Where to meet guys that are in their upper 20’s / lower 30’s?

[Whitneythegemini]

Where is good places to meet men in their upper 20’s and lower 30’s? Everywhere I go men always stare at me but never approach me and the ones that do are always creepy about ( aggressive dudes that follow me around for 20 minutes before getting the hint 🙄) I am wanting to start dating again and have no idea where to meet good guys at. That don’t want to play games and waste my time. I really don’t want to get on dating apps cuz I feel like a lot of people on there aren’t serious these days.

[VanillaSalt]

If ya don’t put out then ya don’t put out. I read some of your replies and they tell me you want someone to commit to you and to wait until your ready. The problem is for men it takes time to find one partner. Even more time to commit or risk much more than a broken heart.


I personally won’t commit to one woman until we’re for sure dating aka engaged. I don’t sleep around myself but it’s my choice until we’re committed. And especially if your not giving me any then don’t expect me to wait until YOUR ready without consideration on my part.


So basically. I have to put all my apples in the same Bastet and wait to profit from that basket of apples. In a time when that was common you’d have a much easier time and honestly ide prefer that even if waiting was hell. But look around. Sluts sluts everywhere and nobody interested in committing. Your best bet is to look in places that share your beliefs like a church or similar.


And to be clear I refuse to marry anyone without at least a year or two of exceptional intimacy. That’s why I refuse to wait till marriage.

[Whitneythegemini]

By commit i meant we are exclusively in a relationship. I wasn’t referring to marriage , but I also dont sleep with people right off the bat because that’s just gross to me & as a woman I need to respect and care for my body more than to just allow any and everyone in it lol

[VanillaSalt]

Agree with ya there. But making a man wait months for sex while being committed it’s too much. Gotta give something. And I don’t even care about sex it’s the intimacy.

[Interstate]

I think I have a general idea why they stare at you... look at your upper front half. That is generally the FIRST thing (most) guys will notice when they look at a Woman. But at the same time, these types are the ones who (in most circles are shallow, insensitive and a sad sweet-talker. But the BEST way to meet somebody is through a friend.

However, you need to remember too Whitney, is that there are MANY MANY MANY people out there who are always looking for the right person and going on dates, and never succeed. These are the ones who learn in the long run that relationships and marriage weren't in their destiny. That is why it is important to not overthink this, live your life as you always do, and move on with life.

[Alyssa11]

Honestly I felt the same previously due to covid and the effect that had on meeting new people. Since then, I've just been meeting new people through my normal daily activities. Just try to look nice I guess, approachable and friendly, and guys will approach you regardless of where you are :)

[VanillaSalt]

Where are you a big city or smaller town?

[Alyssa11]

City

[VanillaSalt]

I think city girls and country girls act differently. What I see from city girls makes me think women needs to be cleansed in fire lmao I realize it’s not all women but don’t matter if the good ones keep their mouths shut and never support men. That’s the problem with women these days they don’t know how to support. A small supporting voice is very loud when your alone and nobody is on your side which is how many men feel. It get it who wants men that can’t support themselves but then again what man wants a woman who complains about supporting them?

[K-I-S-S]

Go to a local bouldering gym. A for of climbing, it's fun, low height, no ropes. More of a tehnical stuff.

Lots of fit men and women there, very social environment. Most are 22-37 of age, in general.

Good luck.

And do be more active with approaching somebody you like.

[Hanrej]

Chances are you'll meet a lot of guys who arn't serious regardless of age.

Make your intentions known. Define what you mean by serious and make your profile both state what you want and what you offer. The right men won't argue, The ones that do know they can't please you.

[TheFlak38]

"That don’t want to play games and waste my time."
in other words you're a slut who banged billions guys already. You will never stop playing games. You just play them a little less. Now you seek the dumb beta who will put up with all fo your bullshit.

[Whitneythegemini]

Why was I expecting a roach like you to come along in these comments 🤣💀 I don’t have sex with someone unless we are in a committed relationship. By games I meant inconsistent communication & talking to multiple women or ghosting after I don’t have sex with them within the first month of knowing them. If you get no pussy just say that dude , your comment is giving off a lot of anger and self reflection vibes. Seek help sir

[TheFlak38]

inconsistent communication, ghosting and monkey-branching. yeah. pretty much exactly what every woman does. I think you're talking about yourself.

[Whitneythegemini]

I’ve literally never done that to anyone 😂 we’ve never spoken yet you make all these unsupported assumptions. You sound like you’ve had your little heart broken by a woman that was very lucky to get away from your bitter ass. Have a blessed day little boy 🙏🏽

[TheFlak38]

Yes Im sure you're a unicorn. Like every pink profile here on Gag. Amazing how each and every one of you claims to be a unicorn.

[TheFlak38]

now get blocked and bye attention ho.

[Anonymous]

Anywhere, and you should try online as well. Yes have low expectations, you do have to find the "needle in the haystack", but that's true anywhere. Unfortunately time wasting comes with dating and unavoidable. But I also suggest not waiting to be approached either, especially if you do find a guy that interests you. Ask him out!

[jamesgoldman]

Anywhere sporty... gym, swimming pool, tennis court or golf course

[DumBear]

Plenty of guys online. Get into gaming or anime. Try discord and join different communities that interest you.

[ohshee]

I'm going to see a weather station Upper 20s lower 30s

[Whitneythegemini]

A weather station? 😂

[AlexanderAnttila]

Through your circles of friends or friends of friends maybe?

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Go to clubs or pubs. Or find one who’s friends with your friends. I wonder why guys don’t approach you for dating coz I find you attractive

[anylolone]

Why don't you go to a dating app? Also, why don't you approach in real life? You are basically doing this here.

[nickaboy]

To meet us u will have to take iniative to go to one of those staring guys. We don't try anymore cause we get rejected too much

[Grubhub]

Anywhere, guys are everywhere. Don’t ever listen to people about don’t date at work. Love is so hard to find so don’t listen to those idiots

[Luckycharms12]

Loads places to meet them im 30 well before the virse bar music festival I can go on

[LEXXMIIN]

I know of a few pretty great guys

[ewok737]

Men's locker room at a health club !!!

[Anonymous]

Common friends or join local clubs in your city

[AntiChrist66666]

golf course

[livingnightmare]

college