Guy Threatening To Block My Number?

[Anonymous]

So a guy has been threatening that he will remove my number and block me only because I'm trying to talk to him about my feelings. Like I've known this guy for a couple of years and we've always had a thing of hooking up. But I've always had really deep feelings for him, so I stuck with him. Well recently he asked me to move in with him because he felt that we should step up to the next level. He also told me that he liked me a lot. But after that when I tried discussing to him about the move, like how I couldn't go live with him right away, he would ignore me. I was starting to feel insecure because I remembered that when ever we hooked up, he would always ignore me. So I got a little upset and told him that I couldn't take it anymore and just told him what I thought about him. I would tell him that I felt like he is using me and I'm done with him messing with me. That's honestly how I felt because he didn't act like he really cared when he said he did. After I told him that, he got really mad and that's when he started threatening me about removing my number. He told me he was tired of me and to stop texting him or else he would block me. I felt like I was pleading mercy because I would tell him that the only reason why I told him my feelings was because I was concerned and that I was sorry. He then just told me to never talk to him and if I did, he would block me. So now I'm really scared because I feel so helpless. He never replied back to me after telling me he was blocking me. I can't do anything and I really do have deep feelings for him. So please any suggestions on what I should do? I already removed him from Facebook but I'm just really sad. I really feel guilty for telling him that but I didn't know how else to get his attention because he was already kinda of ignoring me when I told him I couldn't move in with him. So any suggestions on how to handle this situation? Is there any way to repair this issue? please and thank you

[Anonymous]

Forget him! Seriously, do you really want a guy that treats you like total sh*t? I hate to tell you Hun, but it sounds like this guy is verbally abusing you. Most men do this because it makes them feel like they're in control, or have power over a woman. Here is a check list for you to deal with the situation. It's worked for me, so maybe it'll help you.

1. STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM. Thinking about this guy will only make you sad, so don't do it.

2. BE WITH YOUR GIRLFRIENDS. This is no time to be stressing over guys, so have a few girls night outs, or act like your 11 and have sleepovers. Remember, do not mention his name.

3. START DATING AGAIN. When you feel like you can trust your heart to someone, date around. Do not sleep around, even though you might feel that sex can help you through the problems. There are amazing guys out there and would treat you like a princess. No more frowns or tears, these guys would bring you smiles and laughs.

4. COMMIT TO THE NEW RELATIONSHIP. Once you've gone on a few dates, pick the one you feel most compatible with.

5. ERASE ALL TRACES OF HIM. Gifts, pictures, phone number, everything that has to do with him is burned, thrown out, or deleted.

6. FORGIVE YOURSELF. You're not the one with the problem, it's him.

[Anonymous]

He doesn't love you or give you the respect you deserve. You shouldn't be giving this guy the time of day. If he feels like ignoring you, using you, and then blocking you, then you need to let him go. He treats you like trash, so walk out of his life and don't you ever look back. Even if their was a way to repair this relationship, I promise you it would never be what you deserve. You deserve a guy who can actually love you and give you respect. Imagine, a guy who will care about you, love you, and make you feel cherished. The guy you talk about is not this man. Don't give guys like him the time of day. You don't need him, he is a d***. I know how it is to have really strong feelings for someone, but feelings do pass. He is always going to hurt you, because he is a d***. He doesn't deserve your love or respect. Forget about him, move on. Your life will be so much better if you do. It will be hard at first, but over time, you will be glad you didn't spend more time on him. I wish you the best, girl.

[trifena]

Dnt repair the issue with this clown! Are you kidding? What do you want us to write? Don't let him block u, girl. Whatever. My advice is to stop talking to him, stop taking his calls FOREVER! Him threatening you is called manipulation. That will never help a relationship to work. He's trying to pull ur card. Dnt let him!

[MrAmazing]

He's an asshole. You deserve better and none of this is your fault in any way. Best bet is to spend more time with the people that care about you to, not only get the respect you deserve, but to also get him off your mind. It might be hard for a few months but in the long run it's much better for you. Just forget about him and find yourself a nice man.

[Anonymous]

maybe that's why you should be a man's come dumpster. just a thought

[dingobell]

Maybe that's why you shouldn't be a cunt. Just a thought. By the way, is your caps lock broken, retard?

[Anonymous]

you want a therapist, he wants a lover.