Is she leading me on?

[Anonymous]

She is 37(f), I'm 36 male. Had been seeing each other for a few weeks and our values, morals and interests all align. Everything was going great, then all of a sudden she called it quits. Her reasoning, she felt chemistry was there but not to the extent she was looking for.

She ended it two weeks, this past Sunday. However still communicates with me daily and sends selfies and pictures, some in bikini body shots. Have hung out a couple times since she decided to call it quits.

My question is, do you think there is a shot to reconnect and become a relationship and she needs more time to get to know me ( commitment issues on her part? ) or is she just leading me on and trying to be friendly since we didn't end on bad terms and I'm wasting my time.

[Joeshamo]

It sounds like to me she doesn’t really know what she wants. You’re a good guy and she still left you. She even admitted that the chemistry is there. I think she has unrealistic expectations on what a relationship should be like. For now, you should just date someone else, if she comes to her senses after and wants to come back then maybe try it out again. But I wouldn’t wait if I were you. You’re 36 and running out of time. But That’s just my opinion, I’m not expert on relationships. That’s what I’d do.

[slatyb]

She sounds like a flake. Are you sure you want to see her again?

[Avicenna]

Probably just being friendly until some other guy enters her life and gets her attention

[Morgador]

Sounds to me that she doesn't want a real relationship and she wants a boy toy

[Anonymous]

Sounds like she wants an ego boost

[In_Trance]

Yeah