I ask this question because it matters to me personally. I'm a virgin so, in a perfect world, I'd prefer another virgin. Unfortunately, a body count of 1 or 2 isn't completely out of the question if being realistic I guess. I'd really like to know early on so we can decide if we want to move forward or not. Not trying to be rude or impolite about it. I just don't want to waste anybody's time in the long run if I'm not comfortable with the circumstances. At what point, or stage, would it be best to ask? [ Disclaimer : This is not about if you don't like the question or if you think it's not anyone's business. A person has a right not to share their history with anyone. I respect that, however we should both be mature adults about it and politely part ways if we can't be honest or transparent about it.]

Unless there are STDs or kids involved then you don’t ask. There is no value of knowing that information.

Never. None of your business unless the lady volunteers information during casual conversation. Interrogation is never good for a developing relationship.

For safety reasons I never introduce the subject first.

Just do it on the phone sometime

When I want to hear about his kinks

Never. I ask about our sexual future.

their past is not an issue so i never ask

It's none of your business what someone did before you.

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Unless there are STDs or kids involved then you don’t ask. There is no value of knowing that information.

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Never. None of your business unless the lady volunteers information during casual conversation. Interrogation is never good for a developing relationship.

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- JBlade
  
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  Read Disclaimer? That’s how you feel and that’s all well and nice. However, It’s not interrogation because I’m not aggressively asking them and pressing them to “spill the beans.” If they don’t want to that’s fine.
  
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- najekim
  
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  Then ignore the last sentence. :)
  
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For safety reasons I never introduce the subject first.

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Just do it on the phone sometime

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When I want to hear about his kinks

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Never. I ask about our sexual future.

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Mavie Follow
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their past is not an issue so i never ask

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- 888theGreat
  
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  The past always matters. It defines what kind of person you are. Like a guy that robbed banks. You wouldn't want him anywhere near cash. If she is a slut, the guy needs to know that. Court cases , past helps. If a person was convicted of crimes that he is being tried for now, it matters.
  
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JakeS00 Follow
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I personally wouldn't.

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- JBlade
  
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  Why?
  
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- JakeS00
  
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  Well, just not right away is what I'm meaning. After I've gotten to experience being with them for a while, I'd think it would be okay to ask when the time comes to have sex.
  
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It's none of your business what someone did before you.

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- JBlade
  
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  Read Disclaimer?
  
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Backseatvibing Follow
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I don’t wanna know lol

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- JBlade
  
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  lol, Why? Would it bother you? Just don't wanna hear it?
  
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Glasgow55 Follow
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Don't ask. It doesn't matter.

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- Matt002
  
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  🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧
  
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- JBlade
  
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  To you, it doesn't matter.
  
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- Jake99999
  
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  Well you are asking for opinions. You are getting them. Does everyone have to agree with you? Then what is the point of asking people what they think. We all get it, we know it’s important to you, it’s obvious. A lot don’t agree.
  
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We talked about it fairly early on.

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Early on, I don't date 'nillas

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It’s not really something I care to know about.

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Prettysammie Follow
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I never ask because I don’t want them asking me.

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- m33lad
  
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  That means you’ve got way too many
  
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jenna15 Follow
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i think whenever they want to tell you they will

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- 888theGreat
  
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  they won't unless pushed
  
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I ask her when we get close

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Weater67 Follow
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It’s 2021 bro. 15 minutes in max

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Deathbed, after 60 years of marriage.

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Ke_vin Follow
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Do it on the phone It not comfortable that way

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Are you a virgin? No? Good! Let's go then!

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Before you date them

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If you are just a little smart, you NEVER ask.

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You don't

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- JBlade
  
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  Why not?
  
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never

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Why would I do that?

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Fuck you don’t!

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