Girls, are average looking men dateable?

[Anonymous]

Or have things changed now to the point where not even average looking men have a chance anymore

[GoldenCage]

I'd rather an average looking man (even though that's subjective) because I might think he's average and he'd not like me. I wish things worked that simple. Life hurts.

[Asker]

Seems like most women even average looking women don't want average looking men

[GoldenCage]

will I didn't speak to all women. And I can talk only about myself. Looks don't work like that. He might think he's average and I might think he's handsome.

[Asker]

Trust me ma'am, a guy will know where he stands with women if women aren't attracted and he's invisible

[GoldenCage]

nah that's what you want to believe. I have liked guys who didn't like me back. I thought they're good looking. my ex always used to say that I'm above his league and wasn't very comfortable that I was the better looking one especially at the beginning. He was honest about it. He initially had issues with men looking at me in the street or if we go party. Eventually he understood that being insecure only hurt our relationship and stopped it.

There was this particular guy I really liked and thought he was handsome. He didn't think that of himself. It wasn't easy because I really wanted him. Anyway that ended sadly.

I'm not the hottest girl in town but I'm good looking woman. And it's not easy to like insecure men.

[Asker]

Let's agree to disagree. I stand by my opinion and its not changing

[GoldenCage]

Well that's fine and it's up to you to believe whatever you want to believe

[Asker]

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[Starwitch23]

Yes they are

[Asker]

Doesn't seem that way but okay