Can nudes destroy your career?

[Anonymous]

Two exes have nudes of my best friend. She s scared now...

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They were secretly made

[JackSmy]

I think it depends on the job you are applying for, and how you "explain" why these are online?
If I'm interviewing a candidate for a sales position, and working for a HUGE, WELL-KNOW company, and found nudes, in a background search, I would have to ask him/her how he/she thinks that these, being online, won't conflict with the Corporate values.
If I was hiring for a Gym, a WORKOUT place, that would be different.
If it was someone I was hiring for some office position, I would ask about it, of course, because it might imply irresponsible behavior, and depending on the answer, I might laugh, and just smile, and hire the person, with their skills, and accepting it as a silly mistake!
Why do TWO guys, have nudes of you, Uh, I mean, "Your Friend"?

[onahole-san]

"She should be scared. Giving nude pictures to someone else is stupid."
"Whores get the rope"
"She wasn't scared to send them though." "And nobody is forcing anyone to send nudes."

I swear, I think this might be my last post on this site. The people here are fucking insane. Your blaming the girl for daring to take a nude picture of herself? Secretly made, or given over willfully, what about the fucking prick leaking them?

I have received plenty of nudes, and never even considered using them to hurt the women who gave them to me. What is wrong with you fucking guys? Don't you want nudes from girls? This is how you fuck that up.

[onahole-san]

I want someone to reply to this. What I see in this thread is fucking disgusting and I am far from being some sort of SJW Feminist. The men on this site need fucking counseling.

[AlexisP98]

I hate hearing stories like this. It's really not a good idea to send nudes to anyone, it's unfortunately so common to see people break up and use them as a weapon, or for someone unintended to get hold of them.

Some of you men saying oh she deserves, it fuck you. You're probably the same assholes who constantly beg women on the internet to take these.

[Turtleneck22]

Agree. This is why if you do it you don’t include your face

[vanhan]

You're dumb enough to send it, at least we are smart assholes..

[AlexisP98]

Ugh.

[Account]

Ιt depends on how you handle it. In some cases yes, especially if you work in the education field.

[OlderAndWiser]

She should be scared. Giving nude pictures to someone else is stupid. If she wants to be a teacher, her career may be damaged. If she wants to be a day care operator, her career is damaged. If she wants to be any profession which requires a license, she may be prevented from doing that.

[Asker]

They were secretly takennnb

[Ohshee1]

Okay first of all how does your ex's get ahold of your friends pictures and the next thing is if your exes share pictures with her then they should respect did what she did was because she trusted them with her pictures and what they were doing at that time and they should always honor that that's one thing I can't understand. I've been to stranger chat sites and the guy will say hey do you have pictures of a girl's you want to trade and the first thing out of my mouth is fuck you because that girl trusted me with her pictures and she will always have that trust Within Me plus plus I delete pictures anyway

[Ohshee1]

That's messed up maybe you can get them for some sort of identity fraud

[NHI2017]

They probably wont……….. my girlfriend has videos of her getting railed by different guys online.

And nudes on top of it……..


And its never ben an issue for her, If someone asks she’s honest about it. And goes on about her life…….

Not a huge deal.

[SunnyFlorida]

It really depends on the career. But it should be a wake-up for your friend to stop taking nudes. In the past, Miss America had to return her crown after nude photos surfaced. Could help in some instances, Paris Hilton got more famous after her sex-tape was released. There are several legal protections against retaliatory porn posting.

[SunnyFlorida]

Your new update says the nudes were secretly made. There are Criminal laws against secretly recording nudes in the US. There are also extortion laws against threats to reveal such images.

[DWornock]

If you are famous, nudes can destroy your career. However, since she is not an important person, it doesn't matter. Maybe it would be embarrassing if the photos are sent to her family but no one else cares; nor would they be interested in the photos. Even the porn sights wouldn't want them because they have plenty of their own models.

