied if no one else liked fat girls, at least fat guys would. Yet you also imply (by omission) that short girls wouldn't short guys.
9. Fat girls also get more leeway than short guys. A guy who is "technically not short" like 5'10" or 5'11" is still in the same Failure Zone as guys who are 5'3" because all of them are unacceptable to women who don't like short guys. While girls have to usually be OBESE before they'd become dealbreakers with certain guys; like 250+ pounds, at least. In other words, it's often as low as only like 20% of guys are considered good enough by height, while 95% of the non-morbidly obese women could still do well.

You're entitled to your opinion, but I just think you're ignorant of the reality of it all.

[alice55]

fat girls I would say, most people are skinny where i live so they're most likely to not want to date fat people, after most people are shorts where i live so people doesn't really care that much about a man height unless he's under 5'7 then it's really really shorts so it become complicated for them.

[john23232323]

5'7 is barely short unless you live in the Netherlands or Bosnia

[alice55]

@john23232323 5'7 is extremely shorts for a guys if you live in Europe (except if you're from Portugal or Spain) but if not it's super shorts, average height of girls in my country is 165 cm / 5'5 so a guys being 170 cm / 5'7 is super shorts. Any guys under 5'9 is consider shorts here.

[john23232323]

@alice55 average height for guys in Europe is about 5'9-5'10 so short would be under 5'8 and extremely short maybe under 5'4. Do you even understand the word EXTREMELY? How can a guy that is 2 inches above the average height for girls be extremely short? About 90 % of girls would still be shorter than him.

[alice55]

@john23232323 That's just the way is it, it's not me who make the rules.

[john23232323]

@alice55 yes it is

[alice55]

Also I'm quite tall and I'm often taller or the same height as a lot of guys so for me 5'7 is super shorts for a guys (and that's just what we talk with my girls friends for them all guys under 5'9 is extremely shorts and they would never date them, they won't date any guys under 6 cause they're too shorts). And in my family we're tall, there's no guys under 6'1 in my family and they're usually around 6'3 so yes for me a guys that's 5'7 is extremely shorts.

[john23232323]

@alice55 well you and your family and friends don't matter. Short is by definition something that is noticeably shorter than the average. If the average is 5'10 then short is under 5'7/5'8. If you're 6'6 then a 6'5 might be short FOR YOU. But he wouldn't be short overall.

[alice55]

@john23232323 I don't give a shit, he would be short to me so therefore he's short that's it. Why would I care about some shitty definition?

[VanillaSalt]

There’s many good points but few fat people can’t go to the gym and do something to fix it.


I’ve dated fat. My ex was fat great personality but fuck! 400lbs is too damn much. I broke it off due to her unwillingness to workout. I’m sorry but she couldn’t stay clean, she was unhealthy and ide have to live through that, my furniture kept breaking, sex was limited… I refuse to date a woman more than 50% above my weight now… and that’s exceptionally generous as I’m 190. COVID been a bitch and this jobs limiting my gym time now lol.

[Novacane]

Short guys for sure! Naturally, speaking guys already have it harder when it comes to dating when it comes to girls comparing an average guy with an average girl, the girl has much more options than the guy. Most women also use height as a determining factor most women want a man that is 6ft and above if not they don't even pay attention to you. I am 5'8 and was talking to a girl that was 4'11 and she told me we couldn't date because she only dated men that were 6ft. Short women don't even like dating short men, and obviously tall women either. For a women on the other hand it doesn't matter if you are tall, short, skinny or fat there will always be guys out there that will give you attention!

[HawkPerception]

Majority of girls would never date a short guy. And it's not exactly something the guy can change by working out. On the other hand, fat girls can always lose their weight. Also I've seen that a lot of guy actually prefer overweight girls, which seems crazy to me, but it's what I see.

[Anonymous]

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

This thing is a SUPERMODEL!!! EVERY woman would spit on any man with just a fraction of her BMI!
The only reason fat women might not get men is if they only want to talk to the 8s and up... you know that "not settling" crap that only women are allowed to do.

