Should you feel an instant connection, “click,” or spark with someone you date/are in a relationship? Is it a sign they’re “the one”?

[Anonymous]

Like is this connection built over time or with the right person should it be an instant “click” and spark and connection and you just know?

[Oigit]

I think the idea of love at first sight, a click and whatever else you want to call it can cause some serious issues. Emotions can cloud other aspects of our thought process. So people end up running right into that love at first sight or hear that click with out honestly knowing who they are running to. Simply because they are more or less high on emotions. Not really knowing who you are running too. So people end up realizing they are not compatible with the person they are now with. Or not seeing all the red flags that where clearly waving. So the relationship goes south when that initial high starts to wear off.

[Asker]

I agree!!

[Asker]

Like 90 day fiancé

[Vikkrram]

Yes u can definitely feel something different when you meet a person whom u finds... different and ur heart will say that ' i wish i can be with this guy or girl" . But the best part would be to... observe them for some months... that how they actually are, then if u still feels the same... then can go for a date.