So went on a date with a doctor who I have been talking to for a week or longer now. We have had a few phone calls and seem to get along. We went out for drinks and the drinks weren't that good. Near the end of the night, where we were thinking of going somewhere else but they were closed. He was sort of happy to get another bottle but was like "Drink up (as I still sipping on the last glass of wine)" and now that I look back, I wonder whether he did that so I could get drunker. He offered for us to go back to his house and I indicated that I wasn't going to sleep with him, and he was like "No pressure, I won't try and have sex with you" we kissed at that bar and then drove back to his. Where we continued to kiss and then he was like "I'm getting hard" and gets out his dick. I suck it for a bit and I clearly say I don't want to continue doing that, I mean I just met the guy and wanted to get to know him. He sort of sulked a bit and wanted to see my boobs etc. Then he said he would pull his pants up. Then he was offered if I wanted to stay, that he wouldn't try anything just someone to cuddle with and would drop me home the next morning as he had work. I tucked him into bed and sort of laid with him for a bit and he took my hand and sort of touched himself. Okay, maybe just a bit pushy, I don't know. Only other concerns and I know this is quite common, but is it bad if a man jokingly calls you a bitch or says to shut up? Like I scared him when he came out of the toilet and I think from my memory he was like "You bitch", is this sort of treatment/talk subpar? Anyway, he messaged me the next morning.
Is this behaviour a red flag of a first date or am I just sensitive? Advice?
