The height I consider consider short ("not tall", for some of you) for a man is 5'11"/181 cm, or less. At such a feminine height, I cannot consider any adult male to be tall, in any conceivable way. That is also my height and I intensely despise it. You're short, but "not short enough to complain about it" (according to others; I still complain).
SHORT ANSWER: FIVE-FOOT-ELEVEN AND LESS IS SHORT FOR A MAN, IN MY OPINION.
For other lesser heights that are also not tall, I consider them as such:
- SHORT MAN: Any adult man less than six feet/183 cm tall.
- SHORT WOMAN: Any adult woman less than 5′7″/170 cm tall.
- REALLY SHORT MAN: Any adult man 5′6″/167 cm or less.
- REALLY SHORT WOMAN: Any adult woman 5′2″/157 cm or less.
- DWARF Any adult person less than 4′11″/150 cm, as defined by its legal definition. A dwarf would be around the 4′6″-4′11" range.
- LITTLE PERSON (Midget): Any adult person under 4′6″/137 cm. A Little Person wouldn't exceed this height, which would separate them from “extremely short" into Little Person status.
How Society Values You, Based on Your Height: The Chart. And no, nobody GIVES A FUCK what the "median" height is. "Average" is worthless and meaningless. Who TF wants to be insignificant and worthless in society? People who try to claim "average" as some kind of positive are people worth ignoring; they clearly have no standards.
And although the true genetically optimal height all adult human males are supposed to be is 184 cm (6'0.5"), what people consider "tall" and "short" is 100% subjective. Like how the "average American" can have a high BMI and still be considered "fat" even while being "average."
In other words, "average" is not optimal or satisfactory. In fact, in most cases, it's the total opposite. "Average" is fucking Shit-Tier. It's called mediocrity for a reason. Don't be a loser. Don't settle for "average" and call it "good enough." Have some goddamn standards for yourselves.
And just for fun, here's a man's chances of getting a woman, based solely on his height. Since I, you know, studied human height extensively for several years in college and beyond.
6′1″/185 cm (ideal male height) = 74% chance (highest)
6′2″/188 cm = 68% chance
6′0″/183 cm = 65% chance
6′3″/190 cm = 62% chance
6′4″/193 cm = 56% chance
6′5″/196 cm = 51% chance
5′11″/180 cm = 45% chance
6′6″/197 cm = 45% chance
5′10″/177 cm = 39% chance
6′7″/200 cm = 38% chance
5′9″/175 cm = 37% chance
5′8″/173 cm = 33% chance
5′7″/170 cm = 28% chance
6′8″/203 cm = 25% chance
5′6″/168 cm = 23% chance
5′5″/165 cm = 16% chance
6′9″+/206+ cm = 15% chance
5′4″/163 cm = 13% chance
5′3″/160 cm = 9% chance
5′2″/157 cm = 5% chance
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+1 yAround here, I'm "average' at six two.
When I lived in Colorado and Florida I was considered "tall' which is weird. Women actually payed attention to me and I'm not completely invisible to them. It's always a strange experience when I travel. I feel like gulliver.20 Reply
Anonymous(30-35)+1 y5’9 or under. Depends on the girl’s height as well.
But it’s mostly about the confidence I feel.
I use to date this guy who was 5’9 or 10ish.
I am 5’6 and slender and an inch or two obviously adds to my height
Height wasn’t an issue for me, but over the years I started to realise, how he barely walks next to me, it’s either ahead or behind me. Not only that, he would call me a shorty or I am so much shorter and stuff like that. Then he lost few pounds which made him look 3-4 years younger than he is then he started to call me giant or an oldie then I called it off and now he’s dating someone super short and 4-5 years younger than him. 🤧00 Reply
+1 yI wonder if being called "Shorty" is referring to body size or dick size?

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1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. 5'10" is global male height average, so technically speaking, anything under that could be defined as short.
