because he doesn't love you enough. trust me, if a man truly wanted you all to himself , he would have no problem committing to you. the concept that men are designed to spread their seed is a lie because if this was true there would be no such thing as marriage. Except marriage has existed for thousands of endless years.
Marriage exists solely from societal pressures and expectations and adherence to to those old expectations known as tradition. Rarely was love ever considered as reason for marriage in the past
Romance has never been a factor in marriage. Certainly you can marry someone without romance but it just makes it more difficult cus you have an option of better more passionate romance marriages
I have no problem reading but maybe you have a problem with critical thinking? All I am saying is monogamy or marriage has nothing to do with love it was invented as a declaration of an family alliances and financial reasons that is all so married couples were under pressure from their family and society to not cheat on each other and risk breaking those alliances. Your conclusion that marriage exists therefore men or people in general are not designed to cheat is false. They have nothing to do with each other. That's all I am pointing out... 🤷
Yea I definitely wouldn't want to be in an arranged marriage either! Lol but statistically they for whatever reason have the lowest divorce rates most probably again because of family and society pressures
well usually the only reason why a man won't commit to a woman is because he doesn't fulfill him in many ways. Sure he may like you, but if you're not number 1 in his life, he won't commit to you.
@vald9inches but you also need to realize that romance and feelings are fickle. they change over time. this is why divorces happen so much in countries where romance marriages are most common.
You are definitely right there! Romance and feelings and honestly people in general are very fickle creatures! Lol but at the end of the day everyone are doing what makes them happy and if everyone was happy in the world the world would be a better happier place right?
i think that in order for us to have forever lasting marriages, people need to stop viewing marriage as a joy ride but rather as a union where both individuals care and support each other forever. All throughout history, marriage was more about caring and supporting each other, teaming up to raise kids than about romance.
It honestly makes me want to cry when I still see 75 yr olds who been married since they were 22. Such forever lasting marriage never exists anymore.
Because at a deep, innate, natural, biological, anthropological, scientific and evolutionary LEVEL, we are not monogamous creatures, we are actually POLYAMOROUS by "Default".
Go read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. You'll be MIND BLOWN.
Because men are horny dogs duh! Lol but regardless of gender people are going to do what makes them happy and if they feel trapped in a relationship they will rebel by cheating also some people get off on cheating I guess either way cheating is definitely not the best option and having good communication on one's wants and needs is the best choice for any relationship.
Because women doesn't like faithful men. Men with more experience knows that women like men who have options and other women wants him even guys who sleeps around are attractive to women. Few women appreciate faithfully but most see it as weakness , unfortunately this is how it works in the real world
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According to statistics more women in western countries than men cheat while it is the opposite in middleeastern/asia. Do not listen to the manwhores who Think they are programmed like this or they are like this because of biology. Good sane men dont cheat and so you can't generalize
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You can say the same thing about cheating women then
I think men are fickle minded and don't know what they want. Like once they might feel that they want this woman and the next day they might be like I want her. Some men are faithful while some still need to learn want kind of woman do they like?
Funny I refuse marriage because I feel a woman could do the same… except when she does it I have to pay alimony when I do it… I have to pay alimony… hum seems I gotta pay either way.
It’s not for me , and each man or woman who has affairs is likely to have their own reasons so ask them. Please don’t generalize all men as the same as clearly we are not !!
I ask the same about women Men used to cheat more than women but the number of men who cheated was 2/10 and women being 1.8/10. Maybe you are bad at picking partners? But don't feel too bad I was too for many years.
I should say are active cheaters, not that there aren't a higher percentage of those who have cheated at some point in their lives. 33% of women fantasize about having an affair with someone other than their husband.
Goes back to the survival of the species thousands of years age. Humans almost did not survive. A genetic study found that the human race was down to 600 breading females at one time. That is very close to extinction. Today I think the sex drive is more ego driven but the hard wiring of the male brain has not changed very much since we lived in caves.
