What’s the worst date you’ve ever been on?

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exitseven · Accepted Answer

Freshman year in college I had a friend who was a local kid who commuted to school. He and his girlfriend said that they knew somebody that they thought I should meet. So on Friday night they picked me up at my dorm and we drove to a restaurant they knew to meet up with this girl.

She was already at the restaurant when we got there. She was nice looking and I was already interested in meeting her.

The four of us sat in a booth and she told me that she went to the local Community College and I told her that I was in Air Force ROTC and wanted to be a pilot. She was sort of a hippie and she thought that I was a fascist. We were not getting along at all.

My friend thought it would be funny if he left us there alone so he and his girlfriend snuck out of the restaurant. And left the two of us alone. This girl tells me she was leaving. I asked her if she would give me a ride back to my dorm and she refused. I told her I would have to walk 5 or 6 miles in the freezing cold. She didn't care.

So as she was leaving IU jumped on the hood of her car and held on as she took a couple of laps around the parking lot trying to shake me off. I had a good grip on the top of the hood and she could not shake me off. She finally stopped and let me in her car. We had a very quiet ride back to my dorm but I thanked her for the ride. I never saw her again.

skunk3n · Accepted Answer

Once I met a girl, first I went for a hug. But she backed away, then I went for a handshake, which she completely ignored and continued into the pizzeria.
When we was in the Pizzeria, I asked her lightly what she liked most.. No answer.
When we had done our ordering, we took a table and sat.
She had her arms crossed from the beginning, which sends to me very defensive attitude. She had veeeery short answers, I mean. .. I even asked her it's Okay if she wants to leave. But she remained on her seat, like she wants to punish me?

After a while, It appears she had hide her ASD-disorder... I mean, no mention about it on the profile or in chat. Of course I could smell a rat somewhere.. But damn, so right after she mentioned that. I stood up, said it has been a pleasure to meet up, but I need to go, and then I left.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I was at my family’s favorite restaurant with the guy who took me to prom. He was a college sophomore and I had just gotten the great news that I was about to start college as a second-term SM on full scholarship. As you might guess, I was BEAMING from the moment I hung up the phone and when the guy picked me up I blurted the news out to him as we crossed the street to the restaurant.

He didn’t take it well. We sat in dead silence at the table till our order was taken. When I asked him what was wrong he nearly flipped the table over. He slammed the table and yelled at me — a full on meltdown — about whether I felt I was better than him, blah… blah… blah.

I very quietly got up, went to the restroom to calm down bc I was scared out of my mind, then went to the owner to give him money for my half of the bill and walked out, never to talk to that guy again… and learning very abruptly that guys don’t like smart girls.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Worst one I would have to say was when a guy took me to a country oriented bar (which was fine) however you could tell he was already drunk and he constantly kept talking about his ex plus bringing me up to New Hampshire even though it was only our first date. I wasn’t having fun and he went up to a girl at the bartend that seemed less than thrilled that he had walked up to her (found out later his friend ghosted her a week prior). I cut the date short because I felt like I was wasting my time that night

AviatorTom · Answer

I've told this story before..

After my divorce, I met a woman online. Her profile pic was a pretty face. We chatted a bit and agreed to meet at a restaurant for a first date. I got there at our agreed time, she was late. This grossly obese woman walked in, wearing a skimpy pink top and shorts. The first words out of her mouth were, "My pussy is so wet." I just got up and left.

electromagnetic · Answer

When I was 19, I went on a date with this one dude. Asked to pick me up from house and I opted for closest train line. Anyways, picks me up in this fancy car, takes me to this Indian spot and orders everything!
Spent 2hrs talking about himself, his money, his Rolex watch, his fancy car, his band and them going on tour, and why I should accept his invite for drinks at his house. Horrible table manners.
Told him I’d rather go home since I had plans the following morning, opted to drive me back to the station. We get there and he started getting handsy and that was my que to practically run out of the car. I’m thankful he wasn’t smart to lock the doors.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

He said he'd drive me to the beach, we'd eat a meal and listen to music.

On the date he got lost driving, wasn't hungry, and revealed he didn't actually like the beach. In person I'm shockingly charismatic but even i struggled to hold a chat with the guy since we had nothing in common. Aaaand to top it all off, he of course lied about his height. Which just made everything a whole lot worse 💀

Blocked him immediately after 😄

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Met with a girl I was chatting with for months and months to find out she was the most reclusive introvert I had ever met. Couldn't decide where to eat or if to eat, couldn't decide anything, couldn't talk about anything. We even met two or three more times, but it got hardly better.

Nikki1989 · Answer

A virgin guy that couldn't hold a conversation about anything. Things only became far worse when we went to the bedroom.

Foolablee · Answer

A few years back I went to the movie theater to watch a Marvel movie, and the movie theater here is next to a mall and right across the beach. It was all nice and cool until he kept trying to sexually push onto me and tried to get me to go back to his place. Not the type to do that, especially with someone I'm not with romantically. I went home after I asked him to stop multiple times.

ClaircognizantEmpath · Answer

i went round to a guys house just early evening,, he already was weird about me ringing him and saying about wine would he like a beer, his ex girlfriend drunk too much wine according to him, sat on a sofa he stayed in this recliner armchair, and when i said do you move from there? thinking why is he not moving next to me, his response ladies and gentlemen, was, i only move from this chair for a shit or a shower! i was literally done in a nano second!!!

dolemite58 · Answer

I was set up on a blind date with this girl through a friend of a friend. She was rude to me, rude to the waiting staff, she was ordering expensive food and drinks, texting on her phone constantly. I said I had to go to the bathroom and excused myself from the table and I just left and blocked her number. I heard after the fact she threw a fit cuz she was stuck with a really big bill.

front2back · Answer

She was late, arrived and was on her phone texting friends 80% of the time, and then proceeded to tell stories about how she'd get wasted at parties and nearly date r*ped.

I paid and got out of there then instantly blocked her from contact.

katiesmuff · Answer

I managed to get a date with this guy I wanted in my pants so bad and once we got to the sex he was the worst ever. Ended up just getting dressed and left him by himself. We were both 18 at the time.

JosyJosy · Answer

One where my friends tried to couple me with this guy and I hate when that happens so I left the moment I could.

DarkLegacy · Answer

We got into the restaurant and she mentioned she was a feminist. I left her there to pay the bill

LiamJHayden · Answer

A coffee date where it turned out she had recently broken up and was clearly still stuck on he ex. Does any date really want to hear someone constantly talk about an ex?

Alex-Snow · Answer

One where I had to head home with blue balls and had to take care of things on my own

Anonymous · Answer

That gold digger wanted to use me for a free meal and I screened her before inviting her to a date. Fortunately for me, THAT'S the worst date, that happened to me. 🙄

MacDaddyRico · Answer

Blind date. She was a he. I felt like I was tricked and got angry, though I held back on actually beating the crapola out of him.

blondfrog · Answer

She told me she practiced witch craft on a 1st date. Of course I got scared.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been on a date, and never will be. I'm hoping my liver will shut down within the next few months

Anonymous · Answer

The guy puked on his meal. I just got up and walked out.

NathanDavis · Answer

never had a bad date... yet

paledreams · Answer

Stood up. Shopping mall eateries

shortster · Answer

Does it count if I got stood up?

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