Why are SOME men so disrespectful nowadays?

Question

Inviting women to their house to shack and I wouldn’t get to a mans house unless we were dating.. between the advances for sex and sexual advances.. what has society become? Sex with a man I’m not dating no , but it seems this is what men expect

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Selection bias

The ONLY me. Who approach anymore are the guys like quagmire from family guy.

While normal men will only approach a women if he's %100 certain she wants him to, the sociopaths don't care and hit in women at a 100to 1 ratio vs normal men

A good example is the guys who hit on waitresses, mist men won't even do that because we know it's entirely inappropriate. She is at work, she has to be nice to her customer, now she's stick having to be nice to the creepy men who hit on everything with a pulse.

Women start to believe men are all like the few who behave this way because these men are often the only men who they meet because of this. It does not help to gave a media all to inclined to portray men as the outdated and mostly fails stereotypes.

Not all men are out looking for sex all the time, MOST MEN WOULD RATHER HAVE A REAL RELATIONSHIP.

But they aren't the men who women meet anymore, because the rules for properly approaching are unknowable and contradictory leading good men to come to the doctor bly conclusion they can , it's harassment to approach, so we don't.

Arandomhuman · Accepted Answer

As a Male I have noticed it, I'm still in high school and I find that Females act way better, nicer, and less idiotic then men, some men I can tolerate but others? . No, While I would rather some things I would never expect anything Sexual from a women, to me it's fucked up that other men just see women as "Sex things". I'm just losing hope for humanity at this point.

devilish-cutie · Accepted Answer

it was always like that, it just wasn't popular as today there are gentlemens out there, those you met just aren't

SofiSin667 · Accepted Answer

Hmm, maybe those recent feminist protests and my body my choice movements are sending out the wrong message.

fred_durst · Answer

they are just being brutally honest with what they want since early i think it is better than those men who acting like a nice guy on first impression , only to manipulate her so he can bang her later

Jlegacy · Answer

For every woman that says no to casual hook up, there is another saying yes.

Not everyone is cultured like you and these people make most men think all girls are that way.

In my experience, many girls would have a casual hook up with a kind, well to do cute guy.

My advice is be yourself and stick to your rules of engagement.

Anonymous · Answer

Our society. Women are just as bad. No joke or exaggeration. We seem to be in a society where not only is disrespect "ok", but even "normal". Look at how many people think ghosting is nothing at all and "everyone does it". It's one of the most disrespectful and selfish things you can do in my opinion.

SaoirseS · Answer

Some people’s children and upbringing I guess. Some people (both genders) struggle with saying please and thank you.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Then don't date. Not everyone wants to date or want sex. You're only paying attention to men that do that and your celibacy has nothing to do with the acts of other people. Why so critical and smug about something that it takes two people to do? People will always date. You just pay attention to the people that Catch your attention.

jasco · Answer

I mean why would men be respectful anymore? their are so many places that you can get laid and stuff that their's really no reason being nice to anyone other than common being a decent human being. Most guys want sex, so just ask for it and see what happens is their thought process. Morals are gone, see that in all forms of media. No one cares anymore

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Most women today are engaging in casual sex. If you're in your 30s men are going to assume you're not an innocent virgin. So add that together and a proposition for casual sex is quite reasonable.

Do I think its good? No. But men react to reality. If women are sleeping around they are going to make use of whats available. y'all women are making sex so common and easy with no strings attached why do you expect us to put any effort or anything into you? Just saying.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Only a small percentage of men expect that, but most women refuse to go after respectful guys, and most of us won't make the first move, or we want a girlfriend who shares our hobbies because we are interested in a relationship, not a hump and dump.

Anonymous · Answer

Women too often string guys along intentionally or unintentionally. Sex is an investment, something actually coming from interacting with the person. Sex says you mean it, otherwise you can say all sorts of nonsense or good things about me, but it could all be bullshit. Everything a girl says rings kind of hollow without an action to back it up.

Lynx122 · Answer

If you wana be celibate you should look in very religious places I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

This is the bed you women have made for yourselves. You might as well get comfortable in it because it's not going to change in your lifetime. It took you forty years to fuck up male-female relations this badly and it's going to take you at least that long to fix it, it that's even possible. But first you'll have to acknowledge your mistake and make an effort to fix it.

Good luck with that.

Better_off_here · Answer

not all men see women as objects, but most do. the ones that do are immature and they have a strong desire for sex and nothing else. it seems you have met the wrong men.

lien2021 · Answer

Not all men are like that but yeah, its happening now days.

Anonymous · Answer

I see this to be mostly a problem in America. Parents are lacking on their job.

Anonymous · Answer

Because liberals run the education system and enforce all sorts of sexual deviance

Clarke498 · Answer

Ffs. Some do. Some don't. Like everything else.

CreamySeed · Answer

Fuck you bitch im not disrespectful shut up and die and you smell of elderberries

Anonymous · Answer

Are you married? Are you a virigjn?

OddBeMe · Answer

Shut the fck up.

msc545 · Answer

So don't date men.

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