Can a person just drain the energy out of you?

I'm so tired of these girls. Like that one that one that turned everything into an argument. Then the one that I talked to for a couple weeks and then said she needed to work on herself for a while. None of these girls are over the last guy they dated. Im just that in between guy that they just waste all my time. Then the other girl that moved away for the summer then 2 weeks ago she said she's going to bring this guy back that she met out of state instead of dating me. It's an endless cycle that never goes anywhere.
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Found a new girl on tinder. She said she wants to do adventurous things and said she's tired of going out for drinks. I told her I'd take her out on my boat and she's down for it. We will see I guess how it turns out. I told her to bring her tazer if she's worried about me being a phsyco. She's like but what if I kill you instead? Lol I love it.
Can a person just drain the energy out of you?
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