[siseñor]

you'll find a lot of men working the same way in terms of the 'not settling' stuff too, both end up very lucky or alone

[patriots123123]

@siseñor I agree with this there are women like that but there are some fat guys are like that too, like they get mad and whine when a skinny girl doesn't want to go out with them.

[Opinion Owner]

@patriots123123 Name me one, solitary male near this gal's build that you, or any other woman, would consider sexy.

[Opinion Owner]

@siseñor the only men you'll find doing that are the ones that women have praised their whole lives for being hot. these men have figured out that, just by being attractive, they can treat women like crap because there will always be another to ignore his personality flaws and throw themselves at him. This is why so many women cry about how bad the men they picked are. It's a popular lie women like to spread that they want a good person. BUT if the man isn't hot, it won't matter how good he is because she WILL NEVER SPEAK TO HIM

[Exterminatore]

Good question. Pretty even head to head match up there. I’m going with short guys because there are plenty enough guys who will date or sleep with fat women due to having a higher sex drive than women but precious few women willing to be with a short guy outside compensating factors (wealth, fame, other assets etc).

[dezzman98]

Short guys because not only can you loose weight if you want, but there are kinks specifically targeting overweight individuals. So a lot of people with said kink will be highly attracted to the overweight women but typically no one wants a guy that is shorter than them unless they take a more dominate role in the relationship than the short guy. Most people want a man that's taller, bigger, and able to wrap their arms around the person to make them feel safe.

[natured]

I'm neither fat nor short, and I was hurt multiple times in the past, so I don't think it has ANYTHING to do with body features in general. When people hurt you they hurt you, no matter what you look like.

[K-I-S-S]

Short guys most likely.

I guess what sucks the most for these guys is their inability to "fix" it. They were just "lucky". Similar pain for really tall women.

Fatness is not really a fair comparison, on any gender. Swap mouth movement with feet and problem solved.

[JosyJosy]

I think the short guys. So many women want someone taller than them, and unlike fat, short guys can't get rid of being short

[ARealHonestHuman]

im tall. Short guys get more girls than me. Most of my friends are in love and already have wives and their all average to short dudes.

"Fat women" we call them thick. Their the happiest people I've seen so im sure there will be a lot of love coming through sum thick mamas.

So no, this question itself if deprived of something cause I don't know where u came up with that question.

[BlackBeauty90]

Fools that put too much merit to looks than personality & other things that's important. They're just easy entertainment as 8 out of 10 times don't get any legitimate love (only an idiot equates sex with love).

[Anonymous]

I'd say 50/50 I accidentally voted fat girls. But I feel like fat guys and fat girls are deprived of love and same for short guys. However, there's always someone out there who will find them attractive and like them for who they are.

[TripleAce]

Short guys lol
I’ve seen fat girls get thin and everything then changes. Not all big girls can get slim though. Some just have big bones and a large frame. To be a thin fat girl you still need an average to small skeletal frame

[InsertNameHerex]

Depends how “short” and how “fat” lol some people say 5’6 is short and some people say it’s not. Same with weight. Overall I think it’s about the same.

[charltonhestonsgma]

I like fat girls. They have bigger tiddies and thighs and stuff :)

[Starwitch23]

Short guys. Guys are bit lenient when it comes to girls weight.

[Nik1hil]

Neither..

BBW Porn = Big beautiful women.
Midget porn = dwarf porn

They both exist... That means fat women and short men are looking at wrong place for happiness...
Just work harder to find the right person..

[Jamie05rhs]

Since you said "love," I'm going to go with short guys. But fat girls can generally still get laid. Alcohol is a powerful drug.

[insignificant_person]

Yeah, fat girls maybe more. But I choose "Short guys" because they are short and they can not do anything with it. Fat girls are fat in 99% because of theirselves and it's only on them if they will have the body that they want to have.

[Arabella_Rose]

i think its better to be a fat girl than a short guy. A fat girl can diet. A short guy can never do anything about his midgetness

[insignificant_person]

@Arabella_Rose Yes, I agree

[Browneye57]

Short ugly broke guys. NO ONE wants them.
Even a fat girl can get a guy to fuck her.