It depends on the answers she would give me about it later. A girl is less of an immediate threat, but I would be watching for signs of emotional investment that would suggest there is more to it than it seems.
I would break up with her. I do not date bi girls. If it was a deep, open mouth romantic kiss (not a friend peck) I do not stay with anyone who did that to me.
This is the fine line of consent and being understanding with your partner. I'm okay with my girlfriend making out with other girls but if she does it behind my back then it's different. It's really about finding a mutual agreement. No answer will be the same because every relationship is different.
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Lmao I like how they guys say "I don't desire to be with a lesbian"... They don't desire to be with you either. Think people. There is a word that would make more sense. Bisexual is the word.
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Depends on the context.
If she goes into it with the attitude that "it's not cheating because it's with a girl" then that's going to be a problem. I'm basically just going to see it as cheating and having no respect.
If she is concerned that it's cheating and consults me then it could be okay, although I wouldn't appreciate her indulging herself too readily without me. If I get to indulge as well, then we're okay.
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Wel my boyfriend is not interested in being with a bisexual woman even if the sexual interest in women was only 1%. He wants a 100% hetero woman. I am 100% straight so he is happy with that. He wouldn’t be with a woman who kisses other women.
I wouldn’t consider it cheating to kiss. But anything further would be if the man wasn’t present and didn’t know. It’s another thing if he was there and aware
I wouldn't see it as too much if ab issue depending on how she felt about the girl. I'll ask you this though, how would you feel if your boyfriend kissed a guy?
I don't care who she kissed in the past, just want to make sure she isn't planning on kissing any other men or another woman if we are currently dating. I don't care if she is bi or not but I don't do well with cheaters not in the slightest.
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Well I'd like to know WHEN she did it, because if it was while we were dating, I'm gonna go ahead and walk away. I'm not going to deal with someone who hasn't figured herself out.
If she asked me if it was alright first, then I would probably say yes. But only if it was in a private, poorly lit environment. And only if I get to watch.
lol of course it is cheating if you didn't talk about that with your partner. exclusively when you talked about it with him and he is ok with it, only then it isn't cheating.
If I had a girlfriend and I witness her kissing another girl. I would dare her to go a little farther with pussie to pussie with dildos and scissoring and sucking. 💞
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It depends on the answers she would give me about it later. A girl is less of an immediate threat, but I would be watching for signs of emotional investment that would suggest there is more to it than it seems.
I would break up with her.
I do not date bi girls.
If it was a deep, open mouth romantic kiss (not a friend peck) I do not stay with anyone who did that to me.
This is the fine line of consent and being understanding with your partner.
I'm okay with my girlfriend making out with other girls but if she does it behind my back then it's different. It's really about finding a mutual agreement. No answer will be the same because every relationship is different.
Lmao I like how they guys say "I don't desire to be with a lesbian"... They don't desire to be with you either. Think people. There is a word that would make more sense. Bisexual is the word.
Depends on the context.
If she goes into it with the attitude that "it's not cheating because it's with a girl" then that's going to be a problem. I'm basically just going to see it as cheating and having no respect.
If she is concerned that it's cheating and consults me then it could be okay, although I wouldn't appreciate her indulging herself too readily without me. If I get to indulge as well, then we're okay.
Wel my boyfriend is not interested in being with a bisexual woman even if the sexual interest in women was only 1%. He wants a 100% hetero woman. I am 100% straight so he is happy with that. He wouldn’t be with a woman who kisses other women.
I wouldn’t consider it cheating to kiss. But anything further would be if the man wasn’t present and didn’t know. It’s another thing if he was there and aware
No. I was just giving my opinion to the question ……
Yup.
Yes.
Yes, no and no and yes
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I wouldn't see it as too much if ab issue depending on how she felt about the girl.
I'll ask you this though, how would you feel if your boyfriend kissed a guy?
If my boyfriend kissed another man, unless it was a dare or something, then I'd dump him asap. It IS cheating
Why would a dare make it ok?
I kissed a girl and I liked it, taste of her cherry chapstick🎶
Me singing that song as a kid, not realizing it was foreshadowing 🤣
I don't care who she kissed in the past, just want to make sure she isn't planning on kissing any other men or another woman if we are currently dating. I don't care if she is bi or not but I don't do well with cheaters not in the slightest.
Well I'd like to know WHEN she did it, because if it was while we were dating, I'm gonna go ahead and walk away. I'm not going to deal with someone who hasn't figured herself out.
Otherwise, I wouldn't resent her for it.
HER lips... HER choice.
The REAL question was the type of kiss, each's reaction, and 'why' she chose to do it.
If she asked me first and I was ok with it, or we agreed to some type of understanding beforehand, that would be ok.
You mean while we were dating?
Hmm...
If she asked me if it was alright first, then I would probably say yes.
But only if it was in a private, poorly lit environment. And only if I get to watch.
If he's ok with it then nah its not cheating. But thats a discussion y'all gotta have before hand in private.
So many guys here are so creepy. They're more concerned about their sex drive then they are the state of their own relationship.
I would feel the same as if she kissed another man.
lol of course it is cheating if you didn't talk about that with your partner. exclusively when you talked about it with him and he is ok with it, only then it isn't cheating.
If I had a girlfriend and I witness her kissing another girl. I would dare her to go a little farther with pussie to pussie with dildos and scissoring and sucking. 💞
Asker, you're actually the reason that bisexual women are sexualized rather than taken seriously and treated with respect.
Take her to the zoo