Just happened recently actually. Long but interesting I promise.
Met a girl on tinder. Met for dinner and drinks. I could tell she was a little crazy, from the beginning but she was hot, and I was thinking with my dick. Mistake.
She asked to come to make out back at my place, we had sex pretty much right when we got there. Then she started saying crazy shit... a few examples.
- she has 100k plus in student debt, doesn't pay it. Doesn't even know if they are federal or private loans
- doesn't have a job, but has "4 degrees". Really she just has a quadruple major which I didn't know was a thing, but doesn't want to use them because she is not interested in a business major job. And she can't get a restaurant job now because of COVID...
- "Gets along with guys more" than women. And is still friends with all of her exes, uses their houses sometimes to hang out in, do laundry etc. Was talking about all the people she used to date all night as well.
She asked to stay the night, I agreed. Mistake. She had to fall asleep with the TV on or a podcast playing. I didn't like it but fine whatever. Wanted to hang on me and cuddle all night. I said I can't sleep like that, she continued to do it. Wanted to have sex again, I wasn't really interested but she was insistent, went along with it. Then she keeps talking about future dates, and calling me babe things like that. I told her I don't like it.
Then she wants to have sex AGAIN, I said no this time. I was tired. She grabbed my dick, said, "but you're still hard" and literally moved her body over and put my dick inside of her, it happened so fast. Basically raping me. I was a little shocked but went along with it to not cause this crazy woman to lose her shit in my place. When done, told her that was not cool, and don't do that again. Finally go to sleep.
She talks in her sleep, takes up the entire bed, pushing me into the corner. Saw her get up in the middle of the night and lay on the floor, then get back in bed. Thought it was weird but I was half awake. Woke up in the morning to find that she had "sleep walked" and pissed on my floor. The nice little cherry on top. Confronted her, she denied it. But I didn't piss or spill water that smelled like her sweaty vagina, so the evidence was pretty clear. Didn't argue just got her out of my house.
When I dropped her at her car, she asked if I wanted to see her again. I said I would have to think about it, for the reasons above basically. But had no intention of ever seeing her again. On the way home she called and admitted "she might have peed" on the floor. I said yeah no shit. And then tried to tell me why I should give her another chance. I disagreed.
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This is why I deleted tinder long ago and only approach women in person
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I've met some good women on tinder. They are out there if you are a decent guy with his shit together. Especially in your 30's. But hard to find on there for sure. I just have it as an option. No use in limiting my ways of finding someone.
But there are some crazies for sure. I have definitely been focusing more on meeting people out these days.
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+1 yIt was right after I graduated from university. I was foolish and reckless with my money after I got my first job, spending it on fancy clothes and a nice car and such. So I met this girl at a formal business party wearing a fancy tailored suit and watch. She worked at another company (not shitting where I eat) and she seemed very interested in me.
So we went on a date and very early on while we were walking around, she wanted to go inside a store. Inside she picked out this really expensive Gucci purse and I thought she was shopping for herself. So I followed her to the counter and thought she was going to pay for it only for her to tell the cashier that I got it.
Then I was like, "WTF?" I refused and just aborted the entire date right there. After that, I just started showing up wearing modest clothes and stopped trying to flash my money. My father also became ill the following year and needed financial assistance and I got used to just being frugal and modest with things like how I dress and the car I drive.00 Reply
+1 yI met someone online, he seemed like a decent guy. We talked otp for 2 months first. He picked me up from my house and asked if we could go to the hotel and just talk and get to know each other more since We missed our reservation time for dinner, it was my fault so I agreed (young and Naive at the time). We hung out and eventually he made sexual advances and I wasn’t interested. When we got in the the car for him to take me back home he became like a mad man. He started yelling and screaming at me as in a rage and made gestures like he was going to hit me, while driving really fast. It was a date from hell. I will never date online again.
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+1 yWorst date? I would probably say with a guy that you to call me his “bestie” but then would make advances on me. He took me to a buffet, which I dislike buffets. He then took me to his job which was a driving school only it was closed? He took me to the mall and I ended up losing my keys (disaster) and then he took me back to his place and kept trying to make sexual advances on me the whole entire time.
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8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Unbeknown to me I was set up with a girl by a friend from college. He was a local kid that commuted to school so I got to meet some of his friends. We were going to a bar and there was a girl that was meeting us there that him and his girlfriend was trying to set me up with.
We did not get along at all. She was sarcastic and not very friendly. My friend and his girlfriend thought it would be funny if they just left us there together. I did not have a car and it was about 5 or 6 miles back to my dorm in freezing temperatures.
She decides to leave and I ask her for a ride and she refuses. As she was driving off I jumped onto the hood of her car and held on for dear life as she tried to shake me off.
Finally she stopped and decided to give me a ride.
I look back on this now and laugh.00 ReplyWas right before I turned 18. This guy I liked took me to my favorite restaurant. Wasn't really rude, but was impatient with the staff. Afterwards drove us to a place near a lake. Then said I needed to pay him back for dinner, I could "put out or get out." It was wait before I got my friend to pick me up, but had a long time to think how to avoid jerks.
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O wow that was bad..
+1 yShe didn't smile in her pictures. When I met her on the date, I quickly saw her teeth were... all black with layers 🤢. Being a nice guy and I drove 2hrs to see her, we still went to the restaurant to eat but my interest went to -999999999. I hardly said anything and just ate mainly. On the drive back... she farted 💥 in my truck... it smelled like death 💀. I was disgusted and still am thinking about it.
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I’m seriously thinking about it too
+1 yI was ghosted. I called her. She said she changed her mind. I wasn't mad. I just learnt a valuable lesson. Avoid the bipolar women on dating apps no offence to bipolar sufferers 😐
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+1 ySo, I went to a restaurant with a guy. He was super rude to the waiters and left a mess. It was embarrassing.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThis one sick head pulls up in a bmw, takes me to some fancy Indian place, then literally tried to get into my pants the moment we get back into his car. No real conversation at all. I ended up just ubering myself home.
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He probably tells all his friends that you were just using him for his money so you could just get a free dinner and then leave immediately after.
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@LisaRaven Ha! Either way he has no idea what went wrong with his flawless plan. 😂
+1 yI’ve never had a bad date. When the man leads, the woman will follow, and the date will be a good time.
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+1 yonly been on one date so far and maybe a second one soon :)
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+1 yshe changed her phone number in the middle of the date
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yOh god she was racist I was disgusted by her mindset
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yAny expensive one that had uncomfortable moments and no sex
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+1 yI’ve never been on a date
10 Reply10.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Really never had anything worse than wasted time.
00 Reply5.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Never been on date.
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. One where the girl wouldn't talk.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNothing
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