Men, what are reasons why you would not date a woman in her late twenties?

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bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

1. Most likely has too much past sexual history.
2. She won't be fertile as long as a younger woman.
3. She won't be attractive as long as a younger woman.
4. She already has made big life choices. Often instead of building a life together she's already committed to building her life alone. Ie she's taken out tons of debt to become a doctor. Now she has to work as a doctor to pay down such debt and cannot be a home maker or spend time going on vacations all the time. So she won't match with a man looking for either of those options.
5. Its really nice to date someone young and be there for them and watch them grow up those last few years into their adulthood. I've dated 2 girls now I've snatched up at 18 and watched them grow up and helped them mature and its such an amazing intimacy you just can't get any other way.

Novacane · Accepted Answer

Ideally, I would love to date someone around my age who is getting close to the late '20s. But one thing I am noticing is that it's harder to date women of those ages because their standards are much higher than regular. It's already hard to find someone as it is but at this age, you are either finding people that are already in a relationship/engaged, have kids, or are more focused on their career, which their career is a good thing don't get me wrong but that usually shuts them out from dating so that's already out the picture. I think that's why men tend to date younger people because they don't have to deal with all that.

MCheetah · Answer

I would date a woman in her late twenties if all else was good. But some reasons would be:

- She's a feminist (hates men, stupid, negative, lazy, evil, entitled)
- She's gay ("bisexual")
- She's a single mother
- She's abusive
- She's a gold digger
- She's shallow or superficial
- She has extremely bad hygiene

Anonymous · Answer

ideally I'd like to have had the best years of her to myself instead of another man. A woman looks her best in her early 20's imho. And they are in their prime years. I dont like that she gave those best years to a fuckboy. Now I gotta work my ass off to help support her and try to keep her loyal to me. But at the same time she was giving it up for little or free to multiple men before men? That doesn't sit well with me. I hate it but being with women today I just can't kiss her and have sex with her without thinking that she had another man's penis in her mouth and vagina. It makes me feel filthy and worthless tbh.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no reason to not date a woman in her late twenties. But after about age 30 I start to question why she is still single. If it has to do with her prioritizing career and/or casual sex over serious relationships, then she's not someone I am interested in.

Women hold most of the power in the dating game before about age 30 (after which the power shifts to men). I have no respect or sympathy for women who listen to the feminist messages that encourage them to not take advantage of that power when they have it to find a good life partner while they are younger.

I have no sympathy for the many women I've known who squandered that opportunity and missed their chance, and are now asking "where have all the good men gone?". The answer to that question is the good men either found a good woman and got married/committed, or now they are dating younger women because men have the power in dating after age 30.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Too much emotional baggage. Constant distrust and attitude. I've also had a lot of experiences where women will get super edgy about their independence, which I get on one side, but when she starts bringing up independence at unnecessary times, it just becomes unpleasant to deal with.

Lliam · Answer

Her age would have nothing to do with it. Maybe younger guys would think she was old. LOL

I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. But when I was 37, I lived with a 31 year old lady who was the most amazing girlfriend I ever had in my life. I loved her with my heart and soul. I still do.

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

She’s older than me She’s a feminist She’s atheist she’s rude she isn’t visual enough when it comes to physical attraction She doesn’t have the physical attributes I find attractive She’s not interested in starting a family She’s a gold digger.

Bebress · Answer

Because she's in late twenties and acting like she just turned 20

She is older than me

When i was young i always wanted to date older girls and now when i am 25 i want to date someone younger. That's how i realize that men mostly just want to date someone who is in their early twenties like 21-24

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Kids, overweight, and bad habits. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Most women weigh more than men. If she is cute and single in her late 20s she definitely got a few issues. If she isn't married by 27 she wasn't raised to be a wife. Most women aren't, id tell my sister if she asked me but most women dont respect advice from men.

Anonymous · Answer

Ugly, does not give a damn about her looks in the slightest, never wears sexy, skimpy, form-fitting outfits and instead always wears ugly, formless, all-covering clothes, and never wants to have fun in her life ever again since she doesn't have an ounce of a life outside of her career.

Those days of fun are way past her since she is past the age of appearances and fun (18-23, college years). She doesn't give a crap anymore and instead has devolved into a soulless, hobbyless, ugly shell of herself. 18-23 is the only age range of women I will ever be friends with, date, or have sex with. 24+ women aren't worth my time and will never be worth my time.

Anonymous · Answer

Till 28 is fine for me more than that usually end up in bad way generally girl have lot of choices but they ignore the guy that willing to commit and hold her hands in public and say I love you she goes to ride the cock carousel or chaos with bad boys we are talking about broken ribs blue punched eye and mental trauma girls realize they're hitting the wall and want that good guy again but it's late the good guy not interested anymore.

