Guys, How often is too often to be ditched before I should walk?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have made plans for many things and suddenly something better comes up and I will just get a oh I’m going to do this instead text. Most recently he has plans to go on two trips which will have him out of town for 3 weekends. We had plans with a couple (of course my friends) to go to a concert: last night he dropped the bomb of I’m not going I am going to go camping. He told me I would be mad about this and knew it. Never once was this a private conversation as I was told in front of other people. This same friend will be in town for 2 weeks that he is going camping with. So now we are at 5 straight weekends of zero time together and he saw nothing wrong with yet again picking his friends over me. What should be my breaking point? Should he have said to his friends I already have plans I can not go camping?

[Mofunfour20]

If you have to ask others what your breaking point is, you're already mentally checked out of the relationship. If you dont get enough attention from him then go. Are you waiting to lock down another guy before you break up with him? Just do it, especially if youbdont trust his leadership

[Asker]

I more so ask because he did have some of these things planned. It’s the fact that we had something planned and he picked his friends over me. I did not rent to make a crazy girl assumption that this was not acceptable if it should be. Thank you for your response!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Good story, but we both know nobody would ever put up with that. Once at a stretch maybe, but 5 times? Nah!

[Iron_Man]

Two times and that’s over

[Asker]

thank you for your response! I wish he would man up and just do it but guess it’s going to be left to me.

[Iron_Man]

Good luck

[888theGreat]

Dump city

[Avicenna]

Twice, I'd say

[Luckycharms12]

Ya 5 times dump him

[Asker]

I understood the 3 weekends before these additional 2 as we have only been dating about 5 months now so these were trips planned in advance but to agree and have me buy tickets and then just be like actually this sounds better….

[Luckycharms12]

Ya 5 months and he doing that nah better off finding someone who give you there word and stick to it