Why is my boyfriend trying to make me look bad?

[Anonymous]

Infront of others,? He doesn't do that to others?

[No_biryani]

Because he's an immature idiot who doesn't value you. Please tell him to stop and if he doesn't break up. You deserve better

[Asker]

For example he talks good about others but doesn't about me. He stands up for others but he doesn't for me.

[No_biryani]

Hun, break up immediately

[Asker]

I do then he gets angry

[No_biryani]

Let him be angry. Thats his problem not yours

[Asker]

He took nudes secretly

[No_biryani]

The more reason for you to break up with him

[Asker]

He kindof ruinedmy fuure career

[Asker]

Future

[No_biryani]

you should breakup, find a lawyer and see if you can file a case against him for that

[Asker]

I live with him and havr no where to go

[No_biryani]

Find a shelter...

[Asker]

He says he cares about me

[NicoletteXO]

OMG this is a seriously lame thread. You sound like you are keen on maintaining your victimhood mentality. Annoying.

[kyleelyn199723]

This is a one sided argument right now, please elaborate or I can’t help

[Asker]

What do u mean one sided

[kyleelyn199723]

Two sides to every story. So far I only see one side with no explanation

[Asker]

That he humilatesme

[NicoletteXO]

The better question is, why would you keep dating this guy?

[Asker]

Becaus ehe says he cares and when i leave he gets upset

[NicoletteXO]

If he actually cared, he wouldn't make you look bad. And being upset when you leave doesn't mean he cares abut you - it means he wants to manipulate you. Never EVER judge a man's level of care by their words. Means nothing. Actions and investment in you mean something.