[420Rachel]

If the men took the photos illegally, without her knowledge and consent, she needs to report them to the authorities. That can constitute serious prison time for the offenders. Tell your friend she needs to file a police report.

[rjroy3]

It can effect your reputation if it gets out in that particular area. But that classifies as revenge porn now and is an actual felony that they can get prison time for spreading.

Might want to tell your friend now if she doesn't already know.

[Asker]

Yeah but the guys tookt hem while she was sleeping

[rjroy3]

Legally speaking that's worse for him lol. So it's not even consensual photos. Sincerely if he spreads that she can devastate him

[rjroy3]

www.texastribune.org/.../#:~:text=In 2018, a lower court, Wednesday's ruling overturns that decision.

2018 Texas case. Lawyers tried to say revenge porn law violates the first amendment. Courts disagree and upheld the revenge porn law. Sincerely.

If this dude spreads that shit he is getting fined and jail time. Your friend is fine unless homeboy is convicted enough to go to jail and pay her money

[rjroy3]

Like this is one of the few legal matters I'm pretty passionate about so I know quite a bit on the subject. She's safe. Worse case scenario he tries to spread it under the radar, but why would he take the risk?

Even then she can make the legal dispute public in her area. So if he tries to damage her reputation she can devastate his to the point of not being able to live there. A guy being known as a guy that did that to his ex in his town would ruin him

[aquamarine321]

Well the way I see it, it’s almost normal to have nudes and even released online, but it depends on your culture, it’s normal for the western world, when released it becomes an embarrassment for the female, but goes to normal and forget after a period of time, it can cause ver bad problems depending on your culture and career

[ToastyOats]

Nah. They were private messages. If she was spamming social media with hot shots I might have less respect for her but if these guys do that with them, that is on them. Very rude thing to do.
There's women that have nudes of me and I just wouldn't give a fluke if they tried to "release them" good luck anyone seeing them.

[OddBeMe]

Logically what can they do with them? Upload to a revenge porn site. If they use her name, she could easily find and demand they be taken down.

But employers do google potential applicants. Pics of partying on FB can get you blocked.

But the courts are on your friends side. She just has to be diligent to keep watch for them.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Wow. You chose some real pieces of work with your past men, didn't you? If they snapped those pics without her consent, they're scum. Also, I'm pretty sure what they're doing - every step of it - is illegal.

[Miristheiss]

Sure.
It depends on the career.
Some it is irrelevant... some it can cause a firing.

Working with children is often a "no no" to have your sex life become public. Kids aren't to be exposed to that stuff.

[Anonymous]

Yes and it's every bit deserved. When a person cannot use their brains, has no self respect, etc. why should they burden companies with the stupidity of their presence? They won't contribute anything of value.

[Asker]

But it wads ecretly taken

[Opinion Owner]

If they were secretly taken then she goes to the police. The fact that you said a few exs and refer to it as nudes means she was desperate for attention and sent them to the guys

[Asker]

They were secretly taken

[Opinion Owner]

Are you stupid? She is lying

[FictionalCharacter]

Only if the career involves in good cause fundraisers along with working with children or disability.

[Miah02]

It really depends on your career and the company policy on scandals and if the company comes across them

[Anonymous]

Yes, I think so. The best thing to do is not show your face ever in your nudes. If you have a Good High Paying Job then it could come back to bite you. Come to think about it, your probably better off not even doing that. However, some women can't help themselves.

[AlannaBabe]

Some women? Not just women take nudes lol

[Opinion Owner]

@AlannaBabe Yeah, some women's pussies are so wet that they can't help but show their Erect Nipples for us Chads.

[AlannaBabe]

Guys take nudes

[Opinion Owner]

@AlannaBabe I don't feel bad for your friend at all. In the Real World actions have consequences. If this comes back to ruin her career then she deserves it.