You're just dating the wrong men. Or you're driving them to it - hard to say. Either way, it isn't hard for men to stay faithful. They just like to justify it like that to shift blame from themselves.
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Dirty, horny, unappreciative men/guys are unfaithful, narcissistic, pussy chasers. I really don't understand why God blesses men/guys to be with a girl when another guy who is much more faithful would be a better choice for her if she likes that better guy back.
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Men worked for their sexual status, women did not, therefore women do not command respect. As a guy goes up in income and status he doesn’t need to compromise.
Women are just as unfaithful of course, but it’s the inverse. The lower status you go the less women are going to be faithful.
It really isn't hard for us to stay faithful to one women. I know that I would have no problem rejecting any other woman. I love my girlfriend and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship.
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women love flocking to men who are already taken, making it harder for us to stay faithful while in a relationship. not saying its impossible but temptation is a thing
For some men it is. For others not. For most I think if a woman communication well about each others needs (sexual and other) in a honest and trustworthy manner many relationship issues including sexual can be resolved
Same reason women struggle to stay faithful to men, could be something in their background, the way they were raised. Some people simply can't stay with one person at an instinctual level.
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because he doesn't love you enough. trust me, if a man truly wanted you all to himself , he would have no problem committing to you. the concept that men are designed to spread their seed is a lie because if this was true there would be no such thing as marriage. Except marriage has existed for thousands of endless years.
Marriage exists solely from societal pressures and expectations and adherence to to those old expectations known as tradition. Rarely was love ever considered as reason for marriage in the past
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Marriage is monogamy. If men cannot do monogamy , it wouldn’t have worked for thousands and thousands of years.
This is my point
I don’t know why people on here have such low reading capability
Romance has never been a factor in marriage. Certainly you can marry someone without romance but it just makes it more difficult cus you have an option of better more passionate romance marriages
I have no problem reading but maybe you have a problem with critical thinking? All I am saying is monogamy or marriage has nothing to do with love it was invented as a declaration of an family alliances and financial reasons that is all so married couples were under pressure from their family and society to not cheat on each other and risk breaking those alliances. Your conclusion that marriage exists therefore men or people in general are not designed to cheat is false. They have nothing to do with each other. That's all I am pointing out... 🤷
Also arranged marriages with no romance involved do have a lower divorce rate so there is that too lol
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Not many people would be willing to stay in an arraigned marriage. i can tell you that. its just another recipe for disaster.
Yea I definitely wouldn't want to be in an arranged marriage either! Lol but statistically they for whatever reason have the lowest divorce rates most probably again because of family and society pressures
@vald9inches
well usually the only reason why a man won't commit to a woman is because he doesn't fulfill him in many ways. Sure he may like you, but if you're not number 1 in his life, he won't commit to you.
@vald9inches but you also need to realize that romance and feelings are fickle. they change over time. this is why divorces happen so much in countries where romance marriages are most common.
You are definitely right there! Romance and feelings and honestly people in general are very fickle creatures! Lol but at the end of the day everyone are doing what makes them happy and if everyone was happy in the world the world would be a better happier place right?
@vald9inches
i think that in order for us to have forever lasting marriages, people need to stop viewing marriage as a joy ride but rather as a union where both individuals care and support each other forever. All throughout history, marriage was more about caring and supporting each other, teaming up to raise kids than about romance.
It honestly makes me want to cry when I still see 75 yr olds who been married since they were 22. Such forever lasting marriage never exists anymore.
Because at a deep, innate, natural, biological, anthropological, scientific and evolutionary LEVEL, we are not monogamous creatures, we are actually POLYAMOROUS by "Default".
Go read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan. You'll be MIND BLOWN.
Because men are horny dogs duh! Lol but regardless of gender people are going to do what makes them happy and if they feel trapped in a relationship they will rebel by cheating also some people get off on cheating I guess either way cheating is definitely not the best option and having good communication on one's wants and needs is the best choice for any relationship.
