Should I write him a anonymous love letter?

[Anonymous]

There this guy I really like at work. I wanted to write him a love letter and send to his house. I can look up his address online. he has a girlfriend but I think he likes me. he talks to me and gets close to me. the issue is that I don’t want him to find out and I been working at a new place and everyone likes me at work so I don’t want to ruin it by doing that. everyone will think I’m weird and a stalker and he will probably get me fired, what’s the chances of him finding out if I send it anonymously?

[DianaWest]

why not just send an email? if you send it to his house, he would probably be super creeped out. that could actually be scary as hell, so don't send it to his house. he might think you are the grandma next door, or the weird bald guy who keeps glaring at him through his window from across the street. so be less creepy please. he might not know if you are crazy or what. as for the whole girlfriend thing, i don't see why people make such a big deal that he has a girlfriend. who cares? he is not married to her, they don't have any children, so who cares? the girlfriend does not own him. that is what dating is all about. to see who you are most compatible with. you can disclose your feelings to him. i am highly against cheating though. all you should do is tell this man how you feel about him once. then it is his choice and up to him what he wants to do. if he loves his girlfriend, respect that and move on. don't meddle in their relationship. if he likes you enough, he will break off his current relationship.

[dumazzs]

Don't send it. Be respectful, he has a girlfriend
Respect yourself and find someone else

[Vikkrram]

No when u chat with him and he chat with you then why to write a love letter go and confront him. That would be the best way to tell your feelings.

[marc94]

Go for it. A nice and intelligent person who is able to articulate her values in a letter can be very attractive.

[Anonymous]

no he has a girlfriend. Either wait for when they break up (if ever) or move on

[DianaWest]

and if he has a girlfriend, who cares? they're not engaged, married, they do not have any children. i am highly against cheating and i don't think she should try to seduce him. but what is wrong in disclosing your feelings to someone in an email or letter? that is what dating is all about. to find out who you are most compatible with. maybe the guy is not getting along with his girlfriend. i don't think there is anything wrong telling someone you like them, so long as they do not do more than that. if the man loves his girlfriend, she should respect his decision and move on. but he might tell her, i like you too. thing's aren't going so well with my girlfriend right now, and i think we will break it off soon. i was actually thinking of breaking it off this week. you never know.

[Anonymous]

He has a girlfriend. Leave him alone.

[DianaWest]

why? does his girlfriend own him? are they married? are they engaged? do they have any kids? what's wrong with disclosing your feelings about someone in an email or letter? i am against cheating and don't think that should ever happen. but her simply telling him how she feels should not hurt anyone. if he loves his girlfriend, then she should leave him alone and move on. but how do you know if the guy wasn't planning on breaking up with his current girlfriend? that is what dating is all about. to find out who you are compatible with.