Am I wrong for this?

[Anonymous]

Am i wrong for not telling my girlfriend about my ex nudes that i have? i don’t even look at them anymore tbh but i don’t know if I’m wrong for that. Honest answers please but be real about this with me

Updates

+1 y

Yes. Like is it disrespectful towards my girlfriend? Tbh ill delete it right now i don’t care about the pics. I just have a guilty anxious conscious

[kyleelyn199723]

Honestly I do think it’s wrong because essentially you are holding onto stuff from the past and not only that admitting you look at other women besides her. That’s basically like if she checked out other guys right in front of you. When we are in relationships , we want to feel liked are the only person our partner looks at (even if you look at other people) , you definitely should never ever mention that you do to your partner or perpetuate that behavior around your partner. Yes you are wrong.

[Asker]

Dont mention this?

[kyleelyn199723]

Don’t mention what?

[Asker]

Im asking should i mention this?

[kyleelyn199723]

Mention that you have pics of your ex?

[Asker]

Yes. I dont even care about the pics. I have bad anxiety and my mental health is healing and i just don’t need this on my mind.

[kyleelyn199723]

To your update: yes it’s disrespectful to your girlfriend. It’s basically holding onto the past, but even worse because you are holding onto the past in a sexual way. Delete it before she finds it and turns it into an argument that you could’ve avoided by just simply deleting it

[humanearth]

No your not wrong. Thats your past, and if you want to talk about your past. Thats all on you. But younger a women is the more jealous they become of your past. Better off not telling them your dark past, because it always comes back worse.

Like when they say you can trust me. HA! Their telling their friends, or worse start a fight with you over a past girlfriend that you have not seen or heard from in years

Your better off dating 90 year old women

[Asker]

Now im getting completely opposite answers lmao thank you for the reply though

[humanearth]

Because the other person is a girl Right. Ask dudes only and watch what they say.

[kyleelyn199723]

Does that account for my boyfriend that is in his 30s and overall just a little more jealous of a person than I am? Just saying , every single person in a relationship wants to be looked at as their partners only choice

[kyleelyn199723]

And I am sure you are a single man trying to give a guy in a relationship, relationship advice 😉

[humanearth]

@kyleelyn199723 Like hear girly I been married for 29 years as a matter a fact this past Aug. 21 was my 29th.

Dont believe just ask most people on here that are Masters on gag. I am very well known on here and so is my wife. Yes my wife is a member to

[kyleelyn199723]

@humanearth highly doubt that one otherwise you would I understand the feeling of wanting to be your wife’s/girlfriends only choice. “Very well known” I’ve never seen you on here and I am on here a lot

[kyleelyn199723]

But also I think you misunderstood the question entirely. He isn’t asking to talk about the past , he is asking about keeping his exes nude in his phone. If you can’t agree that that is wrong I’m going to assume 1. You are single 2. You treat your wife that way also if you aren’t single

[Pj1981]

Yep, ditch em or at least tell her you got rid of them the next time it's brought up cause it will be brought up