Ugly to whom? To me, no. Ugly to my friends but attractive to me, sure. I might even think I found a hidden gem if all my friends think she's ugly but I think she's very attractive. It's like I had a pet pug once. Thought the thing was ugly like the rest at first but I started to think she was the most adorable thing in the world with time. Then lots of other people might still think she's ugly but I think they're just missing out.
I don't understand pitting personality against looks though. How are these divorced? How you look is a part of who you are. What you do influences your looks. How you dress influences your looks. Your body language, like whether you are comfortable or nervous at a social event, influences how you look.
I see looks as a relatively reliable way to assess someone's personality. By that I mean it's still unreliable, but maybe at least a more reliable way to assess their true character than what someone writes to me over a text message who I never saw in person.
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I don't date women with bad personalities like the two listed here.
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You shouldn't feel obligated to date someone if you don't find him or her attractive. It's not like that person is the only one available out there.
Men marry women who are unattractive on the outside and nasty ugly on the inside all the time. Shit, I'm guilty for the inside part, minus the marriage.
Ugly is mere perception, inside or out. At the time of dating, I found them Attractive. No I would not date a women I was not attracted to. And its not because of "looks" per-say, its more like appeals. You wouldn't indulge on food that didn't appeal to you, appearance or taste. If you date someone your not attracted to regardless of the reason is an cruel act in my opinion. Would you ever tell that person their unattractive to you?
As long as she looked feminine; not like a man, and had good hygiene, then sure. I am unattractive myself, so I can't dismiss someone SOLELY based on looks. Although I will say, it's hard to find good people, regardless of looks. Both physically ugly and attractive people tend to be commonly ugly on the inside, nowadays.
I would treat her very respectfully. But dating her is not fair to her nor myself. I would give her false hope and also have to force myself to treat her like a desirable girlfriend. I’ve been in this situation once and I will never do it again. It ended very badly.
Again attraction isn’t a choice but RESPECT is. I would definitely treat her kindly but I wouldn’t lead her on.
those girls aren't ugly if they fixed their teeth and weight problem. ugly people can become average working out and doing some stuff here and there. but their level of ugliness is really a big no. and if they start caring for themselves then why not.
Their is a limit, so it depends on what kind of ugly your talking about? I find girls attractive who others may not, so maybe but again it depends (I think everything is on a spectrum).
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