Am I ugly because of I'm not blonde?

[Anonymous]

My crush told me Im ugly cause because of im not blonde and have not blue or green eyes... mostly many men likes me what should i do?

[btbc92]

And this is why I say a person looks as nobody's personal business. He don't like you that's his business. He doesn't have the right to shame or degrade you for something you naturally that he feels that you're naturally not. Just ignore that type of guy. Because he sounds like somebody not even a blonde hair blue-eyed woman want. You not ugly. He just feels ugly about himself.

[btbc92]

That's another reason why you don't just speak to strangers and trying to get involved with them and another reason why you don't just crush on anybody because you'll be getting that type of person saying some unreasonable and unsolicited comments like that. Focus on the guys that do like you oral or is oral a tragedy of parents though it shouldn't have silly be the most important, and just ignore him.

[btbc92]

Overally, or is overally attracted to you apperance*

[Asker]

He is ugly nobody likes him but many guys like me think that I'm pretty only he makes me feel like this.. anyways thanks for this

[btbc92]

Do not stoop to his level and calling him ugly. Because what you say and what you do because the part of you. Never for once think in vanity that your looks is all that matters. How you carry yourself will determine whether or not a man is going to want you. That kind of attitude would not get you a good man.

[Asker]

Thanks for your advices I wish I could have someone near of me thanks again

[btbc92]

Your welcome. Please don't pay attention to that kind of person.

[ohshee]

You don't say a word you smile and this is where you kick him to the curb. Walk 30 minutes a day for 30 days at a fast pace every inch of your body will tone right up it will change the features in your face when you breathe fresh oxygen it clears your skin if milk makes your hair is more silky it makes your eyes open wider you breathing fresh air in your mindset will change your whole attitude will change to be more positive because you will see the difference in your body in yourself in your smile in your eyes and you will feel completely different and after that 30 days walk by him hey bro what's up you just keep walking can you say WTF

[ohshee]

Well either way but that was meant to say he will say WTF but it'd be better if you said it LOL

[OlderAndWiser]

This woman is not blonde, has one brown eye and one green eye, and has 32B boobs. . . and no guy on the planet would kick her out of bed!

[Asker]

Yes you're right just sometimes mens are so rude

[OlderAndWiser]

BOYS are rude. Men either appreciate the woman they are with or they move on, with no need to put down the girl who they are leaving behind.

[Pyrofox]

Men stick to facts not emotions if a man tells you he doesn't find you attractive its going to be an up hill battle to get remotely close to being something he's going to even think of taking on a date may as well forget a shot at being able to get to his flat.

[Buttonss]

Im very insecure so yeah i think not being blonde isn't attractive (its what men desire most in my country) and im obviously brunette, no one likes that, so i think its unattractive and would like to change my hair color.

[Asker]

I dont want to change myself but mans are so heartbreaking

[Slayerrrrrrr]

No you're ugly because you focus too much on what you can't change. You are very unique and even sexy & attractive to people you might not be aware of. Be proud of yourself, and fuck the haters telling you what image you should seek to be approved by them. You don't need anyone's approval. Be joyful, be content, be optimistic, be hopeful, be proud, be yourself.

[Asker]

Thanks this made me feel good

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Remind yourself daily until it just comes natural. You're the only YOU. Feel proud to be you. Focus more on learning about your strengths than focusing on finding weaknesses. You owe it to yourself!

[Asker]

Thanks dude really thanks

[Pyrofox]

Maybe should stop for a moment and just realize that just cause you find him attractive that doesn't mean he's going to suddenly want to date him. The unfair reaility is most "crushes" aren't meant to be. The whole highschool sweat heart thing is more often than not just a MYTH. If a guy doesn't want you at a certain point your just wasting your breath particularly if he ends up hooking up like with your largest rival. Far better to pursue what might ACTUALLY work out. Cause the reality is a guy will actually date a girl if they like them guys are factual not really emotionally built so if a guy tells you straight to your face they don't like you chances are thats a fact and not a trick.

[t-8900]

It's a preference. I like black or brown hair and brown eyes. That said I would never refer to blondes as ugly and I'd still even date them because even though I have prefer I'm still a guy. It doesn't mean I find blondes or redheads unattr, just less so. And looks don't determine long term partners. The guy you are talk to is a jackass manchild.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Orange county blonde and blue, lol, thanks bleeding through

anyway... unfortunately, you'll have to find a new guy, someone who actually likes your hair color and eye color

you're going to encounter people who don't like you, unfortunately. that's just who it works

[Fireguy17]

time to move on to someone who will treat you better like you deserve.
Sounds like he is very shallow, and will never find true happiness with someone because they will never measure up to his standards.

[CoolGuy7532]

That's dumb. He likes blondes. Personally, I like brunettes. He should accept you for who you are or move on.

[Ironic_Method]

My wife is a brunette with brown eyes and she's sexy as hell. Being blonde doesn't automatically make someone attractive.

[PatrickFusion]

You may not be his preferred type, but that definitely doesn't make you ugly.
Lots of guys are very attracted to dark hair and brown eyes as well.

[Asker]

He always says this and it makes me feel insecure...

[PatrickFusion]

He shouldn't say that and he may not be the right person for you.
I find darker hair and brown eyes very attractive so it's just a personal preference.

[Asker]

Thanks maybe you are right

[Yourfriend2021]

No that's not true, girls with any hair color can be beautiful.

[TheAfrikan]

You just be you one opinion does not mean no shit. Keeo your head up n be proud if whom you are. Since someone out there does wana be like you.

[ChrisMaster69]

Drop kick his arse and dump him.

what a load of bollox

[TallAnon]

No, he just wanted to build his own sex doll.
Most men I know prefer brunettes actually.

[Wise4myage]

He never had a crush on you, or he wouldn't have said that. So stop talking to that moron and don't let it affect your self confidence.

[Asker]

He said me that he loves me but I don't know, isn't all mens the same?

[Wise4myage]

Love means much more than sex.

[Asker]

At least someone thinks like this

[Wise4myage]

Thanks.

[VikingWarLord]

Show a gawdam pic of yourself or GTFOH!
There's no way for us to know if you're attractive or not to give you real advice

[Anonymous]

I know you like him, but that guy is stupid as fuck. I'm sorry that you're in love with him.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Get better taste in men

[Nachowedgie]

I mean, I prefer brunettes with brown eyes so

[Clarke498]

Lol no. Fuck him then.

[Asker]

Yeah I think I should do because he always talks about blonde girls

[Luckycharms12]

Don't let anyone put you down

[Asker]

Agree I will try

[Luckycharms12]

His loss you can do better

[jasco]

No he's just a asshole.