Anyways. he asked on a date via FB messenger. I told him how shocked I was because I literally would never think I was his type. We talked about it. He said he would be back in town in 2 weeks and would call me and set something up then. About 2 weeks later, I never heard from him. I thought I'd reach out to him to see ask for his number so I could call him and set a day for us.
I was interested in seeing and getting to know him outside of the coffee place. I was attracted to him. But I just literally never thought anything more than that. I did when I first saw him. But, he never gave me the "vibes" that he was interested and I like to let men lead when it comes to dating.
Anyways, when I went to message him on FB. I saw he had unfriended me. I didn't understand why. But, my feelings were hurt and i felt confused. It's like he said, "nice guys finish last" but I have been going to that coffee shop for years and i have only given my number to 4 guys and he was one of them. And HE was the only one who didn't call. So, I guess he's not so much of a nice guy after all.
Anyways, a couple months later I ended up meeting a new guy and we started dating and I took him to the coffee shop. I saw the "nice guy" and we didn't talk. That was the last time I saw him. But, sometimes I wonder why he did that. It wasn't like I was a random woman from the bar. We actually had a pretty good report for a few years. What gives?