What are your dating tips?

Question

I am recently single from a 11 year relationship. So I haven't dated in a long time. Im rusty and dating changed since i was single. I'm curious how you other singles dating

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My biggest dating tip is : “Always be yourself.”

Be authentic & open about who you truly are, and what your needs/wants & likes are.

It’s important to show your true self to the other person so that they know who you are, and are better equipped to interact with you; and, that’s especially important when meeting someone and early on in a relationship so that you both can see if you’re truly compatible together.

Also, be aware of what a healthy relationship looks like—take a look at the following article…

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/friendship-20/201812/what-does-healthy-relationship-look

Dchrls78104 · Accepted Answer

1. Give yourself time to heal and get over the first guy before you start to date again.
2. Look in the mirror. Know your standards, principles, worth, and expectations before dating.
3. Realise that inner qualities show on the outside and are more important than external ones.
4. Never dress in revealing clothes, when going on a date. Leave that for if and when you have a full on relationship (marriage).
5. Learn from the mistakes you made in your first relationship and avoid repeating them.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would say to find activity partners and social networks to find your match and choose things you enjoy, if you guys are best friends before dating, it reduces the risk of cheating or comparative partner shopping and relationship hopping. I know people who married young, and they met their match at church because that was their interest, or at the hospital where they worked as health workers, or in school where they studied the same types of careers, find your interest and you will find your match.

Avicenna · Answer

Be patient and communicate well. You probably won't get past a first date with most guys

moviedude714 · Answer

I try not to get too excited or jump to conclusions right away, because I know this was my unfortunate experience for a long time, every time a woman agreed to go on a date with me, they would either flake or cancel on me at the last minute and I would be ghosted, or I wouldn't get a second date with her.

So I basically just try not to put all my eggs in one basket

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

My view on this is don’t actually date.

coming from a long relationship in to dating is always dodgy.

just have fun, go out for meals with some, with others just sex.

give it a while before you oook for a relationship.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

One thing that I had to get used to when I was more in your age range, was that "hitting it off right away" doesn't necessarily mean that you'll end up dating. There are a lot of things that can get in the way of dating a particular person, or you might find out that there are things about them that don't fit with your personality, etc.

I remember thinking, "but we hit it off so well to begin with!" LOL...

rcljr · Answer

It’s a fricken zoo, everyone is so on edge over the Wu flu, politics, the whole man hater femiNazi crap. I quit dating period.

exitseven · Answer

I could not imagine dating today. From what I can see of it from people on this site is is a real shit show.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't date a lot, but in my experience nothing has changed. Other than people think it's perfectly acceptable and "normal" to ghost, which is very sad.

kellytheman · Answer

Yeah I am in kinda in the same boat I was in a relationship and had a friend with benefits for a decade. It is a little diffrent from when I was younger from technology and I am rusty. I am still getting one night stands but nothing comes of it. My best dating tip is just be confident and be yourself. If you really like a guy be a little flirtatious and maybe you control the conversation and be the hunter than the hunted.

Andres77 · Answer

Sorry... I'm off the market and have just heard horror stories about it... I'd be nervous too.

DaveToo · Answer

I'm so far past the dating scene, I mean, I would show up with flowers and a bottle of Chianti.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Don't date. Stay single and start making lots and lots of money

2ndTryatThis · Answer

Not sure if you e tried the apps but they can be… intense. I recommend a first date that involves downtime to walk/talk so you can actually get to know eachother.

CantGetItUp · Answer

Hurry up, your market value is going down after 30.

Den1971 · Answer

Go very slow and don't talk about a whole bunch of baggage situations enlighten don't harp upon

Anonymous · Answer

be glad that as a girl, you aren't expected to make the first move or talk to guys first

Starman5 · Answer

Divorced women who still want to date try to meet men they meet and like. then the relationship begins

Tunasub · Answer

My only tip is to be very careful...

newfreshstart · Answer

i need a lot of tips as well lol

RasberrySlushPuppy · Answer

Go to the gym and work out

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Dating? What's that?

ForgottenFuRyan · Answer

Stop being old?

marc94 · Answer

Never date a commie.

weeee · Answer

Tip 1: date me;

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