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Don't feel badly for the men who messaged you, they messaged 1000 other women as well.
Oh 💡enlightingI appreciate the perspective.
@meetkitty123. How can you possibly filter through this number of matches?
😔 can't unless you spend hours upon hours answering one questionnaire at another questionnaire which are supposed to bump up the ones who are your better match based on personality and habits but some of these questionnaires have 20+ questions on them I found myself spending more time answering website psychological questionnaire nonsense leaving very little time to actually take a look at my matches much less send them a message or even get to know anyone.
G@G has a better set up for getting to learn a person (by reading their posts/ answers) ironically thats is not at all what this website is intended for and I'm not saying that it should be used for that... Compared to any other stupid dating website which only offer psychological analysis. But I suppose gags structure would benefit a dating website more. If the individuals were able to ask random questions and other people answer them this would make it easier to navigate through "matches" found through psychological analysis. I suppose members could have a certain number by their name which would look different on each members account that would indicate how well you are compatible. the higher the number more compatibility the lower the number less compatibility base on of course those psychological analysis test. It would relieve a lot of pressure In getting to know an individual since you would be socializing within a community and of course have the option to private message if you grew comfortable with someone. But I don't know much about dating websites except for eHarmony/match however I believe that doesn't exist
How active?😏Forget that question.we're they dates or hookups?
@Andres77 Actually I never ended up going out or meeting with anyone I matched with
@Subarugirl. I see these women who say they have 900+ matches over a very short period of time. What does this do to the psyche of a woman?
It cheapens the legitimate attention they get. You get used to being seen as a sex object and realize that most men only value you for your ability to sexually gratify them.
@Subarugirl. How so? If men are genuinely interested in you, is it assumed that interest is just sexual? Do you assume the interest is sexual because you put provacotive photos as your profile? I am genuinely asking not judging.
I am not naïve, but I am skeptical of any man who randomly starts being overly friendly and complimenting my appearance. The internet is a tool, neither good or bad it all depends on how it's used.
@Subarugirl. Ok, but you created your profile with the purpose of getting "matches", correct? So are you inherently suspicious of your matches? Would that not hint at a different problem?
I'm not suspicious, I am skeptical, there is a big difference. I think that is very healthy to be warry of anyone who match with on an online dating app.
@Subarugirl. Oh, I agree, for sure. So how does a lady separate the bunch and find someone she might want to meet. Is it just "he's hot"?
Depends on the lady, but for me I wouldn't meet up with anyone I couldn't have a stimulating conversation with. Hypothetically.
Oh I know. I want to see the disparity between men and women.
It's very true. We do get a lot and It's gets very overwhelming.
I honestly noticed what you mentioned. I get tons of men responses and lucky to hear from 1 or 2 women even on posts where I only invite women (though I always leave my post open to both genders) but isn't that safe to conclude it's technically the same as those dating websites more men to women ratio?
@meetkitty123 yeah it seems to be the case with more men on sites then women it appears unless it’s Instagram LOL