Highly dependents on looks, how interesting you are, how your physic is. If you over or under weight, below average looking. It's just waste of time. To be real with you, look in libraries or bar, cafe, etc. Online dating is just waste of time at least for me it was. (6 months 1match, that too no response)...
No I wouldn't recommend people now a days are crazy plush mostly online dating you will come across with a lot creeps perverts eh NO ! Not for me I am very old school I prefer meet on person either at church , threw a friend.
I hate online dating but it’s the only way for me to meet people. The choice paradox that comes with online dating has its users so picky they never want to settle until they found their better match. It’s a vicious circle because there will always be someone better for you no matter what.
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I've looked at online dating apps before. Many times. From tinder to bumble to grindr, to blendr, to OkCupid and more. But I either got hardly selected or the women who did I just didn't want to swipe for them or click for them. I guess shallow works both ways I should add about myself and my wants in a woman.
In answer to your question, well you can always just download tinder and scroll and delete if you get bored or you get annoyed or whatever.
99% of women will focus and obsess on the top 15% of dudes the bottom 85% are completely invisible to them. When they say they want “a good man”, “caring”, “emotional”, “loving” etc. But what they mean is that they want the top 15% to be like that (which they will never be because they are the top % and they have their pick of 99% of women). So either ladies cut that sh*t out or stop complaining about “where are all the good men”
I've been having better luck with it after the lock downs lifted. Not sure why. I did update all my pics and got a couple decent ones on there. Either that or it's because I don't get passed off anymore when they get flaky. I think it's the pictures.
cautiously... and never compromise your safety or well being
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There was someone in here (55) who mentioned that they met their girlfriend here, and not even looking. They just clicked. That kind of online dating, the fortunate.. 💘
Yes why not you have nothing to lose and more to gain i mean as friends. Online dating sucks because you are been judge by a picture on a phone instead of personally getting to know a person which is way better to me
Most of those are Long distance relationships and they are extremely difficult and over 95% fail except I was in one and I did a lot of work to keep it going and I was successful
I mean its up to you. I have done online dating and if your lucky you will find some very good people. More than likely tho sense your a woman you may find some asshole. Who knows tho good luck to you
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Highly dependents on looks, how interesting you are, how your physic is.
If you over or under weight, below average looking. It's just waste of time.
To be real with you, look in libraries or bar, cafe, etc.
Online dating is just waste of time at least for me it was.
(6 months 1match, that too no response)...
It's swiping right if you want to match them lol, get the lingo down first lol
Oh dear... noted LMAO
And don't set terribly high expectations, like high but not too extra. Open-minded is best
Well good luck to me!
I mean if you want any advice or stories, ask away
Thanks! It sounds like youve got experience? Did it go well for you?
Yes and no
Oh man :/
Can you message me and I will share?
Yup sure
No I wouldn't recommend people now a days are crazy plush mostly online dating you will come across with a lot creeps perverts eh NO ! Not for me I am very old school I prefer meet on person either at church , threw a friend.
My parents met at a bar in the 70s.. still together to this day lol
What about meeting a guy at a bar/club?
@Priv9696 Bar isn't my thing lol
I hate online dating but it’s the only way for me to meet people. The choice paradox that comes with online dating has its users so picky they never want to settle until they found their better match.
It’s a vicious circle because there will always be someone better for you no matter what.
I've looked at online dating apps before. Many times. From tinder to bumble to grindr, to blendr, to OkCupid and more. But I either got hardly selected or the women who did I just didn't want to swipe for them or click for them. I guess shallow works both ways I should add about myself and my wants in a woman.
In answer to your question, well you can always just download tinder and scroll and delete if you get bored or you get annoyed or whatever.
You can find your spouse online. My friend found his wife in Facebook.
But the best spouses are revealed by God. You can't find them without God.
As for my friend, God helped him find her on Facebook.
Been there, done that. Not a fan. I think it’s actually one of the worst things to ever happen to dating.
If you feel like it, go for it :)
Just be prepared for the downsides so you won't be so let down.
Hilarious pfp by the way
Thank you lmao
99% of women will focus and obsess on the top 15% of dudes the bottom 85% are completely invisible to them. When they say they want “a good man”, “caring”, “emotional”, “loving” etc. But what they mean is that they want the top 15% to be like that (which they will never be because they are the top % and they have their pick of 99% of women). So either ladies cut that sh*t out or stop complaining about “where are all the good men”
She didn't ask for an incel rant. None of what you've said has any relevance to what she's shared.
I've been having better luck with it after the lock downs lifted. Not sure why. I did update all my pics and got a couple decent ones on there. Either that or it's because I don't get passed off anymore when they get flaky. I think it's the pictures.
I'm commenting here because I dig your profile pic 🤙🤙
All I'm gonna say is:
You go, girl! You go find your brown guy 🤙
How is this a question? You'll do great. Online dating, and dating in general is where you hold every card. So, there's nothing in it for us.
If I held every card I’d have a boyfriend now wouldn’t I
cautiously... and never compromise your safety or well being
There was someone in here (55) who mentioned that they met their girlfriend here, and not even looking. They just clicked. That kind of online dating, the fortunate.. 💘
I'm not big on online dating, but it doesn't hurt to give it a try.
Yes why not you have nothing to lose and more to gain i mean as friends. Online dating sucks because you are been judge by a picture on a phone instead of personally getting to know a person which is way better to me
I've tried it before but I don't think I ever will again. I don't know. It feels weird. It doesn't feel 100% real. Its also not safe
Most of those are Long distance relationships and they are extremely difficult and over 95% fail except I was in one and I did a lot of work to keep it going and I was successful
I mean its up to you. I have done online dating and if your lucky you will find some very good people. More than likely tho sense your a woman you may find some asshole. Who knows tho good luck to you
Go ahead, but know that any girl is gonna get a ton of attention there and most of us only want to hook up.
So you have to filter a lot.
Maybe try sites like Bumble.
Or what about matrimonial sites?