What are the biggest turn -offs for you when someone approaches you?

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worldscolide · Accepted Answer

If I'm dating? Smell, and if she looks like she has so much makeup on, it looks like a mask you can peel off.

The smell one though. It's not limited to bad smells. I have a stupid sensitive sense of smell, and if she wears too much purfume, it's a no no.. My wife learned this early on, she does wear it, but in small amounts.

To give an example of what I'm talking about. If the normal person can smell her from say 5 feet away, I can smell her from 30 feet away, and the closer she gets, the more my eyes water.. It's not their fault so it's not a deal breaker until after I have explained it.

My wife wears just enough that I can smell her when she walks in the room. Here is another funny thing. I can smell it weeks later even after the clothing has been washed lol. It's a curse.

I think it's part of why I like to cook so much. I love the smells.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

They make negative comments about my MAGA hat,

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Poor vocabulary or signs of blunted intellectual prowess - I met a guy who told me he used to be a drug addict and he had a dead look in his eyes as if he wasn’t processing things properly.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

When they are too arrogant and pushy.

Andres77 · Answer

There are a few guys that I'm forced into socializing with because of work functions.
Every single time I see them I start counting seconds until the conversation is ALL ABOUT THEM.
They never make it to 30 seconds. Never.
Self-centered and arrogant...🤢🤢🤢🤮.

tobipain · Answer

Someone who doesn't really care about their education, says that they like you but you end up trying to make things work. Also just depends how they approach you too, it's easy to see if a guy is a walking red flag.

readyplayer001 · Answer

funky breath

Grownlady8 · Answer

The gawking stares with roaming eyes. I mean does it take all of that or can this be done without being obvious in a subtle manner. Because we know people look, just have some tact about it.

Azura_88 · Answer

Unattractiveness Certain personality traits like overconfidence, ego, spineless, manipulative, etc.

serious · Answer

I don't allow anyone to approach me. I mean if they do then I will refuse. Respectfully.

Avicenna · Answer

Bad hygiene, bad conversation, arrogance. But that hasn't been a problem when I have been hit on.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If someone approaches me with extremely bad breath I move away from them

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If she's talking really loud. I like confidence, but not the obnoxious kind.

Mehzmeh · Answer

Odor!! If I can smell your body odor. It’s. Huge turn off!!

tomtom05131 · Answer

Poor hygiene, bad breath, ghetto speech, obvious and many tats, piercings beyond ears

pickedcrisps · Answer

They have a terrible soul or a rude bedside manner.

boxxie2002 · Answer

Arogance and cockyness. Someone who comes up and talks over the top of you, has a story about anything that gets mentioned, or they become an expert on you and what you like

AndrewMG · Answer

Arrogance and a lack of self awareness.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Turn offs Bad Breath Bad teeth Poor hygiene Pretty straight forward

scott04sa22 · Answer

pregnant girl: I'm pregnant but I'm datable 😁 Then weeks later she reunites with the father 🙄

DaveToo · Answer

The picture says it all.

PralineCream · Answer

Arrogant, pushy, too intense too quickly.

Michael49 · Answer

Bad teeth or smells like cigarettes

t-8900 · Answer

Yep hygiene. If it's poor go away!

DJB72 · Answer

Smelling of tobacco or weed. Instant softener

Anpu23 · Answer

Too much aggression.

krin_m · Answer

People who are full of themselves.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

1- bad breath 2- too loud 3- facial hair

zagor · Answer

Mental instability or addiction.

ChiPaPa · Answer

No one approaches me, lol

msc545 · Answer

Poor hygiene

Tim-loves-it · Answer

Odor, care of teeth, constant foul language

OnTheLevel · Answer

Poor hygiene

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