[karaspara]

Potentially depending on what her career is however if they expose them without her permission they can be convicted criminally and I reckon that screws your career up more

[RealMarek]

Maybe, but unlikely. A lot of women have leaked nudes floating around these days. It depends on the person’s career. If someone is a teacher or an executive it is more likely to matter than not.

[Mofunfour20]

Irresponsible behavior can destroy your career. If you send nude photos it has consequences

[Asker]

but they were secretly made

[doopayo]

They can go to jail for that, if she doesn’t consent to those photos being put online I’m pretty sure. She can press charges

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then "Why do you even send nudes in the first place"? ↗

[doopayo]

They obviously sent it to that one person and didn’t consent for them to share it to their friends or the internet. That’s like sharing a pencil with one person and than them letting someone else use it and saying “well why’d you give me the pencil in the first place” they only gave that one person permission to use the pencil.

It’s not that hard it’s just common sense and common decency

[Birdlegs]

They can but most likely they won’t

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You're comparing a pencil to nude picture and we all know that lending someone a pencil isn't as risky as sending someone a nude pic. So because of that logic, i suppose you would also jump into some stranger's car because apparently for you it's just like lending someone a pencil. A common decency is also not sending nude pics in the first place. have you ever thought of that?

[doopayo]

Unsolicited nudes are different, the asker is obviously not talking about that

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That's not what im even talking about. But sure i'll talk about unsolicited nudes. You have no exact idea that those nude pics may be unsolicited and i'm not just talking about guys doing it. But that's still besides the point. You still haven't answered the question

[doopayo]

Because she wouldn’t be scared if the exes had integrity and didn’t keep her nudes on their phones. It’s weird to keep photos of someone you’re no longer in a relationship with, nudes are no different

[Aiko_E_Lara]

You also have the rights to do the same thing because what's given is given and no i'm not talking about posting it online. And secondly, no one is forcing you to commit to someone who's demanding you nudes. If dating for you is all about sending nudes, then there's no point of you complaining about what happens to what you sent.

[doopayo]

That’s not what I’m talking about and the asker iust updated saying the nudes were taken without them noticing so that changes things a lot

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Yeah sure the asker updated it just right now. Cases like that are exceptions but by default and most of the time, nudes are sent. Also whats your point taking a nude picture if you're not even going to send it? Sure there can be various unknown reasons but most of the time, that doesn't remove the fact that most of the time they are going to be sent. Sure what you're talking about is not all about nudes yet you're justifying that's stupid act. Anyway you still haven't give a clear answer as to why you have to send a nude pic in the very beginning. You give a scenario that happens later and after the nude pic being sent not the beginning.

[doopayo]

They were her ex so obviously she was in a romantic relationship with them or something

[Aiko_E_Lara]

So again why does it have to be nudes being sent? That's what proves "everything is sending nudes" according to you. Because you can't think of a romantic relationship without involving it. It's safe to assume you'd do the same thing for justifying it so much.

[doopayo]

Are you slow? I obviously don’t know their relationship so I can’t comment on how their relationship was, you can ask the asker if you want to know why she sent nudes so bad

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Lol you "can't" comment on the relationship yet you're suggesting jail without even knowing. Neither do I don't know the relationship but because you're jumping to that conclusion, which is why I asked that question. Now who you calling slow? It's ironic when someone who is is saying that.

[Dchrls78104]

A policewoman in my country once had naked pictures of herself 'leaked out' onto the internet, and was suspended from her job and faced eviction by her landlord.

[jspl90]

soo if the nudes were secretly taken how does she know they exist? and that with 2 exes having taken secretly nudes of her?

[Massageman]

As OlderAndWiser mentioned, any licensed position that requires a background check could be effected by such a discovery.

[exitseven]

I work in higher education and I would imagine if any questionable material about me ended up on the internet I would be fired.

[strraku]

Nudes do have potential to destroy the career if you aren't living in some developed country though they can destroy there too but chances are lesser than other

[saturnianqueen]

It shouldn’t, because your employer has no business in your personal life.

