Why does he comment negatively about my appearance when he's dated girls they aren't in particular shape?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

I don't know or care why and neither should you. Those comments worse than unhelpful. They are destructive. If you've told him that and he continues, that should be a deal-breaker.

[Asker]

he's not even in shape at all and I'm the one that is 🤷‍♀️

[slatyb]

DTMFA you can do a lot better

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He's being a bone head you need to move on and he got his standards set way too high

[Asker]

The thing is I am in shape and he is not. he's a skin and bone tall dude with a gut

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker He may have low self-esteem so he likes to bring girls down with the ones he meets?

[Asker]

Wonder why he would do this?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker My first ex-girlfriend had low self-esteem, I would give her
honest compliments but she would say well I don't feel pretty so you
see what I mean?

[Asker]

It's crazy anytime I wear nice clothes and look good he goes crazy at me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker There are people out there if they can't be happy, they don't want anyone else to be happy

[Asker]

The last message he sent me was "not so long ago you were all miss independent dont need no man" when dressed up one night lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker Sadly, he could be jealous of you too I'm sorry but these things happen

[Asker]

He asked if I was sexting other guys just the other day

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker It's shame you got to be accused of sexting other guys , See people with low self-esteem do these things

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For Most Helpful Guy :)

[kyleelyn199723]

Keyword is “dated” do you think he broke up with them because they were out of shape and got too comfortable in the relationship?

[Asker]

The thing is I am in shape and he isn't 🤷‍♀️

[In_Trance]

no idea; you'd have to ask him

[bigchanges]

ugly