Because women doesn't like faithful men. Men with more experience knows that women like men who have options and other women wants him even guys who sleeps around are attractive to women. Few women appreciate faithfully but most see it as weakness , unfortunately this is how it works in the real world
According to statistics more women in western countries than men cheat while it is the opposite in middleeastern/asia. Do not listen to the manwhores who Think they are programmed like this or they are like this because of biology. Good sane men dont cheat and so you can't generalize
You can say the same thing about cheating women then
Kid go troll somewherelse. You are not serious.
F off troll. Nobody can be that stupid. You are either extrem stupid and foolish or you are trolling.
Grow up yourself immature kid
So you make fake account of me?
Wow! @hi_it_is_me123 I was just going to say that!
I reported them.
Thankyou
You're welcome.
I think men are fickle minded and don't know what they want. Like once they might feel that they want this woman and the next day they might be like I want her.
Some men are faithful while some still need to learn want kind of woman do they like?
Funny I refuse marriage because I feel a woman could do the same… except when she does it I have to pay alimony when I do it… I have to pay alimony… hum seems I gotta pay either way.
It’s not for me , and each man or woman who has affairs is likely to have their own reasons so ask them. Please don’t generalize all men as the same as clearly we are not !!
I ask the same about women
Men used to cheat more than women but the number of men who cheated was 2/10 and women being 1.8/10. Maybe you are bad at picking partners? But don't feel too bad I was too for many years.
I should say are active cheaters, not that there aren't a higher percentage of those who have cheated at some point in their lives. 33% of women fantasize about having an affair with someone other than their husband.
Goes back to the survival of the species thousands of years age. Humans almost did not survive. A genetic study found that the human race was down to 600 breading females at one time. That is very close to extinction. Today I think the sex drive is more ego driven but the hard wiring of the male brain has not changed very much since we lived in caves.
It isn't.
You're just dating the wrong men. Or you're driving them to it - hard to say. Either way, it isn't hard for men to stay faithful. They just like to justify it like that to shift blame from themselves.
Dirty, horny, unappreciative men/guys are unfaithful, narcissistic, pussy chasers. I really don't understand why God blesses men/guys to be with a girl when another guy who is much more faithful would be a better choice for her if she likes that better guy back.
Men worked for their sexual status, women did not, therefore women do not command respect. As a guy goes up in income and status he doesn’t need to compromise.
Women are just as unfaithful of course, but it’s the inverse. The lower status you go the less women are going to be faithful.
Why is it hard for women to remain faithful? 11 years here 3 relationships… all cheated on me… this is a loaded question.
I had 3 relationships across the span of 7 years and they all cheated on me too
It really isn't hard for us to stay faithful to one women. I know that I would have no problem rejecting any other woman. I love my girlfriend and wouldn't do anything to jeopardize our relationship.
My special appreciation to Dr. Amigo for helping me to bring back my husband with your love spell am so excited we are now happily married, truly your love spell works without doubt and it has no side or negative effects. Viewers out there if you are passing through relationship problems I advice you to contact Dr. Amigo for his love spell. Cause his love spell can fix broken relationship within 24hours Here is his details Call/WhatsApp +2349058764985
It's not.
Please don't give them that excuse, lol.
Find someone who loves you and is on the same page as you.
Easy. for you to say.
Probably for the same reasons that women cannot stay faithful to one man. They want the excitement of having a different partner.
(It's not a male or female thing, it is a bad personality low morals human thing.)
women love flocking to men who are already taken, making it harder for us to stay faithful while in a relationship. not saying its impossible but temptation is a thing
For some men it is. For others not. For most I think if a woman communication well about each others needs (sexual and other) in a honest and trustworthy manner many relationship issues including sexual can be resolved
Same reason women struggle to stay faithful to men, could be something in their background, the way they were raised. Some people simply can't stay with one person at an instinctual level.