[Dream_vacation]

People are naked sometimes I don’t see why it should ruin your career. Everyone should grow up.

[AlannaBabe]

EXACTLY.

[Anonymous]

I don't know how.
There's so many pictures of naked people on the internet that the unemployment rate would be 75% if they all got fired.

[worldscolide]

Yeah she should be scared, on that same token, she made a choice, she needs to accept the consequences of her poor choices.

[joker143]

It will ruin your career and life too.
If the guy made it public.
Why don't girls understand they didn't click or share nudes with anyone in the world.

[Asker]

Thr guy made it secretly

[joker143]

U should talk to him and convince him to delete it

[FilmGuy93]

Oh, absolutely. Women who have nudes leaked need to make sure they are doing serious damage control.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she should have been less of an asshole to the people who had possession of the nudes. Too late now. If they are smart they will wait until she works her way up a little bit and then anonymously send them to every co-worker

[zagor]

@AlannaBabe Not necessarily. If someone TAKES nude pictures without consent and distributes them, that would be a crime. Distributing existing pictures of a non-minor is a gray area.

[zagor]

Assuming they were initially consensual.

[AlannaBabe]

It’s still a dick move

[Opinion Owner]

@AlannaBabe i agree , it is a dick move

[dray995]

It depends who you send them to or who ends up receiving them. Once you send them to someone, then you don’t have any control over who else sees them.

[Anonymous]

Maybe in the past but lots of girls have nudes online now, some even purposefully sell them online for a few bucks

[hellacray]

If they're in the public for everyone to see I think it can.

[jamesgoldman]

Absolutely, hence I don't even put my bare knees or shoulders into photo form

[Browneye57]

Naw. They just post them up on the internet for a good laugh.

[genericname85]

generally speaking, mostly no. but there are some particular careers, that can be ruined with that.

[anylolone]

Depends on the career, depending on the nudes.

Like those, I don't think so, unless those nudes involve her molesting minors.

[bulletbob555]

I know prospective employers scan for your internet presence. In her real life it could come back to haunt her. Let's hope it goes away

[lucas262]

No such thing as secret nudes mu bois always talk about getting pics.

[Dvchill]

Depends on the career most things no? Hell if they are really good might get them a career 😂

[Fuentes]

Why are you dating dudes who ur bestfriend sent nudes too thats even more weird and its her fault

[poneglyphs]

facts

[Made4sex]

She should be! At the same time… if they haven’t done anything yet she will most likely be fine.

[S3ntn0]

No, if it happened, your friend has to file case against the exes

[Anonymous]

I suppose it depends on your career. But do you REALLY want a career that can be destroyed with a nude pic?

[Calgarydirty69]

no one cares quit thinking of worst cause scenario send nudes to dannydavies322@gmail. com

[TurkishDİxon3419]

Then why are you posting nudes? Don't get into things you don't think about.

[EnglishEuropean]

Only if you're like a schoolteacher or something.

"Think of the children!"

[scooogy]

Unlikely for me, since I'd only be seen with my face between her legs :P

[Luckycharms12]

There is small chance they could. But we have a private life and those guys should delete the nudes

[888theGreat]

Why did she make them in the first place. She deserves everyone seeing them.

[AlannaBabe]

Victim blaming. Nice

[888theGreat]

@AlannaBabe I am blaming the one that produced them.

[jjj101010]

Not sure if an employer would dismiss someone for this. Couldn’t do it in the UK

[Calgarydirty69]

so, be comfortable with yourself MY cock,. should be all over the web

[Iuvtacos]

How do your exes have pictures of your best friend.

[Anonymous]

Don't post anything online that you don't want to STAY online

[Anonymous]

Depends upon the career. However, revenge porn and blackmail are illegal.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It temporarily damaged mine.

[BCA6010]

Yes. What the hell was she thinking?

[Bjornasey]

It is possible, but she can always sue.

[slatyb]

Mostly not. We all have bodies.