Yes, standing next to a 5'6" does feel short.17 Reply- +1 y
@Riadsh I've never refused a guy based on height. I always chose who to date based on other traits - most of which were their personality and our compatibility. I've dated lots of guys who would be considered 'short.' One was even shorter than me I think.
Did I like it? No. But it's a shallow thing to base a partner on it so I didn't let it dictate who I was with.
It's not just "You can't change who you're attracted to." It's about standards and expectations, and how you value yourself, and what others think of you. I shows an insecurity, for a girl to insist on her man to be very tall. She feels vulnerable and wants to feel that she can be weak, next to him, he is 'strong' and will protect her. She also cares about her image, and how society will see her. She thinks the better he is, the more positively it will reflect on who she is, what she could 'get.' - +1 y
@Jz8shdhs I presume you meant that comment for me but you tagged incorrectly.
And if that's the case...
I'll say anything I want and chat with whomever I want. And you know what? I'm not lumping myself in the same company as other girls/women who make very different choices than me.
Would I have preferred to only date tall men, the hottest men? Well fuck yeah. But I didn't. I dated, as I said, with other priorities, and I am proud of that fact, and I will not be lumped in with the bitchy and superficial girls who blame men and complain about men, say "there's no good guys out there" because they filtered everyone out who isn't 6' or above. Fuck that. And fuck any girl who says "you can't control who you're attracted to", and "all girls think like this."
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+1 yActually, anything under about 5-8 poses problems for those guys. I think the average height for women in america is about 5-6 or 5-7, so they're fine, but any taller women are looking at taller guys.
What difference does it make to YOU? This is a guy thing. You get to pick what YOU want.00 Reply When you start adding half's or three quarters to your height, you are definitely short lol... I'm 6'4 period.
30 Reply500 opinions shared on Dating topic. So what is short for a girl because I am 5’6 and I’m sick of people calling me tiny even though I am very small boned and frail (size 0) so I can’t tell if people speak of my height or my width.
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+1 yAnything shorter than me. I'm 161cm (I think that's 5'2, 5'3, I'm not sure), so I don't mind if I guy is considered short if he's at least a tiny bit taller than me. But I do like a tall guy...
01 ReplyBelow 5'4 is something I will consider small for men. My dad and one of my cousin brother have this height and I haven't seen any boy below this height who is above 18 years.
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+1 yAnything other 7 feet tall, just kidding 😂 I’d say maybe like 5’5 or something. It’s more about the personality ☺️
10 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Maybe like 5'4 is short for a guy but being short isn't a issue for me I actually prefer being with a smaller guy
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Depends greatly on the other person.12 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Anything shorter than 5' 9" is short for a man in my opinion.
5' 4" and under is a manlet. lol00 Reply
+1 yFor me 5 ft 2 or under would be short, that would not effect if I'd date them or not.
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5 ft 6
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No, if I found them attractive it wouldn't matter
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And I mean personality is part of what makes someone attractive.
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Not seen a lot shorter, one or two in last few years.
ya that is accurate to me too
i am 6'6 so think everyone is short haha10 Reply
+1 yI dont give a shit about height. Treat me right, thats all I ask.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIm tall so any man my height or shorter is short to me. I prefer looking up to a man. I feel like he's my dad. If he's my heght i feel like we are equal and i dont want to be equal to a man at all. Ofcourse if he manages to dominate me regardlessnf heiht then im open to it. Also very short guys are a curiosity to me as well. I can be like a tall sexy pretty giraffe and he can grab my waist and i can be his palm treem its kinda sexy if a short man can dominate a tall giraffe. I want that too.
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Opinion Owner+1 yI wanna bend down and feed my boobs to short man and kiss his forehead. And i want him to grab my thin long arms and restrain me. I want to wrap around my short man. He can climb me in bed and its sexy.
