Boyfriend likes to humilate me?

[Anonymous]

Infront of others, with ugly pictures or videotapes or yelking at me in public? WhY?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Because you let him.

I know that's not the answer you want, but let me ask you this: why are you with a guy that's obviously abusive?
You can be mentally, emotionally, and verbally abusive... not just physical before anyone says anything...

He humiliates you because you're still with him, so he feels like he has control over you, or you won't leave the relationship no matter how badly he treats you. Honestly, I would have left that piece of trash ages ago, but that's just me.

You're only hurting yourself the longer you put up with it because he's not going to change.

[Asker]

Yh but why?

[Asker]

Why pretend too like me

[pleasestopthis]

Some people need to belittle others to feel good about themselves. Break up with this loser

[ohshee]

What are you trying to do is manipulate you and let you believe that you're not worthy and if I was you I would walk away very quick but the bottom line is is he is showing how stupid he is by trying to belittle somebody that he calls his girlfriend both of those equal stupid and not in the right mind frame I would walk away if I was you don't you think you're worth more than that and to be with somebody better than that

[lightbulb27]

that's not a friend... don't know, maybe he was mistreated?

my brother used to do that to me, I never found out why. he stopped at some point and never did it again.

something messed up in them. decide if you want to deal with it, but you are going to have to confront it with him and he may fight to defend himself, expect that.

[Rob70]

Because he is a rotten person. He is not the type of guy you should date if he is going to do that. He may be a ok guy otherwise but if he is willing to make you feel bad he is a loser. Get rid of him and find a guy that treats you right

[Asker]

Yh but i feel really bad just giving him a part of me

[ChrisMaster69]

Drop kick him, why are you referring to him as Boyfriend and not Ex boyfriend.

[MrKinktastic]

If it’s not something you enjoy he’s abusing you. End the relationship.

[DarkWinterNights]

He sounds like a toxic abusive partner. Why are you still with him? Find someone who cares and respects you.

[Renegade_Sailor]

He has a humiliation fetish, he is getting off on this.

[noohair]

This is toxic and I would like to see you get away and find someone that respects you.

[Anonymous]

to break down your self esteem and self confidence so you don't leave him. it's emotional and mental abuse that could lead to physical abuse. typical control tactic

[Sam_The_Savage]

And still you calling him your boyfriend.

[Wise4myage]

He's got serious issues and you should dump him.

[anylolone]

With ugly pictures and videotapes? How's that?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't like you geniunely

[Asker]

Why pretend then?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he is getting easy sex

[Asker]

He dpesnt even want sex