Why is my boyfriend trying to make me look bad?

[Sexubyb]

Infront of others? Is he jealous?

[dustybiker]

That is a flag for me.
There is teasing between people in a relationship.
And then there is degrading a partner in front of friends/others to get laughs. The second usually stems from a hurt that’s not been admitted yet or dealt with. I would ask what the problem is.

[Sexubyb]

A hurt?

[dustybiker]

An issue in the relationship that is a big deal to them, that has hurt them, but they haven't spoken up about it yet.

[ItsMeElliana]

a guy i loved did that a lot in front of his friends usually when i was around and he just makes fun of me but then also says good things about me to em later. man he's confusing af. and then he gives me love later alone to make it up

[PrettyPriya]

What exactly is he doing to make you look bad? A little context would help me give better advice.

[Sexubyb]

Shame me with ugly pictures, or yell at me call me names , gossip about me

[PrettyPriya]

@sexubyb

I haven't a clue why anyone would do such a thing. Sounds to me like it may be time to evaluate the relationship. Does not sound healthy at all.

[Ninani]

The better question here is why you stand by him when he treats you that way?

[Alyssa11]

Yes you should ask him to his face.

[Sexubyb]

U think he s?

[Sexubyb]

Jealous?

[Alyssa11]

I think so and I think you should confront him about it

[Sexubyb]

But whyyy

[Alyssa11]

I dont know thats why you need to confront him

[wankiam]

sounds like negging to me

[Iron_Man]

Somethings going on ask him

[Sexubyb]

I did no response

[Iron_Man]

Well that’s pretty rude on him

[LegendaryIcon]

why you have a boyfriend at 18, i dk

[Sexubyb]

Im 29

[LegendaryIcon]

then why do you have 18