I have somewhat been talking to this girl online lately. She is 18; I am 27. I keep telling her I am determined to marry her. You think we will make a great couple?HerMe
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What do you think about a 27 year old guy with an 18 year old girlfriend?
Here you aren't adding details that can speak about the predictable health of your couple. You aren't talking about anything in common, any issue, any tested communication skills when confict happened sometimes, and so many other things. You see the health of a relationship by how good you (both) deal with conflicts and problems and by how much the partners are aware of their toxic tendencies and how to smooth them for the sake of the relationship. Mental compatibility is also a big factor since we're not anymore in the 1950s where people just had fixed distant roles and a life on defined rails. (Not that such couples were healthy, though, mostly they were abusive towards the wife who just resisted hard and canceled her individuality and this is why they lasted). A good couple is never made by "destiny", by age or by just your appearances, and it's not really wise to expect to marry someone with just so small data. You even say you talked with her "lately" yet you talk about marriage without even aiming at living the relationship years part, which is instead the determining phase to understand if you feel to make it forever or not. Rushing it is a very bad red flag, sorry. I would be strongly repulsed if someone I date starts talking about marriage because it's like talking with someone who isn't realistic at all and who just has made his mind up, putting some expectations on me I never even hinted about. We can tell you if your marriage will be good or bad only if you were together for some time (and quite long), perhaps co-living for some, and you reported here the pros and cons of the relationship. Now it's way too early to even predict if the early relationship will work... So yeah, for me this is just a 50-50 chances, no idea. Age gap is bigger at this age than it would be if you both were 10+ years older, and it could cause problems but it depends also on many other factors.
An important thing: do not show photos of other people without their consent, you'll never know if she wants to be shown and associated to you or to details you add. I would be very disturbed if someone shows my face somewhere without my consent, and for sure many other people would.
Yes she legal age but really don’t think she’s mature enough for marriage and me personally think she’s to young to date a 27 year old but that’s just my opinion and I’m not all knowing and who knows she could be really mature and all that. Really if she was say 21 and you were 30 I wouldn’t think anything of it. What’s she gonna do if you wanna go out clubbing or bar hoping she’s gotta stay home.
She has never had a boyfriend and is a virgin. The only thing that really bothers me is that she has had a male friend whom she had feelings for at one point. What if she can reunite with him later in life and discover he was meant for her afterall?
I have never had a real girlfriend, no. I lost my virginity at age 20 to a 16 year old girl (also a virgin), but she wanted nothing to do with me after that weekend so it was just a weekend fling/hookup. As of last year, I had an online thing with this girl for several months, but she discovered I wasn't her type when I met her for the first time in person.
Did you actually met her in person have you two have time to get to know each other don't jump into marriage without getting to the know the girl first.
When I was your age I loved 18 year olds for the very reason I know why most men do. I can’t tell you if it’s going to work or not. That’s something special between you and her.