Generally older girls have lot of mental trauma and trust issues and they bring lot of baggage to the new relationship why would I deal with such thing? That's why we actually just quit the dating game women now days bring competition and war to the relationship. Some girl need long psychologist treatment but they deny it and go to tiktok to vent their feelings. No morals no ethics trust issues chaos horrible ex relationship. That's why men choosing video games over dating

libsaretards · Answer

I am in my late twenties so this would be my ideal age range. If I choose not to date a woman in this age range, it would not be due to her age but because I do not like her, she has kids (big deal because I want her to have my kids and mine only) or she is bat shit crazy.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

I wouldn’t not… but my criteria are going to be much more strict. If I’m dating a woman in her late 20’s it wouldn’t be casual dating. Meaning I expect her to not have a high body count, not have crazy leftist ideologies, and have the same values and beliefs to be compatible.

edgey · Answer

Is she attractive (face and body)?
Does she have children?
Is she a party animal?
Does she have a job?

Does she want to be with me because i will make her life easier? I. E. - use me

If a woman has any of these red flags, she is put on the 2nd string roster.

Browneye57 · Answer

There are no reasons for age alone. Just understand that the longer you wait to properly engage a high-value guy, you then have to start competing with women much younger in the dating pool. If you wait another decade, your options narrow further. Over forty it's nearly impossible to find a suitable mate, for a LOT of reasons.

Don't squander your youth.

SynthKobra · Answer

Guess I’m in the minority here but I’d only date a woman in her late 20s if she took care of herself and knew what she wanted out of life. I prefer younger women (22-25) because they just tend to be prettier than their older counterparts. Call me shallow but at least I’m honest.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

1. Too young for me.
2. Wears thongs or sports tattoos and body piercings.
3. Is a feminist.
4. Supports abortion.
5. Is into anal, oral, or period sex.
6. Looks like she's under 18.
7. Has an SO, an ex she's not over, a high body count, or a child.
8. Is a partygoer or a golddigger.

BBFDancer · Answer

1. Toxic Feminist,
2. Liberal/Democrat
3. Hate Christians, Jews, Africans, Native Americans, or hate anyone.
4. those who are for abortion.
5. those who hate America.
6. Those hate kids.
7. hate animals.
8. hate hunters, farmers, and fishermen.
9. hate the US Military.
10. hate police.
11. hates by race.
12. get offended by everything.
13. being controlling and lies a lot.

Buckzor · Answer

Because I already feel like I’m so much younger than my age (mentally & emotionally) so am even older women scares me being able to stack up in maturity, life experience and in general.

Levin · Answer

Why wouldn't I?  Seems a good age. Attractive physically, with some maturity. The reasons I wouldn't date would be across the age spectrum, not because of age alone.

Abdulwahh · Answer

Let me explain men are attracted to fertile women and physical appearance because we visual therefore women peak before 30 and we men peak after 30 we low value in are 20s why because we are as attractive as how good we perform in life
Remember im not saying women above 39 are ugly there are really gorgeous womsn in there 50s but we look at fertility factor women are most fertile in early to mid 20s

Nik1hil · Answer

Girls apex is at 21-23 .. It starts at 16 and starts falling down after 30... Nobody want to invest in stock or assets who's value will just keep tumbling down with time...  It's a bad investment..

DonkeyDan · Answer

I wouldn't rule it out but for me it's probably too young. I dated a 25 yo when I was 41 and she was just too immature for me, but that could have just been her.

TwistedSukuna · Answer

I'd be perfectly fine doing that tbh, more mature than the girls I'm around rn. Only reason I can say I wouldn't is they probably wouldn't have me tbh.

TexasRed95 · Answer

This is the opposite for me. I wouldn't date a woman in her early 20s. Far too immature and active. I live I a college town and they all just want to part which is not something I like doing at all.

MrKinktastic · Answer

I do date them but the ones I have avoided tend to be a bit jaded by assholes and grumpy that their still single.

MrCommodore · Answer

I've just turned 39, so I couldn't really see me dating a girl under 29 tbh, in reality I have never dated a girl who was more than 4 years younger.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Her personality and her body. Everyone will tell you variants of this.
A few idiots might say she is to old or has been around the block to much. 16 year olds are not safe near those people and that is all I have to say about them.

IcedLemonade · Answer

80% of her eggs are dried up. She's further and further away from that charming youthful innocence. And I'm 21

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Currently it's just because I wanna date someone closer to my age. Once I'm in my late 20s I'll happily date someone who's the same age

Miristheiss · Answer

If there deal breakers. Nothing about just the age.

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