Do you only care appearance on people?

[Olalaa4]

This question is for everyone, guys and girls do you only look appearance for being partner with someone or you look more inner beauty? What do you care more and what do you prefer explain

[GoldenAxer]

I don't understand inner beauty. So I use my eyes, ears, nose, hands, maybe even my mouth sometimes, to try to understand a person. If all senses are in agreement, including my ears with what they say, and I feel like I can accurately imagine who they are and who are they, then I fall for that person. But if one of those senses detects something wrong, like a person who smells horrible to my nose with their body odor, I usually look somewhere else because I don't get to live hundreds of years to investigate if my nose misjudged a person.

[GoldenAxer]

[...] I feel like I can accurately imagine who they are and [/and I like who they are] [...]

[GoldenAxer]

I do judge a book by its cover with my eyes, and I do judge a dish by its smell with my nose. But I know my eyes can deceive me and make me confuse a good book for a bad one and vice versa, and the same with my nose. So I don't put 100% confidence in those types of senses. I just see them as helping me to piece together a puzzle of who someone is like.

[GoldenAxer]

... just like their words. I could tell you I'm the most confident and handsome man in the entire world. Should you trust my words? Every sort of "input" as I see is something worth distrusting a little bit, including our eyes and noses and ears and whatnot. They just offer clues to piece together a puzzle.

[InspecturGajit]

I can't lie. When a woman is attractive I notice right away. I had a few relationships based on lust in my 20's. Now that I'm a little older though and I have learned what it means to be in a reciprocal relationship I'm valuing character more and more.

[BonnieBoo]

I prefer a guy who treats me nice doesn’t matter what he looks like. As long as he’s kind to me I don’t care.

[PatrickFusion]

It's both. I'm gonna always look for women that I'm physically attracted to, and then figure out which ones are actually sweet, smart and easy going. The level of attraction they have for me is also a big factor.

[gag2021]

I've seen too many physically beautiful women with ugly personalities, which I'll stay away from.

[Ironic_Method]

Only? No. I want both.