What are some red flags to look out for before start dating girl/guy?

[Kate200005]

[MCheetah]

My red flags/dealbreakers:

- Feminist/woke
- Queer/"bisexual" (lesbian)
- Polyamorous/into "open relationships" (unfaithful/adulterer)
- Transgender (a man)
- Always talks about her ex
- Can never take blame or fault for anything
- Always sees herself as the victim
- Comes off entitled or lazy

[ChrisMaster69]

Too clingy, lack of confidence, lack of ability to make a decision, reacts badly to my friends sexuality (all areas of the rainbow covered), agrees with me all the time (arrhh), is a bit too secretive - hard to nail down but seen it before.

then I just go off my gut, how my friends, daughter get on with them.

[keniyaa]

1. always talking bout they ex
2. is being sneaky and hangs up the phone when u walk in the room
3. always arguing/abusive
4. when u feel like u can't trust them

[Paris13]

If he is ONLY looking for a booty Call. xxoo

[Andres77]

If he's on his phone instead of focused on you.
Bad relationship with parents.
If after a reasonable amount of time he wants you and the rest of his life completely separate.
If he interrogates you about your daily life and starts trying to control it.
Types of porn he has saved.
Any addictive behavior (alcohol, drugs, sex).
If he's on the sexual predators website.
If he's in debt.

[Caunsos]

Over excitement. I will go on a date for just the experience. I feel they more excited bein a relationship or a relationship with their idea of me the getting to know me i will cancel right than and there.

Also if they video call me with out saying anything, their are catfishing

[NightHawk99]

Do they think too highly of themselves? The answer is yes if they do either of these things:

Trying to make you look stupid when you call them out for doing something wrong

Abide by double standards

Expecting things from you that they haven't yet earned (like sex)

Of course, the list isn't limited to these three. But those are some things to look out for. Never date someone who thinks they're superior to you in any way.

[Anonymous]

For you Girls your better off looking out for how Confident he is, If he is fairly confident Guy then he is open to talking to any Girl he likes.
Same thing I would be looking for in a Girl if she is fairly confident then She is open to talking or chatting up any Guy.

[bowenw]

Pressuring. Loud. Mean spirited. Show off / braggart. Possessive. Don't listen. Boozer. Secretive. Materialistic. Unemployed. Too serious about everything.

[boggboss]

Ruled by insecurities constantly questions my trust overly clingy to the point off not letting me have my own space

[TwinTonyz]

Nazi, USSR, Chinese, Confederate might count as red.

[kingykringy]

I learned that insecure girls are undatebale. Even just trying to hook up with them can be very frustrating. If she starts being affectionate without even knowing you a little, that usually means she is unwell mentally.

[Notfabricated]

I tend to listen to their conversation. You can find a lot out from just listening. You'll spot insecurities , hate , and even malice sometimes.

[lovesummerA7]

Use of drugs - mannerisms and bothersome habits……

[Slim57]

How they dress and their ego