I'm almost 5'10 so anything below that xD or anything below 5'8 tbh. But I don't mind dating a short guy at all. ❤
10 Reply10.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Avrage is 5"9 in the UK so anything under 5"6 I would say
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+1 yMy boyfriend is a 5'8 cutie 💕still way taller than my 5'1 butt :,(
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI’m 5’7 so anything under me is short for me. And 5’8 and 5’9 is also hella short for me. I can’t date a guy who isn’t at least noticeably taller than me.
00 Reply529 opinions shared on Dating topic. I think for Europians 5'8 and less is quite short. Of course in different ethnicities (like East Asians or Indians) it differs.
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+1 y5'6 is not short for a man, that is basically standard height but I'm 5'9 and I do see the difference in some
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Ehh yea I could see that I guess
5’9.. I’m 5’9. I’m taller than a lot of women in my family and overall just a lot of girls that I know
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+1 yProbably 5'5" or smaller, depending a little on nationality
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+1 yI’m 6’1 and I consider myself very short my cousin is 6’3 he said bruh you at my chin your not short lol
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My cousin had a star wars themed wedding. I went to rent a costume. They wanted to rent me a Chewbacca costume as it was my size..
I turned it down as I'd be the shortest guy there (he's 6'8" and his brother is 6'9") I told them I turned down the costume and he said "my brother tried to rent the wookie costume but it was to small on him".. - +1 y
Dude… you have no idea.
+1 yI'm 5'4 and I'm indifferent about it. Dont really care. its just height.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI am 5’2 sooo anything less is short to me anything more i find tall
00 Reply5'6 and under , would you date a short guys?
Not shorter I mean short like me a little bit under 5'6 but not 5'5 .. 167 cm01 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yAnd they consider over 130 lbs fat for a female.
Good luck to you10 Reply
+1 yfor me since i’m 5’7, 5’8 is short to me but in general i’d say like 5’7 and below
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+1 yLess than 5'7 for a guy and less than 5'2 for woman
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I wouldn't mind it if he's extremely good! too good to be real!
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMost women wouldn't find you short if you're taller than them. Thats all that matters. So the trick is, date short women
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI'm 5'9 if a girl is taller or thinks I'm short i'd still beat her ass lol
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+1 yI'm 5 foot and im a girl lol
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+1 y5’4 for me since I’m 5’3
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+1 yLike 5'8 and below is short
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+1 y5'7"/1.7m or shorter is small for a man
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 ybelow 5 foot 10 inches chile !
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+1 yIf he's shorter than me. I'm 5'4"
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+1 y5’8 and under in the US.
00 Reply2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Napoleon Bonaparte was 5'6"
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+1 y5'8" is kinda short in my opinion.
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I have a friend your height and have foot fetish on her , I like to kiss or play with her feet , I am shorter than her and would like to date her not for love just for having fun time together and some EXTERNAL sexual acts like kissing her feet or playing with her boobs , maybe give me a blow job or hand job.
Would you run such relationship? - +1 y
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@Riadsh Sensible people don't randomly whip their fetishes out and start talking about what they want to do to someone's feet, armpit, whatever very noice kink they have that the wast minority of people would find weird. You keep that sort of stuff to fetish dating sites, or to people you have some sort of relationship, and not to random strangers.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI consider any height under 180cm to be short.
11 ReplyUsually under 170 cm is in the shorter side.
00 Reply468 opinions shared on Dating topic. 5'7 and under
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Watching this guy…
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Haha yes I have Napoleon complex 😅 - +1 y
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@Cherry234
Thanks for giving me confedience ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ - +1 y
@Still-alive Haha it's okay. Thanks
+1 y5’8” or less.
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+1 yAny man below 5"5.
00 Reply 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. 5’7” and under.
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+1 y5’5 and under
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00 ReplyUnder 177cm.
00 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. 5'5 ish
10 Replyunder my height
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+1 yShorter than me.
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+1 yThat’s ME! Lmfao
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 y5'9" and below.
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+1 y5'8 is short enough.
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+1 yLess than 5’6”
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+1 yI don’t know
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yless than 5/7
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