Depends on the situation. If I saw it happen when she wasn't expecting me to see, then I dont care how straight she claims to be it would warrent a discussion.
If we had spoken about it before hand depending on her reasoning I might be fine, and in the same vein if she came and told me she had kissed a female friend while drunk, but it wasn't her thing I would be a little iffy but not too put out.
If she kissed a girl in front of me to make me jealous it might piss me off for instance... its a really contextual thing. An ex was bi-curious (she found girls very sexually appealing but generally found female personalities to be obnoxious and couldnt ever see having a relationship with one, lol) and we discussed it, and I told her I was fine with her exploring kissing etc as long as she told me (because I dont want things going on behind closed doors and lying to start), but I was open to the idea of her doing more but would want to discuss it should things go that way.
Answered "Yes" in response to your last question rather than the question title which as I have explained is circumstantial).
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Well that's a fascinating question... If I caught my girlfriend making out with another girl... My penis is confused... I think I would be mad in the end since, regardless of gender, she is cheating on me with another person.
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Lots of women kiss. If it was just a touch of the lips and over, then it is just friendship and no big deal. If it was a longer kiss, or a more involved kiss, then she is NOT completely straight and is only fooling herself. And then it is cheating.
My girlfriend sent me a pic of her kissing of friend during her bacholorette party. I still keep it !
She can kiss any girl she want anytime she want! I just want to know about it to get turn on :)feedyoursoul.com/.../pouting-kid.jpg
Yes , a bit.If I'm like in love with this chick. Hell yea. I'd be pissed. If I'm sort of wondering if I'm really serious about her then I'd probably even be thrilled.
A romantic type of kiss? Then hell yeah I'd be pissed. I'd break up with her in that scenario.
Its still cheating but Id be more likely to forgive that than if she had kissed a guy
Well I'd go to the nearest guy and start tounging him... How would she like it when you do it back at her hmmmm
That's cheating, in my book, even if she's straight. That'd be enough for me to end the relationship, right there.
It's still cheating, why would I be okay with that?
No I'd be turned on to be honest and if it ends up making her realize that she is lesbian form a kiss from a girl then she obviously wasn't the person for me.
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